Is Bani’s Miscarriage A Sacrifice?...Q&A! - Page 4

Originally posted by: ovaltine

Being a woman I would say no woman deserves betrayal but bani set herself up for one. That is the sad truth. She has to learn that there should be no secrets in love and partners should work together to overcome obstacles.

wow... what a perfect outcome.... big hands to you... this is quote..👏

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Before all Bani-supporters (I am one too) can jump their guns on me, let me assure you that I am not making a statement, merely asking a question!

i know the feeling dear, some things darr-darr ke kehna padta hai!! 😉

We all talk about how miserable, guilty and lowly Jai is going to feel when he comes to know how Bani lost their child (If he ever comes to know it)! Firstly, do you really think, that Jai can feel any worse than he already is?

it is physically impossible!! 😭

Secondly, a man commits a crime once, why does he have be punished for the rest of his life for it?

in Balaji serials, yes!! 😡

Agreed, what Jai has done in unpardonable, but what Bani did to him after the PR Raaz was equally heartbreaking, but she was forgiven for it, right? Both her parents, unintentioanlly sinned against Jai for no fault of his and he had to pay for 7 years....No one even bothered to ask for an apology from him! Why wasn't Bani even once angry with her dead parents for what they did to the man she loved? If she can destroy Jai's life for her dead parents, can't she apologize to him on their behalf?

All pertinent questions left unanswered - depends on who is in favour doesn't it?!!

Now coming to the Miscarriage issue, why should Jai feel guilty about Bani losing their child in the way she did? Jai was not responsible for it in anyway and the only reason why he broke down after Bani lost the child was because everyone told him that she had got the child aborted and Bani never bothered to correct him....She hid the truth of the death of their child from the Father himself! Do't you think Jai had any right to know how he lost his child? Was it his mistake that he was fed false informationn from everyone, including his own Wife?

COULD NOT AGREE MORE!!! WELL SAID!! 👏

True, Bani lost the child in a bid to save Jai's life, but is that Jai's onus? Did he ask for it? Did he expect this? Don't you think that if only Bani had used her brains more and told Jai about the impending disaster on his life, he would have done something? Else, wait for Pushkar's help? Knowing how delicate her condition was, she still stepped ahead, putting to risk her life along with the baby's! How come no one is blaming Bani for what happened?

because everyone is too wrapped up in lynching him for the ONS, regardless of the circumstances!! 😭

Hence, my question for you guys is;

Do you think that losing the child is as much Jai's mistake as it was Bani's?

it was an accident - Jai had nothing to do with it, he wasn't even involved in the entire situation!! she was the one who went after the guy, she decided to take him on knowing that she was in a delicate state!! how can he be blamed for that?!!

having said that - thoughtlessness is Bani's only mistake here (and most of the other times too!! 😡) - which is not really something she should be bashed for! it was an unfortunate accident, nothing more.

Do you think it was fair on Bani's part to hide the truth of her Miscarriage from Jai till this date?

Absolutely not!! It is in no way fair of Jai to hide the ONS from Bani, but I can see why he does so.

In Bani's situation, I just cannot for the life of me understand why Bani still has not clarified things with him!! Is she expecting him to just guess or something?!! 😕 and he was father!!

If Jai is accountable to his wife, why isn't Bani accountable to the father of her child??

Do you think that the reason why Jai broke into pieces was not because Bani lost the child, but because of the way he assumed, she lost it? (Abortion)

Both to an extent. The loss of the child was bad enough but what really must have killed him was that someone would take the life of his child, knowing how much he was anticpating one - and do it just to spite him!!

As well as this the fact that BANI, someone he trusts more than himself (in his own words) would do this must have knocked him for six. And people are then surprised that he broke down!!! 🤢

Do you think that Jai should feel more guilty and miserable than he already is when he comes to know how Bani lost their child?

He shouldn't, because it wasn't his fault and she never corrected him. I dont think he actually could feel worse!!

But he will. 😭

Most important, do you feel that Bani losing the child was a) Accidental ; b) Sacrifice on her Part ; c) Foolishness / Carlessness ; D) The only way she could save Jai. Do you feel that if Bani wanted to, she could have saved Jai's life, without risking the child's life?

I would call it a mix of A and C. She could have gone to Jai instead going after the killer. She tried his office, she knew where he was!! She could have waited for Pushkar, or called him and told him everything! She could have called the police. She could have called the hospital and told them to stop the inauguration and warn Jai. Or if she really wanted to confront the attacker she could have creeped up behind him and pushed him off the ledge - anything but warn the bad guy that she was there!!!!!

but then again, we are talking about a Balaji serial here, common sense tends to fly out of the window at most crucial moments!! 😕

Do you feel that the Child's death was the breaking point for Jai or was it the Divorce Papers that Bani supposedly sent him, weakened him down completely? Alternatively, was it the loss of the child which broke Jai or was it Bani's loss which threw him over the edge?

The divorce papers were what you would call "the final straw that broke the camel's back". The childs death did more damage than anything but he hadnt signed the papers yet - it was only when he got the call from his lawyer saying she / Pushkar was pushing for a divorce, did he lose his control and end up signing them.

I think the loss of the child broke Jai, but not irreparably - it was the loss of his soulmate that gave him that final push over the edge.

Would love to read your answers, this question has been playing on my mind for quite some time now!

i hope they were satisfactory hun!! 😊

Cheers,

MT