Transformation Between Bani and DDG

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Posted: 18 years ago
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When the story of Kasamh Se was first shown, a tale of three sisters, we all fell in love with the character of Bani. Like most characters, she had her own little quirks, but the best qualities that we loved her for were her strength of character, her integrity and the way she loved so selfllessly.

Then came a twist in the story where due to the circumstances, pain and suffering that she went through Durga was born. Bani was shown to have transformed into Durga.

This character was pretty ill concieved to begin with, but in the end the best characterestic that was found in her was the ability to deal with fiends like Pia and Jigs, and to dish out to them in kind what they were dishing out to Bani for long. That she had learnt to fight fire with fire.

At present, according to the story here again, the creatives are shown to show again a transformation I suspect in a confused way from Durga to Bani. And in the process of showing that transformation showed her remembering her kasams to her mom.

Now, here is the question. We have all loved Bani dearly for her several wonderful qualities and would love to see them back. But, do we really want every quality of Bani back?

I for one would find it extremly hard to swallow if they allow her to start remembering her promises to her mom and forgive pia also because of that promise and go back to being the doormate for Jigs and sundry and her forgiving self and keep pia in her house.

What would be the qualities that you would like to see in the new Bani/DDG? Which qualities you would not? Would love to hear your comments.😃

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Great post Raji di.

Bani was always a very self-respecting person who did not take any nonsense if she was not wrong...But I dont know why, she was always taking pain that her loved ones caused without fighting it and forgave them very easily. Be it Jai or Pia...this happened many times.

I want her fight with her loved ones if they hurt her. Fight not in the Durga way which actually sucks. But in her own way, take no nonsense from her loved ones as well esp Pia. 😛

And I want her to have amnesia when it comes to Kasams - be it KD bhoot's or MIL's. 😉😆😆

Cheers,
Meena
Edited by Je_aime - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Well Bani's gullibility has to go, she's been such a sucker for sob stories. Tho I 've noticed that Durga is also gullible, specially when it comes to believing AD. But yes Durga has the ability to lash out which Bani really lacked, she always turned the other cheek. Would like Bani to retain this no nonsense outlook. Also her own guilt should not blind her to the fact that her suffering was in some way linked to JW. If she simply goes rushing back into his arms sindoor and mangalsutra et al, it wil really trivialize the suffering she's undergone for 5 years. At least Jai tho broken had the kids, family and friends. Bani had nothing. Yes Pia is the perpetrator of all the wrongs but Jai shouldn't have become so weakened by his love to the point of total impotence. Also want her to clearly see where she went wrong with Pia, by forgiving her time and again and not recognizing the wilfulness in Pia which was blown out into vicious enmity, when she didn't get hr own way. These 5 years should've taught Bani that love needs to be tempered with sternness and discipline, otherwise she'll end up making the same mistakes with Krishna and Atharv.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I want her back like when she was before PR raaz, she loved people without any reasons and that should be in her and not conditional ones! And above all, she used to stand up for herself and her family always without any support, but today she doesnt think and only does what AD tells her, so she needs to stand up for herself!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Raji/Meena,

The best part of yesterday's epi was that my old friend St. Kdbhoot was back with her kasams. The only disappointment was that she only spoke about Rano not about my Princess Perfection In Action. 😃 I hope one day my fave fantasy KD being alive and kicking in WM, doing her pravachans to the hapless inhabitants of WM and advising her daughters to share stuff peaceably materialises. 😃

(What would be the qualities that you would like to see in the new Bani/DDG?)

I want Bani Dixit back. 'Cos without Banigiri how can I indulge in Prigiri. 😉

Rgds,

Pri
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Posted: 18 years ago
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great post raji, i agree with u and even i don't want bani with all her old qualities and like meena has said even i want her to have partial amnesia about kasams to MIL and that stupid KD. i don't want doormat bani, i want a confident bani who can communicate well with JW and just not doing eye locking sessions with hubby, i want her to help JW in business and i want her to keep her eyes and ears open at all times and just don't reach conclusions without investigating the facts and i want my bani bond but she shld work in collaboration of JW or pushkar 😉

pri, dear while i was watching episode y'day i was laughing when even durga also started with memories of pravachans from KD 😉 and yaar at that time i was trying to picture u in my mind 😆 see ur wish of getting BD is gonna fulfilled now.

swati
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Excellent responses all of u. 👏 👏 👏


Somali:

If she simply goes rushing back into his arms sindoor and mangalsutra et al, it wil really trivialize the suffering she's undergone for 5 years. At least Jai tho broken had the kids, family and friends. Bani had nothing.

Excellent points Somali and very well put forth. I too would like her to process through her hurt and suffering before she rushes into JW's arms.
At present, she is under the assumption that he had voluntarily and willfully had put her in MA, had snatched the kids from her and also that he was happily and voluntarily getting ready to get married to Pia.
Would it make sense for her at time point to rush into his arms? Would'nt that equate to saying that even if u were ready to marry pia and were living with her together for the past 5 yrs (that's what She thinks) and put me in MA and snatched my children, it's still ok, I still love u even if you do that.

Somali:
Yes Pia is the perpetrator of all the wrongs but Jai shouldn't have become so weakened by his love to the point of total impotence.

Yep, agreed, just knowing the truth of his helplessness still would not make up for all that she went through. Love shouldn't make a person soo weak that they become a puppet and not only fail in protecting u'r family but also become a tool to contributing to their suffering.

Somali:
Also want her to clearly see where she went wrong with Pia, by forgiving her time and again and not recognizing the wilfulness in Pia which was blown out into vicious enmity, when she didn't get hr own way.

yes, this was one of the main points. She knew that she was always covering up pia's mistakes as naadaani. They actually showed Bani covering up pia stealing ice creams from the vendor and when rano said why didn't u scold her, she said it was naadani and will explain later and never did.
Are these the things that she should pass on to her children? If she was thinking of keeping her promises to her mom don't they include giving them good morals, to love them and descipline them when necessary part of parenting and protecting and raising them?

Edited by nsminerva - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I want her to loose the quality of blind love whether for JW or for Pia. Loving JW thinking he did all that to her is plain wrong.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Raji,

I have a big wish list for Bani. I might crib about her jassosi and stuff, but I really don't mind all of that so long as she is not harming her unborn child or doing something asinine. I mean JW never seems to suspect her and I guess for story they have to make he keep info from him while we all yell let him.

But I do not want the Bani back that will forgive Pia of all her heinous acts due to her promise to her parents. I really want a Bani who weighs all the promises in balance will the well being of the people she loves like her children for now

I also don't want a Bani who will take a lota and sindoor and do the "Koi bhi galti" routine with JW. JW might have been balckmailed and the creatives might have made him a wimp to keep the story going, but going along that story I want Bani to show her hurt to JW and take time to recover her trust in him. Maybe I want her to be a little independent and built herself emeotionally and than make a choice about JW. That is the reason I have no problems with what she is doing with him because she has been unbearably hurt. It is another thing that she is not using her brains to see that nothing fits, but that is the reason we call both of them duffers and love them

Also I want this Bani to be strong to fight against Jigz for her children and her name. We know Jigz will start the "what have you been doing with AD for 5 years " rant, and I want Bani to shut her up saying how come Jigz is living with Adi for 20+ years without being married to him. I really want her to stand her gorund with JIgz

I know I have rambled a lot. One thing that I will hate her for is if she forgives Pia, that will kill her for me.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Je_aime

Great post Raji di. Thanks sweetie.😊

Bani was always a very self-respecting person who did not take any nonsense if she was not wrong...But I dont know why, she was always taking pain that her loved ones caused without fighting it and forgave them very easily. Be it Jai or Pia...this happened many times.

yeah, I agree. She always put others feelings before her own. Pia's I have already explained in Somali's mail. U r right, that it is time she took some responsibility and started thinking of herself first.

For me, I want her to be a combination of Bani and Durga. Bani's sweetnes and love tempered by Durga's ability to descipline and deal out punishment when a person is in the wrong not neccessarily in the way she is doing now.

As for JW, which scenarios do u mean?

I want her fight with her loved ones if they hurt her. Fight not in the Durga way which actually sucks. But in her own way, take no nonsense from her loved ones as well esp Pia. 😛

what was the way that Durga fought that u didn't like? And which way do u prefer?


And I want her to have amnesia when it comes to Kasams - be it KD bhoot's or MIL's. 😉😆😆

Now, why did I think u would say that...😆

Cheers,
Meena

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