in response to the stuff kamlesh, i didn't want to write in that topic...i don't know what to say...i think you were talking about the character and your feelings on him...but it is quite easy to understand a father would be pist off at his wife's ex-lover's son....because for god's sake its his daughter...anyone would feel that...and though, bajaj has done wrong things, so have a lot of other people...and i think if you should have chosen your words more wisely, bajaj fans wouldn't have gotten mad...i know i rarely choose my words wisely, i really think its just a geographical difference...but some people and i'm not blaming them, can't seperate the character from the actor...its bizarre...but its true...a character isn't all good and isn't all bad...like humans...we needs to acknowledge that soul...that exists in us...that is sometimes, mysterious, often, unpredicatable, and always changing...i think this isn't the right forum to discuss characters because ppl get offended very easily when you are trying to have a productive conversation...but to have one you must choose the right words, and i have to say you chose very bad words, like suicide and death...if you don't like bajaj, use facts, but such sentimental feelings will be projected by bajaj fans too...and i think this whole discussion is stupid because ppl just can't focus on the character.
can't some see that they actors are so damn good, that they can play their character so well...anu and bajaj are both wrong and both right, for different circumstances...but kamlesh this isn't the forum to discuss it, so i've stopped trying..because its considered offensive, and i don't want to offend anyone, because to me this is pass time, and nothing else.
it doesn't matter to me, but it matters to others, and i have to respect their feelings, so should you i suppose....i'm like gonna stop posting because i don't even watch the show anymore, and frankly, there is more feeling than thought on this forum.
that's okay, its cool...just forget it, just talk about the safe things in life.
(if you get how i'm writing and now what i'm writing, perhaps, you'll understand kamlesh what i'm really saying...life is too short to have fights with things that don't matter, you want to talk about characters...i'd talk to you, i like both anu and bajaj, pm me, and we'll have a lively discussion but lets not write in a live forum where ppl's feelings will get hurt.
so, on behalf of anu fans, i apologize to bajaj fans, i hope he doesn't die on the serial, becuase he's a character but he means something to you, and that's why he means something to me.
peace.
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