Poor AD!... - Page 2

Originally posted by: Je_aime

Totally agree dear...I really find it amusing that many find entering a women's room okay.......And what is about saying that "at least he didn't rape her"...is raping the only crime in the world? Invading privacy is also wrong...

PS : I am saying this NOT cos I am a JB fan , in case any one has to think that way...I feel it is wrong and in fact Bani was also bashed once for invading privacy...

Meena jaana...I think if AD looks hot enought and his eyes has the right kashish...then it will be termed "seducing" not what u called...

This is just my conclusion if entering a sleeping married woman's room, a mother of two who she pines for day in and day out, without her permission a soft side of the person.

Rivs

Originally posted by: rivya

Meena jaana...I think if AD looks hot enought and his eyes has the right kashish...then it will be termed "seducing" not what u called...

This is just my conclusion if entering a sleeping married woman's room, a mother of two who she pines for day in and day out, without her permission a soft side of the person.

Rivs

Rivs, we forgot about going so close to her and blowing the hair...😉...wasn't that sexy...any married woman and mother of two would love it.😉

Originally posted by: Je_aime

Rivs, we forgot about going so close to her and blowing the hair...😉...wasn't that sexy...any married woman and mother of two would love it.😉

I have no kids...but even if my super sexy HR 😳 would do that...he would have been punched😡....by me...not my hubby....

I think...😕

Rivs

Rivs jaanu - ask your hubby for that answer!😆

But really, from AD's POV I'm sure he sees nothing wrong in that as for the last five years all he's seen is DDG hate JW!

As far as he knows, DDG has no feelings towards him!

what AD did being a "peeping Tom" and invading Bani's privacy was a perverse action!!!

It was unwarranted and uncalled for and down right kreepy!!!

There is NOTHING romantic about being a voyeur without the permission of the other party especially when she has made it clear that she considers him her friend and a person who helped her in her hour of need!!! to Bani she shared a fiduciary relationship with AD in her mind and his perverse actions just breached that relationship and tarnished it!!!

Whether his looks are sexy or not is not the issue - to mea the action dropped him down a few notches and I was actually starting to warm up to him as a character who has been betrayed and made what he is due to circumstances and a great loss of his life and family!!!

Nina

Rivs, you go girl..i will also punch if anyone comes to my room... 😃

Nibs, If Jai goes in to Rano's room while she is sleeping to share with her his anguish of being blackmailed once again, is it right?

Originally posted by: nibbles

Rivs jaanu - ask your hubby for that answer!😆

But really, from AD's POV I'm sure he sees nothing wrong in that as for the last five years all he's seen is DDG hate JW!

As far as he knows, DDG has no feelings towards him!

Arrey...he will say...u should be happy that duggu is here for u...haha...

But no seriously...I agree that Bani has only shown hatred for Jai...

but I also distinctly remember an update where she tells AD that she will move out since she does not want these romantic linkups and stuff...

Now if u know the woman does not believe in love, respects u, and has no inclination of ever falling for u....u cant impose urself on her...agreed he went in when she was sleeping...but it is still imposing...

Imagine her fright if that slow blow that moved the hair had woken her up....what would she have thought seeing his face inches from hers? What would u have thought if you were in her place? Would u say thank you Mr. Deb, that hair was coming in my way, thanks for blowin it away...btw u look very hot and in love? Or would u be creeped out?

I know I would have slapped him...

And feeding and clothing someone, or rather providing for it for 5 years does not give u the right to enter their bedroom...

Guess what...the bedroom scene reminds me of other scene where JW woke up with Bani sleeping on his arm. Even though they were married and JW had that in love look and all... was there any invasion of privacy then.

I blame the Kreatives for writing such a creepy scene and the other parties involved or not opposing it.

BTW my lesson learnt is, even in ur own house, lock ur bedroom door when u go to bed...Period

Rivs

Originally posted by: rivya

Arrey...he will say...u should be happy that duggu is here for u...haha...

But no seriously...I agree that Bani has only shown hatred for Jai...

but I also distinctly remember an update where she tells AD that she will move out since she does not want these romantic linkups and stuff...

Now if u know the woman does not believe in love, respects u, and has no inclination of ever falling for u....u cant impose urself on her...agreed he went in when she was sleeping...but it is still imposing...

Imagine her fright if that slow blow that moved the hair had woken her up....what would she have thought seeing his face inches from hers? What would u have thought if you were in her place? Would u say thank you Mr. Deb, that hair was coming in my way, thanks for blowin it away...btw u look very hot and in love? Or would u be creeped out?

I know I would have slapped him...

And feeding and clothing someone, or rather providing for it for 5 years does not give u the right to enter their bedroom...

Guess what...the bedroom scene reminds me of other scene where JW woke up with Bani sleeping on his arm. Even though they were married and JW had that in love look and all... was there any invasion of privacy then.

I blame the Kreatives for writing such a creepy scene and the other parties involved or not opposing it.

BTW my lesson learnt is, even in ur own house, lock ur bedroom door when u go to bed...Period

Rivs

Totally agree dear and this is the point I wanted to make👏👏👏...It is wrong even for fathers or bros to enter their grown up girl's room...I mean we dont know in what position we would be sleeping and how our cloths had gone..it is really wrong for anyone to enter like that...

Rivs, I remember this another scene when Bani and Jai were separated, i think after ONS....Jai passes the room in which Bani stayed, he sees her and she was dull or sth, he was her husband but still he did not enter the room, he just stood outside, felt bad a bit and went away....

Originally posted by: Je_aime

Totally agree dear and this is the point I wanted to make👏👏👏...It is wrong even for fathers or bros to enter their grown up girl's room...I mean we dont know in what position we would be sleeping and how our cloths had gone..it is really wrong for anyone to enter like that...

Rivs, I remember this another scene when Bani and Jai were separated, i think after ONS....Jai passes the room in which Bani stayed, he sees her and she was dull or sth, he was her husband but still he did not enter the room, he just stood outside, felt bad a bit and went away....

Agreed! That's one thing important for us in our family. The women always sleep with the door closed and men do not enter without knocking. Even if the door is open they do not enter. They certainly don't blow that woman's hair away!

Rivs, How can I argue with that?

Wonderfully put!!👏

Though my point was more about that a) the scene looked romantic to me (I'm just talking about the scene and nothing that comes before or after it......nor the relationship between AD and DDG).......and b) There's no reason why AD shouldn't have feelings of affection for her!

But like I've aready said, I do agree with the point most of you have made about invading a woman's privacy!...

I know AD fans do say they wouldn't mind that - RR having the sex appeal and all......though in reality if I was a sleep and woke up to find someone blowing on my face, I'd either make use of my lungs and scream; or push him away before hurling some serious abuse at him, along with anything else I could get my hands on!