Somehow, I felt bad for Anurag today.....

Hi there,

I do not know how many fans Anurag has in here and even I am no fan of him. I like Rishabh a lot, Prerna too , even though my loser lovebirds PM are my absolute faves....but my liking for Anurag has always oscillated between 😡 and 😳😛.

I know that Anurag is no great shakes or as strong as Prerna and Rishabh.....but something about him has always been endearing.I can't really pinpoint what, though.

He has committed blunders in his life , no doubt but I can never deny the fact that he and destiny have punished him more than what was bargained for. He has always been this silent sufferer...wanting everybody's happiness and peace and going out of his way to protect the people he loves. And yet, he is all alone...Prerna, Sneha, Prem....they all have drifted away and he can't even call them as his own. It's almost as if he is standing outside in the freezing cold.....looking through a glass window into a house where he can see his loved ones smiling......away from him.

I still don't understand why Rishabh lost his head at Anurag.....Rishabh is such a mature and intelligent man and it has been told to him openly that it was a plot, a created misunderstanding and anyone could have been deceived. Then, why put Anurag in the criminal's circle alone? Even Mukti ended up misunderstanding the whole situation...it's just a human fault!

I know most people here take Anurag to be a crybaby, a sissy, a loser and what not......but when you look deeper, you feel a certain kind of respect for him for all the sacrifices and punishments he has taken upon himself for Prerna's happiness and his own redemption. He is not a rocking go-getter like Rishabh, but he holds his own pride.I still remember the day he told Prerna that she should move ahead in life because he is not worthy of her even by an inch....and he lost everything in the bargain.

He was, he is and he will always be alone...still paying for his fallacies. Even Sampada can't reach Anurag, nobody can. When he watched Prerna walk out of his life.....he sent out his soul too.

Sigh! Anurag........one of the most self-proclaimed losers.I am genuinely feeling bad for this guy. His life is so empty.😭

GOD BLESS EVERYONE,

nitica.

i havent seen the epi yet.
i think anu should have thought b4 he blames prem. how many times he is gonna misunderstood. i feel bad 4 him as that dum bajaj did worse than anu. dont he have brain. he also blamed him. every1 is stupid 😡

Originally posted by: desirocks

i havent seen the epi yet.
i think anu should have thought b4 he blames prem. how many times he is gonna misunderstood. i feel bad 4 him as that dum bajaj did worse than anu. dont he have brain. he also blamed him. every1 is stupid 😡

Don't get so angry, DR! 😳.....Prehaps Bajaj was too worked up about a lot of things and took it out on Anurag. But nobody should forget that Prem is Anurag's flesh and blood too....so, he also feels equally for him.Whatever, today's episode was sad...especially for Prem n Anurag.

Anurag will now keep out of Bajaj family's matters.....he won't be happy but at least, he'll stop running into trouble.

GOD BLESS EVERYONE,

nitica.

Originally posted by: badguy

😕 😕 😕

It's okay, BG.Even am very 😕😕😕 today. What's wrong with my Rishabh? He is the most sane person....i think his and Anurag's friendship has led to a brain vibration exchange.

GOD BLESS YOU,

nitica.

i don't think bajaj was wrong today.he was not harsh to anu too.he told him very politely n i believe he is right too.anu should stop interfering in bajajs family matters.bajaj also told him that he knows that his intentions r for good sake not bad.so i think u all r wrong when u said that bajaj was harsh at anu.

Originally posted by: bajaj_prerna

i don't think bajaj was wrong today.he was not harsh to anu too.he told him very politely n i believe he is right too.anu should stop interfering in bajajs family matters.bajaj also told him that he knows that his intentions r for good sake not bad.so i think u all r wrong when u said that bajaj was harsh at anu.

dude ya r forgeting that prem is anus son and he was trying to help the bajaj family. that was wrong of bajaj to be so rude to anu

Hey nitica, I don't think my anu is a loser :( he is quite brave..I agree he has lost in the game of love..but it takes courage and a moral backing to do what he always does, and somehow there IS a logic behind his behaviour.

As much as I appreciate and praise Anurag- the lover, son, friend,husband,citizen, I am equally critical of anurag- the father. His children-prem, sneha and udi- have always been Prerna's children first and foremost. He really didn't have much role to play in their lives. It is true that he loves them a lot, but somehow it doesn't come out in the right manner, and these days it looks like he is only doing a competition with Rishabh about "Who is the better dad? You or me." Rishabh, on the contrary, plays the perfect father and patriarch. He isn't even remotely interested in 'haq jataana'. He just wants his kids to be happy.

Another aspect I hate about anurag- the father, is his lack of emotion and care for shravan. Somehow, I feel that he should show the same amount of love and care for Shravan, as he shows for Sneha-Prem. But he doesnt seem to feel the same way about Shravan. I guess that's where Rishabh and Prerna come across as the ideal parents- rishabh standing up for Sneha against Prerna, and Prerna opposing the move of giving tushar's post to prem. They are able to love their stepchild as their real child.

This time too, Rishabh's warning to Anurag is purely based on the concern and protective instinct he feels for all of his kids- it is a FATHER's warning- not Prerna's husband's warning. On the contrary, Anurag's interference in Bajaj family is mainly due to Prerna- he simply can't get her out of his head!!!
In short, Anu is a better lover/husband and Rishabh is a better father.

U know bajaj was justttt soo rude that I hate him now!!
He said anu that stop interfering in my house matters!
Arey u r forgetting that there are anu children too..the way he said him strainght away that u should keep ur own prespective away frm my personal matters!Arey he has equal rights to speak upon his son and a daughter matter!
Y he forget that.Atleas knwong his past u should atleast think of ANu decision...U know he was soo embaressed thats y he dint speak on his part..he listend all this quitely in a way to admit his mistake..He was already upset and bajaj upsethim more!

wow bajaj, thatz the way u treat ur freind!!Grow up atleast.

And bajaj prerna, mayb he was damm polite but it seemed that he just came and straightaway insulted anurag..watsoever if he says it politely or harshly but the thing matter is that HE CAME STRAIGHTAWAY TO THE POINT and insultd him..

oh God I ended up writing a really long post. All I mean to say is, Anu should :
1. Stop Embarrassing Prerna and Rishabh by his very public 'haq jataana' on sneha-prem, because people don't know they are his kids, and it can get nasty due to his open proclaimations and rishabh-prerna as well as the kids dont deserve to get defamed just because anurag wants the world to know that those kids are his. Afterall, what's more important- him getting the 'Dad' title or the kids being happy and accepted by society?

2. Let the Bajaj family i.e. Prerna-Rishabh-Mukti-Mahesh take care of prem. They are capable, and don't need Anurag's help.

3. Concentrate on his complicated relationship with sam, and for God's sake- Do something for the kid called Shravan- you promised his dead father (who saved ur life), that you would always look after shravan.

call me cold but anu deserved it yaar at least now he will stay out of bajaj's business and family