Pia's intentions and Rano's Stares... - Page 3

She doesnt want her sister to raise this child on her own, and knows that the "father" should be there to take care of the child as well! Of course she doesnt know that her sister has betrayed her, her husband, etc. I think she is blaming both Pia and the father for their actions, and she wants to make sure that this child is not abandoned.

Bani is the type who watches out for her loved ones, and unfortunately for her, she doesnt realize that it is her own family that has it out for her!

***I m not talking about Bani's husband, I m talking about Pushkar! Not even once Bani does realise that Pia is also equally at fault and not only the guy! Why Bani doesnt even think once that, if that guy wanted to accept Pia he would hv already done it and in this case as Pia is also at fault, how can Bani talk about getting father's name for the child? Who is she to decide what other man wants to do in his life! She could hv spoken about all this nyay and stuff if her sister was raped! 😡 ! But this is not the case!! Then why this female thinks only about her sister and sister's pain! What pain is this suppose to be, where u are betraying everyone in the family! Even today Bani has not felt for her good friend Pushkar 😕 ! And that Pushkar is keeping quiet just for Bani's happiness!

Oh I more than agree-- thats why I wrote that she was blaming both for their actions. She definitely does not want an innocent child to suffer through this. And thats the kind of person Bani is-- She doesnt want anyone to suffer!

***But Harveen she is not talking about child only now! She is feeling sad for her sister that she is suffering!! Give a break! She has to think about Pushkar's situation now! She is not even bothered to talk to him or console him 😡

Originally posted by: aashyagh

She doesnt want her sister to raise this child on her own, and knows that the "father" should be there to take care of the child as well! Of course she doesnt know that her sister has betrayed her, her husband, etc. I think she is blaming both Pia and the father for their actions, and she wants to make sure that this child is not abandoned.

Bani is the type who watches out for her loved ones, and unfortunately for her, she doesnt realize that it is her own family that has it out for her!

***I m not talking about Bani's husband, I m talking about Pushkar! Not even once Bani does realise that Pia is also equally at fault and not only the guy! Why Bani doesnt even think once that, if that guy wanted to accept Pia he would hv already done it and in this case as Pia is also at fault, how can Bani talk about getting father's name for the child? Who is she to decide what other man wants to do in his life! She could hv spoken about all this nyay and stuff if her sister was raped! 😡 ! But this is not the case!! Then why this female thinks only about her sister and sister's pain! What pain is this suppose to be, where u are betraying everyone in the family! Even today Bani has not felt for her good friend Pushkar 😕 ! And that Pushkar is keeping quiet just for Bani's happiness!

Pia wasnt raped though. Pia admitted that she loves this man. And Bani knows that this man is at fault. I think she wants to find out who this man is that Pia loves and the who the father of this child is. I think in this case it is more of a case of the father's name for the child. She was angry at Pia but through it all didnt want the child to suffer by being called illegitimate.

I agree that she hasnt shown enough sympathy for Pushkar seeing that he is suffering through this and considering they are such good friends. But then again, Pushkar was avoiding going home, etc- maybe he chose to stay out of contact.

Harveen,

(And thats the kind of person Bani is-- She doesnt want anyone to suffer!)

And such people often make every one end up suffering.

Farah,

(she does know the pain of growing up an orphan, and she is one person who does not want the people she loves to experience such pain. )

Sadly that consideration did not extend to little Krishna who would have grown up fatherless had KD tapes not emerged at the right time.

Ash,

(She has to think about Pushkar's situation now! She is not even bothered to talk to him or console him )

Why should she? Pooch is not a Dixit.

Rgds,

Pri

She is definitely thinking of the child first in this matter. She is quite angry with Pia, for betraying her and Pushkar, but I think she knows what her sister is capable of in terms of raising a child. I agree- she also knows the need to have parents around more than anyone as she pretty much had to raise herself.

Pia wasnt raped though. Pia admitted that she loves this man. And Bani knows that this man is at fault. I think she wants to find out who this man is that Pia loves and the who the father of this child is. I think in this case it is more of a case of the father's name for the child. She was angry at Pia but through it all didnt want the child to suffer by being called illegitimate.

I agree that she hasnt shown enough sympathy for Pushkar seeing that he is suffering through this and considering they are such good friends. But then again, Pushkar was avoiding going home, etc- maybe he chose to stay out of contact.

***Harveen I agree that she is showing sympathy for the kid and she doesnt want it to be orphan! But did Bani even try once to ask Pia about that man's marital status? Did Bani ask if that person loves Pia or not? Did she bother to ask that if Pia had told that man if Pia is married or not? Did she ask Pia in what circumstances did they end up in bed? She is bothered about the kid which is not even come into the world, cant she bother about the people who already exists?? 😡

Ash,

(She is bothered about the kid which is not even come into the world, cant she bother about the people who already exists?? )

Now that P-P are off each other, the unborn is a Dixit, the people who already exist in the world (barring herself and Rano) ain't.

Rgds,

Pri

Secondly, it is usually the man who is the initiater, little does Bani know that reptile was the initiator. Therefore she wants to know, why a man would sleep with a woman and then not accept her. esp when Pia states very clearly that she is madly in love with the baby's father.


***Bani should hv asked Pia that does the man love her? And if he doesnt want to accept Pia, then why? Why is trying to investigate without any informations only? Pia loves someone and ends up in bed with them and she gets pregnant, does it mean that a person can go and ask legimacy of the child for this sake??

Originally posted by: fsam

Ash Bani thoughts right now are for the innocent child. Whether the man is fault or not, he is responsible for procreating the child and the child should have his name. That is why she is hell bent on finding the father.

Secondly, it is usually the man who is the initiater, little does Bani know that reptile was the initiator. Therefore she wants to know, why a man would sleep with a woman and then not accept her. esp when Pia states very clearly that she is madly in love with the baby's father.

I think Bani is also curious of this- if Pia loves this guy, and she is pregnant with his child then what is stopping him from giving the child his name? Bani wants answers, and these answers Pia isnt "willing" to give (meaning: purposely hiding them)

Originally posted by: aashyagh

Pia wasnt raped though. Pia admitted that she loves this man. And Bani knows that this man is at fault. I think she wants to find out who this man is that Pia loves and the who the father of this child is. I think in this case it is more of a case of the father's name for the child. She was angry at Pia but through it all didnt want the child to suffer by being called illegitimate.

I agree that she hasnt shown enough sympathy for Pushkar seeing that he is suffering through this and considering they are such good friends. But then again, Pushkar was avoiding going home, etc- maybe he chose to stay out of contact.

***Harveen I agree that she is showing sympathy for the kid and she doesnt want it to be orphan! But did Bani even try once to ask Pia about that man's marital status? Did Bani ask if that person loves Pia or not? Did she bother to ask that if Pia had told that man if Pia is married or not? Did she ask Pia in what circumstances did they end up in bed? She is bothered about the kid which is not even come into the world, cant she bother about the people who already exists?? 😡

Knowing Bani, she would never expect that her sister would have an affair with a married man. She is appalled on the fact alone that her sister, being married, had an affair with another man. Pia herself said that she loves him, Bani didnt even have to ask. Plus if Pia is the one that ushered him into bed, why would Pia say anything?

I think Bani was in too much of a shock to ask so many questions. It was hard enough for her to digest the fact that her sister cheated on her husband and wont tell her who the father of the child is.