Part 4--::Ram Kapoor’s Fan’s---Foursome:: - Page 168

hey guys cool down ...i have posted several times i am not a part of AF ....but from the very first day i felt a warm welcome from thier side ...
we are always debating on Ks and RK related topics i hardly see any chatting on this thread...thats what i like about it.
i can understand that Af cannot answere or put thier views on each and every post or debate...its not humanly possible...these gals also have jobs /personal life..
hey even i sometimes don't respond to thier individual post /debates..its not humanly possible...does that mean i am being rude to AF ???...i doubt that .

its not called ignoring if ur post is not being answered...
sometimes what happens is some hot disccusion is going on KS related stuff and we guys are busy discussing that ...busy typing our views on that ...all of asudden if another post not related to that particular topic but related to Ks is started ....his/her post does not get response .this does not mean we guys are ignoring u...its just that we are still talking on the previous issue...
so guys have patience ...ur voice would be heard too...just like mine is.
sometimes my my debate topic in not picked up that does not mean that they are ignoring me...it means they are still busy talking on the other issue...and vice versa ...i too sometimes fail to respond to thier topic coz i was busy dicussing other topic to someother gal....many a times its not even AF...she might be pooja/simiran/noor...so that does not mean i am ignoring AF.
well now i think we all should end this topic and carry on with the discussion on todays episode.

Have you guys seen todays epi??

What do yo think of the general theoty that Peebrain might have kept the lillies in the room 🤢

I really hope not.

The other thing that i noticed is that Pee brain wctually supports her sister being at Walia house when she was talking to Rano. I wonder what that means??

Also tmorrow is Friday and I bet it is going to end on a hanger.

Originally posted by: srkcc

Have you guys seen todays epi??

What do yo think of the general theoty that Peebrain might have kept the lillies in the room 🤢

I really hope not.

The other thing that i noticed is that Pee brain wctually supports her sister being at Walia house when she was talking to Rano. I wonder what that means??

Also tmorrow is Friday and I bet it is going to end on a hanger.

i don't think that pia has sent those flowers...she is not going to waste her time or take pains to find out what other peoples' likes or dislikes are....she only knows how to get gifts but not how to give gifts ....moreover why would she give flowers toady when bani had returned ..she could have given two days before ...or in office why all of a sudden today???

I think we should address to EVERYONE'S feelings when we are speaking. Just because a few people dont feel alienated doesnt mean NO-ONE does.

The reason Monika & I said that you guys should not ignore other people's comments or posts is because of this specific post:

Originally posted by: Piscean

Lets do it Adi!
Firstly I can't believe it came from you considering that yes you might not be able to talk to all of us but at least you talk to SOMEONE on this thread! YOU are respected and half the people on this thread come out for you! At least Soap is around sometimes when you are! I come onto this thread and not only find NONE of the AF but also find that NO ONE wants to even bother to talk to ME! 😕 Do you have any idea how frustrating it is for me? I was sitting here yest afternoon talking to myself in OUR thread EVEN THOUGH there were scores of others chatting amongst themselves. NOT ONE reply to my posts, not one acknowledgement although they were around. I personally am not one to vent here and do this so blatantly but when I saw your post I got aggrevated. All I do is wait around and see maybe that I might get one reply from one of the AF even if it is in the middle of the night when my eyes won't stay open but you come out with that comment? 😕 I'm sorry guys I never meant to do this but I just got so frustrated reading this early in the morning esp after what has been happening with me in this thread. So to sum it up Adi if you want to dissolve AF I'm more than ready!

Originally posted by: monika.goel

hey we are not holding anybody responsible for this thread and not taking any names here- if this an universal thread then why its name is foursome-then it shud be ram kapoor's fan's or something like this-as they started this thread and are mainly taking part in discussion's here-why they not posting anywhere else -why they dont take participate in discussion of the week or any other kind of discussion's in other thread's on the section--

can u explain this please-

if u are not feeling good abt it then we are also not feeling good abt it as we really get lots of pm's from members who feel neglected here and we have to find a solution for it-

if this continue then i am sorry to say that mods will move this post to chat clubs section-then we will not be able to help out to save this thread-

i and khoo are just trying to save this thread from being moved to chat clubs section-hope u all gave us support in saving it otherwise it will be moved to chat club-if such kind of situation prevails-

hope i made my point clear and straight forwardly-

Monika

On behalf of ks dev team-

I totally agree with monika! Members, you are not trying to get the message we are trying to convey!

Apart from being ignoring, we are trying to raise some other issues that were discussed and that were complained about!

I know in many place some sarcasm was used by members, but im not going to mention who did it!

And we are not blaming any one in here nor we are saying that reply to every single thread!

But I'm sorry if this offends anyone, as there are some favorites in here, and i noticed that alot!

I recieved a PM from someone saying that one of the foursome Pmed them asking them to make their siggies smaller in size the next tiem they come to "our" thread! when this thread is universal, why is it being called our thread!

And sorry to say, someone even mentioned about me being controlling the thread, when you could just tell me straigth-forward that you wanted the edit the first page!

Please try to understand and it's not about picking sides now, and that's what i think is going on!

Anyways, i think i just stated my opinion, and me and monika tried to do our best to make our point come forward and try to convince you members!

If this thread gets moves, then sorry to say, we won't be able to do anything about it!

Thanks

khoo

On behalf of KS IF DEV TEAM

Originally posted by: J.

I think we should address to EVERYONE'S feelings when we are speaking. Just because a few people dont feel alienated doesnt mean NO-ONE does.

The reason Monika & I said that you guys should not ignore other people's comments or posts is because of this specific post:

Thanks for bringing this up J... now you can see one of the foursome feels ingnored on this thread and it's clearly stated!

Originally posted by: J.

I think we should address to EVERYONE'S feelings when we are speaking. Just because a few people dont feel alienated doesnt mean NO-ONE does.

The reason Monika & I said that you guys should not ignore other people's comments or posts is because of this specific post:

Wow so it was me who started this! 😕 Well can I tell you Monika and J that I certainly wasn't accusatory in my posts....I guess you guys failed to read my very next few posts about me being fine with the whole deal! 😕
It's the sort of relationship we have in this thread.....one that's mature yet immature at the same time but we all do it in jest and NONE of us feels accused by them! At least not till now! You can see in the very next posts how we moved on and posted just as before coz our major purpose in this thread is to enjoy healthy discussions not pull each other down!

So again if it was THIS very post that made you feel like you needed to post a warning then ONLY I and ONLY I am to be blamed for it....NOONE else from the AF or from the thread in general!

And for that I would like to publicly apologise for the agony caused to all of AF, EVERYONE who posts in this thread and to the mods as well! I guess I should've known better than to post that here! 😕

I'm guilty as charged and at the mercy of the mods. I would like to request the mods to let everyone else who posts here off the hook coz I know for a fact how welcoming everyone in this thread is!

Sincerely
Pi

so much for the free speech....i mean are these mods are gonna spy on us ...i suggest why don't they do like as they do in schools...they should determine what topic we should debate on.....and oh...why don't they do the discussions themselves thatway no one would be offended ...we can be dumb readers....with no voice at all 😡

Originally posted by: J.

I think we should address to EVERYONE'S feelings when we are speaking. Just because a few people dont feel alienated doesnt mean NO-ONE does.

The reason Monika & I said that you guys should not ignore other people's comments or posts is because of this specific post:

J. and Monika,

I would like to point out that something has been taken out of context and it has been made into a big issue. The Aditee comment was a joke that the original AF members due to personal life pressures are not around as much so why do they need AF. Pi a member just vented a little about the AF's not being on and some of her posts not getting replied. If Pi one of the original AF members can say her posts are getting ignored than you can understand it's not something that is being done deliberately to new people who come to the thread. The pace of the conversation gets going and when people join in, in the middle their points might not get addressed.

I do not think it is the AF or any posters job on this thread to make sure every post gets answered. I am a silent reader on many of the other posts, and over 80% of posts do not get replied to. This is a free forum and people are allowed to come and express their views. Just because this has become popular should not mean that the AF's are responsible to make sure everyone does not get their feelings hurt. I am actually amazed at people's pettiness. We have something amazing going in this forum that is even getting acknowledged by the actors and people are trying to pull it down. People need a reality check here.

Tisha I am going to use you as an example I hope you don't mind. When Tisha started a post she used MT's name becuase she knew MT was popular and the discussion would get more traffic. Similarly in the AF thread some are regulars and people are used to going back and forth with them. So the regulars obviously will sometimes get more response. However, I have seen everyone make a genuine effort to include everyone in the conversation. But I think the post must also be relevant and the peopple in the thread should think it interesting enough to respond to. To hold a whole thread hostage to a few disgruntled posters is doing a great disservice to a really well intentioned and enjoyable thread. You can see by all the support this thread has.

Also about chatting we are all concious about it and try not to avoid it. But we are humans and replying back and forth to people who we have made connections with and having a few personal comments is normal. Otherwise this would become a military operation and not a democration free speech proponent forum.

I am really sad that moderators keep on threatening to take this thread to a chat discussion when so many people enjoy it on a daily basis to appease a disgruntled few. Are our feelings not important?

regards,

moudeb