JW mental turbulence..plzz read.

Hey guys,

I know you are all upset here rgarding jai and meera's marriage but I think there is more to this issue than what meets the eyes.

But I think we need to understand JW and we should see him in a better prespective.

Jai has become so cynical and sadist that probably to show the world and the media that he has moved on from bani and has a "happy marriage"he might have asked meera to be his wife.

According to jai he has been betrayed by his wife and so he is with meera just to prove himself that he can very well live "without bani".

It hurts a lot [truly a lot] when someone breaks your trust than your love. And betrayal is something which is hard to get over.i such cases people usually go into depression, or they become cynical or they become escapists.[ even though I am an engineering student,I love studying human psychology and I am quite good at it, now enough of self-boasting].

Jai has become cynical of course. But for him meera is an escape [I donot mean it in terms of physical satisfaction, I mean it in terms of psychology.]

See after bani people will ask him where his wife is etal .and of course JW has a larger than life ego and he doesnot want to project himself as a "poor, GFN husband whose wife betrayed him". So MEERA is an answer to all the people and to himself also.

He wants to belive that bani betrayed him and "HE threw her out of his life".

When you see a lot in life you become so tired and bogged down by it that at one point of time your patience ends and you just think about yourself and nobody else. Everybody is like an insect to you.it is just I, ME and MYSELF.

Same is happening with jai. He has a menrtal block and he is ignoring it. Deep inside his heart he still feels for bani and only bani,and his heart may also say that she is innocent but his ego overshadows it.his anger and frustration have eclipsed his sense of reasoning.

Yesterday he told that "everybody is his servants who have come to give attendance".

Even meera is same for him. When karuna called meera he was least bit interested or bothered about her. That itself proves that she means nothing to him.

I think MEERA is and will always be a positive character.see meera symbolizes devotional love.see she may love jai as a friend or romantically also.but the love is not passionate or desireful, the love is out of respect ,admiration ,empathy and understanding. She is just helping him.

Probably she will help GANGA to reunite jai and bani.

I think jai's character has been potrayed with the right conviction.and RAM is doing a fantastic job [I guess we donot need to repeat ourselves].

I LOVE HIM [RAM and JW] .please donot hate or criticize JW, just empathize with him.

Way to go KS.

I hope I have not bored you guys.just wanted to analyse JW's mental condition.

God bless.

dhani

I totally agree with u... I think if you view the situation from his perpective his behavior is very normal... to him bani betrayed him and was the cause of the death of his children... so basically he has lost everything that was the center of his entire world... he doesnt care for anything anymore... his mind is like If i can live without these people I can live without anyone.
RK was brilliant cold calculating and brutal... he doesnt yell and scream and is very calm about everything which makes him even more deadly coz nothing affects him... he knows he will win in the end.
Ram excelled yesterday in my opinion... just look at the range of emotions he portrayed just when suna suna came .. his look changed from sweet memories, to anuished pain to anger and back to stone cold.

this is exactly what i felt... thats y i'm waiting for 2day's episode for more detail...
i will hate it if they r gonna show bani and jai tracks separately in alternate days... that will really kill my patience... 😛

Hey dhani nice defence for jw but honestly i am agree with you whatever is jw is doing is because of his anger and his ego. He can't let go bani of his heart no matter how hard he tries and thats prove with yesterday's that song scene. JW probeblyl knows in his heart that bani is innocent but his ego and anger do not let him belive it and i thanik he wants to prove to world and himself that he can live without bani thought we know he can't.
I really hope that meera's character is possitive and she acts like her name i hope she help ganga to reunite bani and jay but i still think that there is something fishy in JM's wed may be something to do with meera's past or something alse.
I am sure we would not know the real reation of jm's marrige for few more days mayi likes to keep audianace in suspence.
So all the best to all of us and god give us strenth for this.
thanks
geeta

I agrees wid u JB will be together again...Meera pls help Ganga

A Good Post,somethimng very very different.
But My BIG Question is why marry Meera Ben??? I mean amma ditched him for a younger guy(as per munna) it doesnt mean he would go after another young gal.
I would hav accepted JW as a womaniser sleeping with a new gal every night rather than marrying another woman.
Next those promo's why mislead viewers like that,the promo talks abt kid uniting them and here he is married to a Meera Ben,does it mean he will ditch Meera Ben for Bani and Kid and will Amma accept him???

Talking abt Meera all i can say she is now good and will remain so till B and G enter the scene,she will grow little insecure once thy are in the scene and once truth abt B is out than Dhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan there the Lady Meera will change and show here true colours,strongly feel Meera Ben will become Female Version of Mr.Bajaj

Finally what about my mental turbulance????whom should i blame ,gosh what have thy done to my baby in the name of story progress and TRP's!!1sick people feel like killing them

I understand that he is hurt… Bani betrayal (he assumes so) has inflicted a deep wound in him and naturally he has become cynical… Its also normal that he is lashing out his anger on everyone and everything which comes on his way… He not caring for the world is also normal (that's what he has been harping all through the episode)

What I fail to get is how can such a person marry for the sake of the world??? It's a total inconsistent portrayal of a character… I don't have anything against him marrying Meera (If he foolishly believes his sister and smashes his own life, then its his problem) but shouting on top of his voice that he does not have any emotions and does not care for anything in the world, he marries Meera… What do I make up of such grossness???

All that he is now is just a sham...
just wait and see what happens when he does in fact meet Ganga and ultimately Bani..
The saying goes... 'The higher they climb, the harder they fall!'
Jai will once again become humpty dumpty... he will break into millions of pieces and once again we will hurt with him.
I also love Jai and agree with your post... To behave otherwise will trivialize the hurt that he felt at Bani's alleged betrayal.
I look foward to seeing this Jai Walia deal with Jigs and Karuna and all who caused him and Bani all that unnecessary hurt before he returns to the lovable Jai!.

When did Jai and Bani ever get divorced....I haven't been watching this serial for a long time so I have no clue what's going on!

Originally posted by: vidyaramsammy

All that he is now is just a sham...
just wait and see what happens when he does in fact meet Ganga and ultimately Bani..
The saying goes... 'The higher they climb, the harder they fall!'
Jai will once again become humpty dumpty... he will break into millions of pieces and once again we will hurt with him.
I also love Jai and agree with your post... To behave otherwise will trivialize the hurt that he felt at Bani's alleged betrayal.
I look foward to seeing this Jai Walia deal with Jigs and Karuna and all who caused him and Bani all that unnecessary hurt before he returns to the lovable Jai!.

Vidya,

You have such high hopes for these 'creatives'. Didn't we all look forward to Bani/Durga and Jai dealing with Jigs, Karuna and Pia post the Disgusting Durga Debacle. Those 'creatives' didn't know what to do - except make Bani/Durga a pseudo arsonist burning photos here, there and everywhere. There has been no retribution or punishment to the three witches - they have only gotten stronger - ok Pia is mental - or is she??

A JM marriage regardless of why it was done - I can understand his pain and loss of his children and the betrayal of his wife, but for a man who doesn't care about anyone, emotions, love, family - to marry to please society is a complete inconsistency. He should be having ONS to hurt and humiliate people, to show his loathing for relationships and committment. Yet here the 'new fresh' track shows him married. There is no way that Ganga can unite them. Meera will become the fly in the ointment developing feelings for him.

I wonder what Meera aka Bani's clone will call JW - Mr. Walia 😕. Sorry Vidya - I'm ranting and I don't know why I still invest any energy into KS. The characters that are now being shown are not the ones I fell in love with. JW is a shadow of his former self.

Anyways, amazed to see there are still KS viewers who are hopeful for something worth watching.