Why did Jai keep silent at Jig's threat? - Page 2

Originally posted by: pinky05

So if he succumbs to Jigs and brings Ranveer back in the house and instals Jigs as queen of the WM again he knows that their treatment towards Raashi will not change. Does that mean he is OK with that This would make him an indirect party to their domestic violence. 😕

good point.. but i would think that now that the whole family knows how Ranveer has treated her, they would take the extra caution to make sure it never happens again. Jigs has Jai where she wants and will do anything to get what she wants... Jai will succumb because he doesn't want the truth to come out..The only solution to this, i think, is to have Jai tell Bani the truth before anyone else tells her

Originally posted by: mahimn

Okay, tell me what do you all think Jai should do?Come clean with Bani and then what happens?

Lies always come out sooner or later.. The point here is that the sooner Jai tells Bani the truth, the better. The longer he takes the worst it will get.. I'm sure Bani will first wonder why he didn't trust her enough to tell her the truth.. Also the longer he takes.. she could find out from somewhere else and chances of her forgiving Jai then would be hard in my opinion

Mahim,

(Come clean with Bani and then what happens?)

There is a fair chance that Bani may forgive him or even if she walks out she will be back soon. And Pia and Jigs' bluff would be called.

Just too many people know waht happened. JW has to act decisively now.

Rgds,

Pri

Pri I agree with you butin my opinion, jai belives that bani wont forgive him once she finds out the truth even if it comes from jai himself.And that's probably why he's trying to hide it her for as long as he can cus he knows that he will loose her once the truth comes out in the open.Its the fear of loosing her thats holding him back from coming out clean with her.

Originally posted by: MOHENA123

Pri I agree with you butin my opinion, jai belives that bani wont forgive him once she finds out the truth even if it comes from jai himself.And that's probably why he's trying to hide it her for as long as he can cus he knows that he will loose her once the truth comes out in the open.Its the fear of loosing her thats holding him back from coming out clean with her.

Exactly, my point

I think he is not worried of she forgiving him or not, he is worried that she might do some harm to herself!! He can even take her anger, but he cannot see her hurt!!

I dodnt blame jai if he is not confideing in bani he very well knows when bani will find out about the o.n.s she would not be able to take it that her own sister and her darling husband has betred her big time 😭

Originally posted by: mahimn

Okay, tell me what do you all think Jai should do?Come clean with Bani and then what happens?

Then Bani will be peed off and leave, which is what I want.

she will get closer to Jai as he has trusted her and this always makes a relationship stronger. It will prove that the ONS was a real mistake, and Pia means nothing to him. By allowing Jigs and Pia to dictate to him, his effectively making things worse, he will have no respect left in the family, as everyone will know that it is jigs and not jai that rules the roost. he will lose his peace as he will be constantly worried that Bani will get to know. His behaviour with Bani will be strained and love will turn to obligation. Bani is too stupid to know what her hubby is going through so much, she only sees LOVE😆 No One and I mean No one can love their siblings so much that you can sacrifice your husband or your values for. any adversity and hardship fought with truth is bound to get better, hiding issues, being threatened and manipulated, shows the character to be weak and spineless. in this case the great Jai Walia.

Originally posted by: aashyagh

I think he is not worried of she forgiving him or not, he is worried that she might do some harm to herself!! He can even take her anger, but he cannot see her hurt!!

lying to your wife about something so huge is the most hurtful thing that a man/woman can do to each other. Imagine even in normal situations when someone lies to you and you get to know, it is not the lie itself that hurts, but the fact that it was never revealed to you. and is'nt anger an off shoot of hurt.? Jai's silence is baseless, he is not telling Bani, because him becoming a father is far too important to him, than Bani's feelings.

Jai's obsession of becoming a dad, is pretty sick. I still feel he harbours feelings for Pia, and does not want to admit it. Bani is his conscience not his love, I mean has he told her he loved her, and i mean really not in a dream sequence. No so I rest my case.

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I completely agree rather than behaving like a scared duck, Jai should be a man and go and confess everything to Bani...

Garf