Ranvir - Get a life

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I liked him but now he is fetting on my nerves WHY?

Just because he is misbehaving with Rashi.

I know Rashi asked Ranvir to marry Rano who by th eway was a widow of his younger brother and had a son. He lvoed Rashi and swore never t omarry again but did it to make Rashi Happy who inturn as jigyasa said did all that to make Ranvir happy and taken care of after she is gone.

BUT did he not forget that Rashi was not dead yet...and when both Rano and Ranvir got married they said it was only to show Rashi....but things changed between them and so did with Rashi. Rashi miraculously was saved by god and She returned.

Rano and Ranvir knew pretty well that Rashi could return..she was not dead.

But are they happy on her return NO...what she gets is again the humilation and bad behaviour by Ranvir. Again to be beaten by him.

Rano for me is beetr than him as she understands Rashi and her situation but she is aslo used to Ranvir now for five years but...

If Rashi is fighting for her rights or position then waht is wrong.....even Bani si doing that with Pia.

I want Ranvir to show some respect towards Rashi...and not just hate her for coming back.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I don't like the way Ranveer is behaving with Raashi either. HE could tell her the same thing nicely. He knows she is kind of a girl who was thinking only about him & his welbeing in her absence. She migght not be thinking about Rano right now & wants to get Ranveer back. But Ranveer doesn't have to be so rude & violent towards her.

I don't think Ranveer is wrong in loving Rano. She is more like him in nature & inteligence than Raashi. He is attached to Varun. They lived as good friends when they were lonely having lost important people in their life its natural for them to fall for each other. Its unfortunate that Raashi is caught in this situation even though its her own doing with good intentions.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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banis and pias situation is sort of different cuz bani didn't leave pia to b with mr. walia..as for raashi well she shudn't have gotten ranveer married then.. and alot can change in 5 years...as for raashi really she was suppose to die cuz she was critical ...they just miraculously cured her...and how can she not in her rite mind think tha nutin wud happen between ranveer and rano and tha they wud eagerly wait wen she wud return and now ranveer has gotten over all tha happend in the past and has moved on with rano soo really its raashi hu needs to stop being stupid and stubborn and understand tha rano and ranveer shud b together and tha shes coming in between ... and the position ur talking about well raashi had given tha to rano 5 years ago..and now she wants it bac...really all this is raashi's fault she shudn't have gotten them married b4 she knew she really was guna die....but i agree with onething and tha is tha ranveer shudn't hit her as he has no rite adn shud respect her sumwat but raashi's really not respecting ranveer and his wish so ....he jus shudn't hit her thas all
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Posted: 18 years ago
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First of all, i'm hating Ranveer's aggressive behaviour and him physically abusing Rashi. He needs to show some respect towards Rashi and treat her like human being 😡

Like there are 2 sides to the coin, this has 2 sides too. Everyone thinks only from Rano and Ranveer's perspective but noone empathises with raashi. Just like many say Raashi is wrong, so are Ranveer and Rano to assume that Raashi would never get cured and come back. They knew that she was undergoing treatment and should have stuck to their 'Agreement' of remaining good friends as there was a possibility of her returning at some point, she wasn't really 'dead'.

Rano is better than Ranveer. She genuinely cares for raashi. But Ranveer is worse..he's hating her for coming back itself and now has started abusing her physically and threatening to 'kill' her
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Domestic beatings and creating a hostile atmosphere for a spouse is definitely wrong.

Despite Ranvir being one of my two fav characters (the other being Aparajit Deb) in KS, there is absolutely nothing that I can say to justify the actions of the Master of the GHANTEES. It's one of those cases where I can understand why he is doing this, but at the same time, it's not something that should EVER happen in real life.

The argument against Raashi is that she left Ranvir and literally forced him to not only marry Rano, but also to learn to develop feelings for Rano and become a proper husband to her. There was no such agreement that Ranvir and Rano would part if Raashi survived.

In fact, before the leap, Ranvir was desperate to be with Raashi during the treatment and stay with her... but it was Raashi that did not allow him to be with her. He fulfilled his side of the deal by being there for Rano and Varun and also by truly accepting them.

Raashi forced Ranvir and Rano together and thereby relinquished her rights over Ranvir. I personally feel that by coming back and wanting to continue where she left off, Raashi is asking for too much, considering the fact that the Ranvir-Rano pairing was her own doing.

Raashi made the decision 5 years ago... and therefore she should stick by them. That is my personal opinion.

Despite that being my view, I once again re-iterate that I do NOT support any form of spouse beating - both phsycial and emotional - and I am not justifying Ranvir's actions in any way at all.

It seems that domestic violence storylines are the easy way of turning characters negetive and creating sympethy for the victim of the violence. I'm delighted to see Ranvir turning negetive again because I truly believe that Ranvir was at his best when he was the furious evil dude... but I just hope that from now on the creatives make him evil using non-wife-beating storylines.

God bless.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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u see i won't completely support him.. but in some ways or d other he's NOT wrong.. she forced him to get married.. he moved on.. and its not as if raashi didn't know that.. he told raashi CLEARLY.. if anythin happens to rano.. he will blame her.. so he did.. he let out his anguish today.. and fo that.. the 'misbehaving' starts.. he had told rano.. if she leaves him.. he'll turn d SAME way he was before.. and we have all seen him. he was just negative!!!!.. and raashi IS partially to be blamed for the situation she put herself into.. she got them married.. when he didn't wanna move on.. she forced him.. he did move on.. and now that he's not hers..she wants him bac... which to some extent is fine.. he's her husband.. but its d same husband.. who clearly stated to her.. that a lot.. a lot!! has changed in these 5 yrs.. in those 5 yrs.. rano/varun r his family moreso than anythin or anyone else.. raashi told rano to leave the house.. rano left d house.. jigs called d goons.. now if raashi hadn't done so all that in d first place.. rano wouldn't have ever gone.. and all of this mess would've never happened.. in some ways raashi asked for it.. and d ranveer's past has been.. and he has been violent before.. she's weirdly bringing out d evil in him once again.. and in some ways or d other im glad to see his evil side bac..
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: RaviMalhotra69

Domestic beatings and creating a hostile atmosphere for a spouse is definitely wrong.


The argument against Raashi is that she left Ranvir and literally forced him to not only marry Rano, but also to learn to develop feelings for Rano and become a proper husband to her. There was no such agreement that Ranvir and Rano would part if Raashi survived.

In fact, before the leap, Ranvir was desperate to be with Raashi during the treatment and stay with her... but it was Raashi that did not allow him to be with her. He fulfilled his side of the deal by being there for Rano and Varun and also by truly accepting them.

Raashi forced Ranvir and Rano together and thereby relinquished her rights over Ranvir. I personally feel that by coming back and wanting to continue where she left off, Raashi is asking for too much, considering the fact that the Ranvir-Rano pairing was her own doing.

Raashi made the decision 5 years ago... and therefore she should stick by them. That is my personal opinion.

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and mine too.....

thanks ravi

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I think that abusing a person never solves teh problem. I mean, if he luved rano, then he shouldnt beat up raashi, just sit her down and tell her that he luvs rano now and that he's EXTREMELY sorry..

but then again, i am being a little biased here, (i admit) cuz if i were in raashi's case i would try to get my rights back , but if i dont succeed and i find out that my luv loved someone else, then i would find someone else and move on with my life.

and about rano.. that poor girl.. lets refer to her situations:
1) her didi came back from the "dead" and wants revenge from her and the rest of the family.

2) her husband died

3) her son varun is deaf and mute

4) she got remarried as a compromise

5) she fell in love with the guy she remarried only to find that her mother-in-law and the guy's wife is now against that love

6) she was emotionally beaten and forcefully left the house

7) she was kidnapped from some goondas that her mother-in-law sent

now if you dont tell me that thats bad then i dont know what is!!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aadhya

First of all, i'm hating Ranveer's aggressive behaviour and him physically abusing Rashi. He needs to show some respect towards Rashi and treat her like human being 😡

Like there are 2 sides to the coin, this has 2 sides too. Everyone thinks only from Rano and Ranveer's perspective but noone empathises with raashi. Just like many say Raashi is wrong, so are Ranveer and Rano to assume that Raashi would never get cured and come back. They knew that she was undergoing treatment and should have stuck to their 'Agreement' of remaining good friends as there was a possibility of her returning at some point, she wasn't really 'dead'.

Rano is better than Ranveer. She genuinely cares for raashi. But Ranveer is worse..he's hating her for coming back itself and now has started abusing her physically and threatening to 'kill' her

Exactly my point......Did he take it for granted that Rasshi would die and will not come back...

Now that she is back he is making her feel that WHY the hell are you back and spoiling my happy married life with Rano.

I think if he was intelligent enough then he would have handles the sitaution in a way by making both the woman understand the situation..but here he is only thinking about Rano and not Rasshi.

He himself is pitting Rano against Raashi...why he has to be on the extreme....How come his love for Raashi evaporate so quickly...

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Now id we look at Raashi then -

Raashi was supposed to get marreid to Saahit but he was in lvoe with Rano and left Rasshi in the lurch and Raashi had to compromise and get maaried to Ranvir.

Then she fell in lvoe with Ranvir adn they had a proper marriage but she falls sick.

Ranveer falls in love with Rano...

So poor rasshi has been loosing to Rano not once but twice in her life...

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