Stop Bashing Maasi

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I KNOW Massi was harsh on Jai, but there is a reason behind her harshness.

Her own sister's life was ruined because her husband, Jai's father, cheated on her.

She saw her sister's life ruined and she's not going to forgive a cheater. You have to look at it from her perspective.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I agree. This woman has seen what her sister went through when her husband had an affair. Massi is just being protective of Bani hoping that the same thing won't happen to her.

Besides everyone put Jai on this pedestal of being such a great human being including Massi. That illusion was destroyed in the worst way. Besides she's a woman too, she has to understand the plight of another anguished woman.


(We all have misguided notions of what we think is doing the right thing).

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Posted: 19 years ago
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ya that is true. She is protective towards bani.
But doesn't she find it important to find out the truth. I mean she brought up jai as her own son. can't she understand what kind of circumstances jai was in?
And NOBODY, bothered to ask jai about his side of the story. Everyone is worried about Bani... but what about Jai?
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Posted: 19 years ago
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She's entitled to her perspective - but that doesn't change the fact that she is a hypocrite, and not the kind of mother I would wish on anyone.

Out of everyone in the world the one person that is supposed to believe in you is your mother - when it comes to organising parties, and giving worldy wisdom out she is there, but where was her motherly love otherwise??

When Jai was being lied to left, right, and centre didnt the mother in her surface then? She has not handed out any punishment to her other "children" who were screwing their own brother out of his own property, but now it suits her to be judge and jury??

Just because her sister had a rough marriage does not give her the right to pass sentence on Jai when she could have prevented this entire fiasco from taking place eons ago had she just opened her mouth and told the truth. Bani's kasam is a weak excuse. The fact is that she is a hypocrite, who I pray is going to really suffer with guilt when the truth comes out.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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i noe most of ppl r saying that massi should not b harshed on jai so i wud jus lik to say that

no matter wht circumstances jai was in he committed a sin.he did cross his limits n in a way he broke his marriage vows.. 😕
however,itz true that he was not in control bt ven u do such kind of thing u hav to bare the consequences 2
i feel very sorry for him 😭
😊
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashi_sweetie

i noe most of ppl r saying that massi should not b harshed on jai so i wud jus lik to say that

no matter wht circumstances jai was in he committed a sin.he did cross his limits n in a way he broke his marriage vows.. 😕
however,itz true that he was not in control bt ven u do such kind of thing u hav to bare the consequences 2
i feel very sorry for him 😭
😊



So where are the consequences for deception and fraud by Jigs and Ranveer?

Where are the consequences for lying like Bani and Rano?

Where are the consequences for wilfully stabbing your sister in the back like Pia?

Where are the consequences for slapping your wife around and blackmailing your mama like Sahil?

None of the characters are perfect, so where is there punishment? As far as i can see, it is only Jai that is suffering at the moment.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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😉 yaar yaar anyone to blame i pia she cross all limit when she seduce her sister husband especially in his weekess moment, and he wasn't in his sence i am not saying her is not wrong, there is a saying it take 2 hands to clap so maasi should atleast give jai a chance to explain himself, i hope i make some sence 😳
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I agree you guys are to harsh on Masi.

Okay for all the people that are asking why not punish Jigayasa and Ranveer? Well they didn't do anything to Massi and Jai is a big boy and its his duty to punish when he finds out. Okay, why didn't she tell Jai about Jigyasa and Ranveer, she left that to Bani because it was Bani's secert to tell and remember that Bani told Masi not to tell.

In every other case the person who was wronged has the ability to answer back, they have the ability to find out the truth. But in Bani's case she is shocked and can't stand up for herself, she has no home other than WM, no family other than one married sister and one sister that betrayed her. Masi did the needful to support Bani and to stand up for her because she was incapable of standing up for herself.

Masi is not wrong, nor to harsh. For those of you that are asking why isn't she asking Jai his side of the story....its because Pia is pregnent and Jai has slept with her and showing any smpoythie for Jai, is betraying Bani.

-Rimpy
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I disagree yaar this Massi is too much, I want to get rid of her 😆 I dont likeher, cant belive what she did to our poor Jai, there is a limit to everyone, yes what Jai did was unforgivable but Massi should be the bigger person and try to mend there relationship rather than break it more. 😃
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: strawberry007

I disagree yaar this Massi is too much, I want to get rid of her 😆 I dont likeher, cant belive what she did to our poor Jai, there is a limit to everyone, yes what Jai did was unforgivable but Massi should be the bigger person and try to mend there relationship rather than break it more. 😃



its upto Bani whether she wants to mend this relationship, not Masi. Massi is just doing the right thing by sticking up for Bani. She is punishing Jai according to what she thinks would be justified for such a horrible deed. She is not punishing Pia because she has no right to punish her, that is why she is leaving it to Rano.

-Rimpy

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