I had enough!...notes:pgs 1& 2

Yep you have read it right...i had enough of people pointing fingers at me and accusing me...im not going to name who did but im making a public post to let you all know that i have never been humiliated more in my life and had to justify my actions towards others or the accusers...they have dearly disappointed me!!
i have made myself known from the first day that i never ever fight with anyone!
i'm always a straight forward and an honest person!
and those who are dishonest and unfair and hypocrites...i don't like those people at all...
I thought that everyone here would be understanding but apparently some are just not...
but that doesn't matter anymore it is time for me to leave or rather stay away from all the hel chal of this forum...i thought staying away for few days would help but apparently i'm getting these stupid pms regarding my stands and accusing me for something that i didn't even do.😕
either way some are saying i have changed but im sorry to inform you but i have not in fact those others have and again im not going to say names but you know who you are...and as for people talking behind my back...well let me tell you...i would rather have you come and talk to me than behind my back...want to say or confirm rumors or something then come and ask me but if i hear something behind me back then know this...you would be the lowliest person in my eyes...no matter how good of a friend you are...i would talk to you as in nothing happened but my respect for you would be gone and my friendship would be as well
anyways it is time for me to back off this forum and become an observor now...i would only participate with justice and fair threads and my fellow despo threads because that is who i am..and i would only read updates and comments other than that my pms are there but im barely going to reply them...my other friends on msn or other places well i would have to say that some will talk to me and some won't and that is only because of my timings and my busy hours....
this decision has nothing to do with the current KS track at all...but it has everything to do with some members here and the division of this forum...I'm an arian and i'm all about unions and friendship and keeping a state together...but if people start pointing fingers at me then im sorry i would step back and let them be...
and this was the final blow because in the past few days people have started to question me but i have never complained and i will not because i don't want to stoop down to their level and degrade myself...
so this is my good bye to those who i don't speak to on regular basis anymore...and also to those who i will barely speak to anymore...
few days back i have decided against this post but not anymore...because that level has past my patience and im out...
i rather cherish my friendships as it is than break them out...
so sorry to my dear and close friends but this is really too much for me now...if KS got better along with the forum then i might become a regular once again...but till then i'm out!
so hope you enjoyed my time here...because i sure have...and im going to miss you all
and finally i would like to apologize to all the people whom i have offended...if you find some sympathy in your heart then please forgive me!
thank you
rooj😊

no one else replied....i will, hey my name is shivani, and u know what forget what those people say...who cares....don't read their pms....come on i-f don't stop comin on it because of them....i will be ur friend....again my name is shivani....and would u like to be my friend?? 😊 ...jus be happy....

Good that u r not leaving 😊 just taking a back seat.
Have fun enjoying the threads that u will be a part of 😊

Rooj,

Don't let a few people get you down. A lot of us over the year have built this forum to be the most active on IF. I know now the forum is dying as compared to before as it's getting harder and harder to participate here. But we have created this forum with our frienship and the fun we have here. Your should not let a few people make you leave. SOme people are not worth it, just ignore them. People who have no sensitivity and like to run salt in the wound are just not worth it.

Meghna

Well, I dunno whats really going on, but, I have to say that I'm in the same situation as you but with friends at school. Don't take it to hard on yourself. Maybe once you take a seat back then ppl will realize. Well I'll be your friend, my names Aman

Rooj
Farah and Meg are absolutely right!!
Don't let some people force you away!!!
I know its hard to do but just ignore it .. I too have a difficult time doing this but its the best we can do otherwise its like we are letting them win !!!

Stick around, enjoy and post on the threads which are positive to you and ignore others!!!

Stick around we don't want to lose you for some members insensitivity and immaturity!!!
Nina

Ok this is taken on a wrong side. 😆 Let me clearify.

first off: im not a high school kid that needs lecturing or in need of friends 😆 because technically i have many and i can have many more 😆.

2ndly: who says that im actually leaving...didn't you all read that im only stepping back and observe it...im gonna be here and participate but only to those threads which i feel are right for me...

3rdly: I'm not mad or upset...i'm disappointed. very disappointed in people whom i thought were mature enough to understand...and that is for some people here...im not kidding...

4thly: im not down...im still that lively person i am but i'm very disappointed...and this doesn't in all means mean that im leaving and not fighting back...
im here to stay and fight back but in my own way...im staying because of some people...but mostly i made this post for few reasons and one of them is the separation of the whole forum because of some dumb reasons and some people have taken the bashings to their hearts and that disappoints me...im not one of them and i know a lot of mature ones who never take it to their heart and go and report or do personal attacks...(Munna and Munni campers to the least i know who don't 😆 ). But if this is the way to unite the forum then i'm all up for it...

5thly: i thank all of you for your humble support so im telling you that im not upset or leaving im just backing off from those who have disappointed me and im going to announce it that if i don't respond there is a reason for it and this may be the reasons...

rooj

Rooj, no need to leave IF/KS Forum, If you have problem with a member, try sorting it out via PM or try PMing one of the Dev Team member and we will sort it out...trust us!


Dont Leave Rooj

Hey Rooj 😊

I'm glad to see that you have not gone ahead and left IF like you said that you would that day. Via PM you did mention that you were having these problems and I'm glad that you've realised that leaving IF would not really make a positive difference.

We have great mods over here and I'm sure that they will raise the warning levels of any more people that are causing trouble at the forum. At the end of the day, the people that have had WL increases know who they are and therefore they realise that they are trouble makers and that they will not be able to have their ways with friendly memebers.

So do stick around my friend 👍🏼

As ever, God bless.

OK again in big red letters (ok not posting that 😆 ) but still: I Don't Want to Stoop Down to Other's level because it is not my style!
I'm going the way of Lage Raho Munna Bhai: where all the evils are fought by good through 'good' battle 😉
and that is my motto!
rooj