Originally posted by: majumdar
Minerva,
(I do agree it's ok for Jai to pay a little. )
Actually I am not bothered about what Bani does to JW at all from HIS POV. For the simple reason that he will happily pay whatever price Bani extracts from him. What I am worried is whether after the deed is over whether Bani is able to handle her own guilt or not.
I totally agree with u Pri their. I Know that Jai will and I just don't want Bani to go so far in her revenge process as to be unable to forgive her self. For me here, I just want JB back together without inflicting too much pain on each other and ASAP.
But, u do have to agree that from Bani's POV he has been unbeleivably cruel and let her down when she needed him the most. The children snatching with such cruelty was so unnecessary. He could have done something being the great JW. ( And please don't get me started on lettting PIa and Co continu to stay on in the home after killing Bani)
Originally posted by: majumdar
(Is baar Sita agnipariksha nahee degi. Ab woh Agnipareeksha legi)
But what about Bani's agnipariksha? She has failed in all hers incidentally. She failed to forgive JW for his role in her Mom's dead and has to date yet to regret her parents kartoot towards him. And she too left JW to fend for himself after the ONS was out and even after finding that he was raped continued to throw an attitude. And of course bluntly informed him that he would have to tolerate his rapist in his own house becuase a kassam given to St. K was more important than her married life.
Rgds,
Pri
Pri, why do u think she has not forgiven JW for his role in his mom's death. The moment she heard the truth she wanted to run back and tell him and to not to carry that weight anymore and he was innocent. She stayed back only to save his property and when she knew it was not needed, the first thing she did was to go to Dubai and assured him of his innocence and she actually said that from her mom's suicide was wrong from which she has learnt not to give up on her loved ones.
As her parents Kartoot, I don't think her father knew it was suicide. So, how can he be blamed? The mother was depressed and she jumpred before the first car she sw on road. How can we blame her?
I am not sure what u r refering to when u meant she left him to fend for him self after the ONS. Can u please clarify? From what I remember she went into shock, then had JW coming and burning up their memories, saying he slept with Bani out of pity, pia for whatever, hugging pia ( which she had witnessed several times before and she never suspected, even had JW leave in the middle of the night after getting a call from pia and also that he was in a hotel room with her; I know JW had the same faith in her but so did she)
And for the rape part, once the trust is lost and after witnessing so much, I think it sometimes takes time to build back the trust. After seeing and hearing so much, not from others but by and from JW before her own eyes, it took her time to trust him again. Especially since the betrayal is by people so close to u. U
Bani has always been portrayed as a person who lives for others. Her identity to herself has been two parts, to be a mother to her sisters and to be a wife to JW. Her fault has always been of loving too much. When she thought her sister was in pain, she could not step back. And also mainly because she had complete faith and confidence in the bond betwen JW and herself. I don't think anyone can envisage the levels pia has fallen to. I don't think she told JW bluntly, she just told him what she felt. In this case, I am not saying what she did was right. I think she was blind to her sis's character, but that is a fault of loving too much. ( I for one would have never got pia home)
Hopefully she has learnt better by now, and teaches pia a lesson she never forgets.
regards,
Raji