A child's importance???

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Is it fair to judge a child by looking at his/her parents?

This is for all the people who for some reason don't want Jai to react to pia's child. Even though i'll never believe that the child is jai's after seeing everyone's responses heck i want ekta to show the child as his(and may be 20-40 yrs down the road it should come out the child isn't his after all).

Mods i am really really sorry for using such language and well i guess it's time for me to receive a warning but i can't control myself anymore so well i guess i'll just accept the warning.

What the hell is wrong with jai accepting pia's baby? What in the world do you want him to do? What is the f*c*ing fault of the child? how in the world is it the child's fault that he/she was consummated that way?

Just because almost everyone hates pia and can't stand the fact that jai and pia are having a baby, doesn't mean that the child gets punished.

I am really sorry to say this, but when it comes to bani and when the Jai bashers are blaming her for not questioning her loser parents, people come up with excuses like why should a child suffer for what her parents did. wouldn't the same f***ing thing apply to Jai and Pia's baby too?

Yes i know everyone is biased, but why can't we just accept that we are biased instead of blaming the poor innocent child over n over again and hoping that Jai would tell pia to abort the kid. Everyone almost wanted to kill sahil for asking rano to abort the kid, then why should pia's kid be aborted? Doesn't a selfish vamp has the right to be a mother? If rano can be a mother why can't pia? I am sure pia's kid would be far better off than rano's considering pia will actually(even if she is using the kid) make sure that the kid is safe and sound, and will try to give the kid a good life, unlike rano who is just a careless mother.

Just because rano and bani are shown in a good light they can be mothers but not pia? that's just so F***ing biased.

I am sorry i guess it's my F***ing fault that i value the stupid Parent-child relationship too much.

I know it's going to be hard but after today i am going to keep my posts to the minimal and well hopefully one day disappear from the forum before losing all the friends i made here.

Shina

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Posted: 19 years ago
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shina my dear dont u dare talk abt dissappearing or minimizing ur post at all...as u say the negativity of pia is affecting the child she is carrying also..if jai had disowned the child we wld still question his morals ...the problem is we all want him to confirm like pushky whether the child is his and then react......shina me agree he is not a 20 somethting hero but a man passed his prime for whom how much a child means we know..i atleast have never found fault in his desire to protect the innocent child from the evil intentions of his mother ...thats his rightful duty even if he is not the father....if two adults make the mistake the unborn child shld not suffer at all .. and yes shina am very biased where pia is concerned coz she is using the child for her intentions and plzz do not call it the childs rights its more her selfishness as jai puts it ...the child for her is a ace up her sleeve and there is nothing maternal abt it..vamps can be good mothers love their child jigs loves her children but sorry till now pia has given no oppurtunity to prove that ...and hence jai has to accept the responsibility of both the parents IF the child is his .....she herself has said for animals if they have to survive they r ready to stamp over their child
and will not go into dixits as moms coz me too will recieve warnings , really felt that ekta was making fun of the most sacred relationship of a mother and child
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Edited by sun29 - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Wow IP i am speechless
Pia's child should not suffer or get punish it has the right to come to this world like Rano, Bani or Raashi child.
I can't said Jai accepting Pia's kid as his own one its not his kid, too Pia is blackmailing and using someone else kid has a weapon to get Jai. 😡 😡 😡
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Good Point there Shina...but b4 i start...Please don't use the language...i know...its hard not to but please....we got kids underage....


Noww...back to topic..like i said...Good Point...agree w/you...although im a Bani fan..n...not Pia...i still agree w/ur point!

How is it child's fault that he's born when he's not suppose to?..its NEVER child's fault...its parents..aka...Jai/Pia...we should not blame the kid...blame Jai-Pia...no doubt Jai cares a lot abt the child...its Pia using the child against him!😡 ...more then them...its Ekta maayi's fault!😡😆

We seriously need to stop blaming the kid for Jai-Bani relationship...its not his/her fault! Woh to abhi born bhi nahin hua

Jaani...ur not the only one who values the parent-child relationship...add me on there..n..im preety sure there are lots of others on the forum too!


Dudeee...don't go!...tu jaaygi to mera kya hoga? Who will i fight for my right over Abhi?



Edited by ~Pachu*n*Abhi~ - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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shina i get it!
it isn't the kid's fault for what his parents decided to do
he/she didnt have the option of coming into the world
the child didnt ask for this
when a child comes into the world it requires love and acceptance of its family
hehe
your cussing makes me laugh even thoh i know you are really pissed!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: lonely14

Is it fair to judge a child by looking at his/her parents?

I dont believe so. A lot goes into what the child will be like besides just how the parents are. However, the parents and their behavior determines the kind of environment the child will grow up in...which to some extent affects the child...but really two children born to the same parents, brought up in the same environment can be as different as Bani and Pia or even Jai and Jigs...

This is for all the people who for some reason don't want Jai to react to pia's child. Even though i'll never believe that the child is jai's after seeing everyone's responses heck i want ekta to show the child as his(and may be 20-40 yrs down the road it should come out the child isn't his after all).

Mods i am really really sorry for using such language and well i guess it's time for me to receive a warning but i can't control myself anymore so well i guess i'll just accept the warning.

What the hell is wrong with jai accepting pia's baby? What in the world do you want him to do? What is the f*c*ing fault of the child? how in the world is it the child's fault that he/she was consummated that way?

Honey I dont think anyone thinks that Jai's acceptance of Pia's child is wrong. I guess its just the blind acceptance. I mean the JW we were used to would atleast try to find out what happened and whether the child is his...maybe he is just too zapped at this moment to realize this. But the fact that Pushkar was more than happy accepting the child should have thrown some hint to JW?? I personally say that, if there is proof accept the child and raise it as his own...there is nothing wrong in it and definitely the child is not at fault here. Infact no child in the world deserves to be left alone..

So hon dont worry JW's behavior is not wrong...all we want is for him to atleast make sure that the child he is willing to accept is atleast his...thats it.

Just because almost everyone hates pia and can't stand the fact that jai and pia are having a baby, doesn't mean that the child gets punished.

I am really sorry to say this, but when it comes to bani and when the Jai bashers are blaming her for not questioning her loser parents, people come up with excuses like why should a child suffer for what her parents did. wouldn't the same f***ing thing apply to Jai and Pia's baby too?

No comments here...

Yes i know everyone is biased, but why can't we just accept that we are biased instead of blaming the poor innocent child over n over again and hoping that Jai would tell pia to abort the kid. Everyone almost wanted to kill sahil for asking rano to abort the kid, then why should pia's kid be aborted? Doesn't a selfish vamp has the right to be a mother? If rano can be a mother why can't pia? I am sure pia's kid would be far better off than rano's considering pia will actually(even if she is using the kid) make sure that the kid is safe and sound, and will try to give the kid a good life, unlike rano who is just a careless mother.

Pia has all the rights to have a kid...no one is saying its wrong...its just that we dont know whose kid it is...and I definitely dont want her to abort the child...no child deserves that.

I am not going to comment on comparing Rano and Pia about who will be a better mom, since I have just not seen them being a real mother. Also, honestly, I dont think any of the Dixits will be the best of moms, starting right at Mother hen...They are each lacking in some or the other form...

Just because rano and bani are shown in a good light they can be mothers but not pia? that's just so F***ing biased.

I am sorry i guess it's my F***ing fault that i value the stupid Parent-child relationship too much.

Sweetheart...you are not alone...

I know it's going to be hard but after today i am going to keep my posts to the minimal and well hopefully one day disappear from the forum before losing all the friends i made here.

Hey..please dont do that...we all love having you around..afterall you are the resident devil's advocate 😉...hehe...

Shina

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Edited by rivya - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: lonely14

Is it fair to judge a child by looking at his/her parents?

This is for all the people who for some reason don't want Jai to react to pia's child. Even though i'll never believe that the child is jai's after seeing everyone's responses heck i want ekta to show the child as his(and may be 20-40 yrs down the road it should come out the child isn't his after all).

Shina, I dont know what it is about you, but haha you always make some of the funniest posts, which I disagree with! I actually dont care whether Jai reacts to this child, he actually should this child has no fault. But I want Ekta to show that it is NOT Jai;s child veery soon. Why 30-40 years down the road? He'll be so old by then. And Bani had better have forgiven him by then! They better be back together.

Mods i am really really sorry for using such language and well i guess it's time for me to receive a warning but i can't control myself anymore so well i guess i'll just accept the warning.

What the hell is wrong with jai accepting pia's baby? What in the world do you want him to do? What is the f*c*ing fault of the child? how in the world is it the child's fault that he/she was consummated that way?

First of all Shina, there is no problem in Jai excepting the child, I agree the child has no fault. But common do you seriously think that Pia cares for her child. Its not like she wants Jai just because apparently she says that she is the father of his child, she wants him for the money and yes we all know that. But I agree it is not the child's fault, and Jai should except the child. But NOT Pia. Thats all were trying to say. He can except the child but why Pia? She's not much of a mother anyway she killed her first child.

Just because almost everyone hates pia and can't stand the fact that jai and pia are having a baby, doesn't mean that the child gets punished.

I agree. The child should get its rights.

I am really sorry to say this, but when it comes to bani and when the Jai bashers are blaming her for not questioning her loser parents, people come up with excuses like why should a child suffer for what her parents did. wouldn't the same f***ing thing apply to Jai and Pia's baby too?

It does apply to them. I think its okay with people if they except the baby, they just dont want Jai to except Pia. Here I want to bring up a point. Pia wants her child to have the rights of having a father. Yes Pia does not want Bani's child to. What a hypocrite she is. Im sure even if Pia's child was Jai's, both children could get the right of having a father seriously.

Yes i know everyone is biased, but why can't we just accept that we are biased instead of blaming the poor innocent child over n over again and hoping that Jai would tell pia to abort the kid. Everyone almost wanted to kill sahil for asking rano to abort the kid, then why should pia's kid be aborted? Doesn't a selfish vamp has the right to be a mother? If rano can be a mother why can't pia? I am sure pia's kid would be far better off than rano's considering pia will actually(even if she is using the kid) make sure that the kid is safe and sound, and will try to give the kid a good life, unlike rano who is just a careless mother.

How can you say Pia is going to be a good mother? She KILLED her first child. As far as I think, Pia is just having Jai's child to get him. Here is her golden oppurtunity. Yes Rano was careless. No child should be aborted. But I DONT think Pia would make a good mother at all.Yes. Rano is careless, but she cares for her child, and that brings me back to Pia KILLED her child again.

Just because rano and bani are shown in a good light they can be mothers but not pia? that's just so F***ing biased.

Again, she killed her first child. That proves she doenst care. Suddenly she cares for her child so much? The person who couldnt care for her own sister, the person who brought her up, how much is she going to care for her child. I wouldnt be surprised if Pia, put her child up for adoption, when Jai goes back to Bani. Ofcourse jai wont let that happen.

I am sorry i guess it's my F***ing fault that i value the stupid Parent-child relationship too much.

No its good Shina. Its def not the childs fault. Its a good thing that you value parent child relationships. But what about the mother daughter relationship that Pia had with Bani. I mean I really have no words for that.

I know it's going to be hard but after today i am going to keep my posts to the minimal and well hopefully one day disappear from the forum before losing all the friends i made here.

Shina, everyone is entitled to their opinion. I disagreee with you mostly😆 But I do agree about the child, its not the childs fault. And you need not go off this forum, very quiet without your posts😃

Shina Take Care Reply Back.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: fsam

Shina we all value the parent/child relationship.
My issue, is that before the child is born JW cannot feel love or happiness for the child (he said so in his monologue while touching the rep*** stomach). After the child is born, what happens to the child, if whenever he sees the child he sees the mistake he made, because he sees the rep*** in the child. What happens to the child then. It is human nature to react in that way, what if he starts seeing this child as the reason Bani left. Will he able to love the child, forget unconditionally.

Also it is his desire for a child that is over taking his common sense and making him accept this child, not love for the child.

Taking the above into consideration, it would be better to obtain a DNA test before blindly accepting the child. At least if he is sure the child is his, he may feel some happiness and love for the child.

I am not even going to go into the Dixit lineage, as I think Rani has done that very eloquently.



Couldn't have put it better myself.

A child needs love, affection, care and concern of both its parent. What a child does not need is an environment where it is made to feel that it was conceived as a 'mistake' .Or the sole cause of the rift between a man and the wife he loves so much. Jai Walia is already so bitter about losing Bani, don't you think some of that bitterness would rub in in his association with the child?
What kind of milieu would the child grow up in knowing that its money-minded mother backstabbed her own sister? That she went after a man despite the fact that he would never love her back? That he would hold it against her even if she managed to get him to marry her? That it was nothing but a 'pawn' for its mother?

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