Is Bani over controlling?

Is Bani suffering from syndrome of over controlling people? Bani seems to have developed a habit of controlling lives of others around her over the period of years. Take any person irrespective of their importance in her life from her husband to her sisters, from Pushkar to Ranveer and Raashi. Is she somehow, unintentionally and unknowingly trying to play the master of the game or playing the role of the highest order, where she decides how everyone should live their life and when something is not suitable to her course of action, it is deemed wrong and irresponsible. It is not about the Banigiri that we are talking but just that, is she experiencing what is called as "OCD-Obsessive compulsive disorder". This is usually associated to few habits of a person that he practices frequently. Her actions over the years have made me think like this. The one incident that really hit the nail was her decision to keep away Sahil's secret from Rano. If a woman in mature enough to take decisions to have a baby, of raising a disable child, and taking full responsibility for it should she not be given credit to handle the situation her way? Why, after so much has happened with her, is that Bani is not letting her sisters grow up? Yesterday, her concern for Raashi is justified but then again, Ranveer was right, it is not her matter. She should stay away from it because the other person wants her to. Her behavior on the KC night can be attributed to this only. Why the people around her are not allowed to move on or if allowed, then as per her pace and wishes, why? I am not justifying Jai's actions anyway but he had virtually moved on that night, if not ONS with Pia , even then he had signed the Divorce papers .Who gave her the right to move out and move into Jai's life as per her convenience and surprisingly most of the so called mature and wise people like Massi helped her.? Where is the right of this man to live his life his own way, who gave her the right to take control over his life? Is marriage not supposed to be the relationship of two people who share equal responsibility and rights in a marriage? Where is the right of everyone around her to live their life the way they want to? If everyone turns against her, then she is the one to be blamed caused her over controlling at one point becomes unbearable and alarming


Coming from hardcore JW supporter it may look like a Bni bashing post but is not.This is not a Bani bashing or Jai's defense post but just that even after so much has happened, she is not ready to change herself. Why does she not allow the things to take their own course and let them be instead of trying to control everything around and in process turning everyone against her? How will we be able to blare Rano for her indifference towards Bani in future , cause it is Bani herself who is building the foundation of the wall that will stand between her and Rano.

imnot sure if i agree tho 😳 its a serial but yes ive noticed it in the other balaji serials as well and wat i think that ektaji is trying to do is that she wants her actresses to portray in being strong in front of men and not being put down 😛 this is what i think

I do not agree all shes tried to do is help people 😡 😡 😡 all your MAHAN jai walia !!! has done is lie again and again.This is so annoying good people are not valued because no one wants to understand where they coming from but dishonesty and lying is !!! Bani has never tried to control people shes tried to help at the end of the day i felt she had every right to do jasoosi 👍🏼 because bani does what she thinks is right not to ruin or control people but to help. Would a parent give up caring thats the same for bani !!! if you see something happen in front of you to people you care you cannot ignore it .... please leave ekta mai alone she knows what shes doing