Kuch to log kahenge,logonka kam hai kehna

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hello Everyone!

I am as confused as Jai was in yday's episode. Nothing to do with Jai-Bani but with Pia😕? Was she being the caring sister that she came across as? I want to believe she was… but I am feeling a bit too uncomfortable with her around… Na, I am not insecure about Jai's feelings for Bani… The Moron would rather spend his life confused about his feelings for Bani than look at another woman now😆. Itna tho barosa hai Jai par. But Pia… I am not sure! Really not sure… my minds say something, but she kind of caught me off guard. I don't know what I am saying… so if I end up contradicting myself… I am sorry!😕

Kuchh to log kahenge, logoon kaa kaam hain kehanaa😡chhodo, bekaar kee baato mein , kahee beet naa jaaye rainaa😕

I am really put off by what Pia had to say… and all the more irritated coz Jai is letting her affect him😡. Jai, don't listen to her. She really has no other business than complicating lives for others. Don't listen to her and lose this chance of having things corrected. This is the time Bani needs to be secure about ur feelings for her… don't confuse her further. It is enough torture that she feels she is carrying the child of a man who is responsible for her mom's death… U will nail her down completely by calling that night a galati. U really don't want that sweety, esp when u know that this Kid is the BEST that can happen to Bani and You.

Where was Bani? Missed her yday…has the house been missing her? Her darling husband looked totally lost without her. Did anyone check on her? Did she eat? Did she sleep? Jai knows better than entering that room, Massi is too upset with her, Rano is not around…I wonder how she is coping with it. Or she is even come out of her daze to cope with it? She looked dead sitting on the floor her legs drawn into her chest… but her tears seem to have tried up😭. Or she has exhausted them that there is no more left. Felt like going and shaking her up and make her yell at Jai and get out all the pain… but it wasn't the best option, was it😕? I am in a way glad that Jai left her alone and didn't persuade her to talk to him… he has told her what she means to him, and that his reaction to their baby is positive… There is nothing more I wanted Jai to tell her at this point in time.

Yeh aaya apna hero…the tears continuing to stream down his eyes remembering Bani and all those precious moments that brought them together. If a person who hasn't followed the story and just watched those scenes would have been convinced these guys were in love for centuries😳. What hurt me most was that they won over all adversaries and found eachother only to lose all over again. It doest hurt much if you lose, but if you come close to win and then lose… it makes one miserable😭. That is what Jai-Bani are going through. I really hope I saw the end of Jai's tears… just makes me want to defend him at any cost.. to hell with rationalizing things and wanting to be right! 😕

Jigyasa and ranveer broke my heart yday. I always thought she just hated Bani… coz she just hated Bani. NO! I thought she felt Bani wasn't the right girl for her Jai Bhaiya… no, Jigyasa wouldn't really care if Jai would transfer all his property to Ranveer and Sahil! How could you Jigyasa??? U even mentioned the inevitable…I am still in a denial mode. Jigyasa couldn't have said that.😕

Ranveer's expression was worth a million dollars when his Jigyasa broke the news. Anyway he really didn't look as if he was behind Jai's property… he is behind making life hell for his Mamiji… no problem… he will be on the right path very soon and he wont even realize. I liked Rashi yday when she prayed in the temple that she wants to make her marriage work… It is a tough job Rashi, but not impossible. So All the Best. 😛

Ranveer tu tho gaya kaam se… even ur Mamaji began his marriage life vowing to destroy the Dixit sisters and now is hopelessly in love with hiswife…tera bhi vahi halath hogi😆. Siddarth has an amazing screen presence… and one of the most powerful gazes… only he could have done justice to Ranveer…👏 Ali Hasan would have been a disater🤢!

Anu-Rohit… arre yaar why is this Anu such a dabba on my name😡? She wanted to drink champagne when she is 4 months pregnant??? And Rohit…. Hmmm nothing all this to impress is Mama-in-Law to get some of his property I guess… Papa chopra must have said so😡😆! Btw MT, at the risk of shocking you I wanted to say this frog faced guy is one of the guy topping Ekta's list of promising newcomers in her camp🤢. He is Karan patel and he is the main lead for the next Ekta venture with Amit Tandon as the other main lead, Krimson Skies. It is for Star One.

Rano looked sweet in salwar… she should stick to it… hopefully wont see her in jeans again.

Pia, Pia, Pia…. She leaves me irritated every god damn time. Never expect me to give her a chance… I might never do it, I will always have that nagging doubt somewhere eating into my sanity when it comes to Pia. Ok she was being a Good sister and a caring sister, but then WHO the hell does she think she is in any case to be speaking to Jai like that. I am not saying Jai didn't deserve it…he did.. but for other reasons. Before she came and taunt Jai like that she should have spoken to her sister.

What bugs me the most about Pia is that she sees things from her perspective ONLY! She can change her view on anyone at her own convenience. It is all fine if it suits her mood and requirements! How self centered is that😕? She can call Pushkar a loser and tell him he is the biggest mistake of her life and 24 hours later hug him as if if he wouldn't been there her life wouldn't have a meaning. The other day she told Jai that it what he feels for Bani is what Love is all about and today she accusing him of taking her revenge on Bani? Once she tells Rano that Jai is someone who respects Love and now she tells him that he took advantage of her sister. And if you want me to take such a fickle minded girl's seriously or see any thing good about her… then I am sorry… I cant see any! She is no more than a self centered, selfish girl!

And from where did all this concern and care for Bani come all of a sudden is my point? Has she ever bothered to call up Bani atleast once in a week to speak to her and make an effort to hear out Bani's heart? Has she EVER? If she had she would have known Bani is hopelessly in love with Jai. No, she actually thought Bani was lucky coz she had the keys of the Walia Khadaan's tijori with her and can help her with money at her convenience!!! It really doesn't go down with me well. As far as I can see… all have always taken Bani for granted, Be it her father, her sisters, Massi or Jai. But Jai is the only person who acknowledges the fact that he takes her for granted and is guilty about it and makes it up to Bani in his own sweet way and evert time he gets a chance he tells her how appreciative he is about her care and concer. I haven't seen anyone care of Bani the way Jai has… be it saving her from death itself or help her tie dori. Jai has been the only one who has SHOWN care and concern to Bani… the others merely talk and do nothing for her. So if you ask me even in terms of relationships… Pia has no right to talk to Jai like that😡.

Now how on earth did she know that Bani was drunk that night? I am sure Bani didn't tell her, Jai would never… THEN😕? What business does she have in anyway interfering into the space of a Husband and Wife? I was so waiting for Jai to flare up and give her a dose he gave Roshini about it… But the guy is far too guilty for other reasons and he is mixing it up with this issue and only confusing himself all the more😡.

I can understand Pia was being protective about Bani, but then Bani can handle herself all right. She surely doesn't need some interfering with her marriage. Bani was the one who had the drink, ask her na how conscious she was taking that step forward with jai… don't sit presume stuff. And Jai I am so wild with you to even have offered an explanation. U say 'It is between me and MY WIFE and I don't want to talk about it' End of story. No, u have to explain that u didn't drug her and Pia shot back that he went ahead knowing she was drunk. Ok fine agreed that night wasn't supposed to be way it should have happened but then after that haven't u seen this couple hopelessly in love with eachother? Hasn't she seen Bani glowing? Didn't see she Jai sing(if could I call it that😆) for Bani? Didn't see them oblivious of the whole world dancing and lost in eachother? Didn't see Bani beaming with happiness when Jai acknowledged her presence in his life and his family? Jai even did Rano's kanyadhaan. What more proof do u need for the fact that these two have a genuine relationship going? And seriously Pia, why would I care even if u didn't get it? I am so bugged with her… she sees only stuff she wants to see, the way she wants to see it… and I give two hoots for what she thinks and Jai should too. 😡

'Main apni Di ko janto hoon, wo apne pyar ke alwa kisse aur ke samne samarpan nahi karegi. Aur ap unke pyar nahi hai.' All this while Jai kept quite and he flared up at this one… not coz it was angry… but it hurt him the most... That he wasn't the guy Bani loved. It is not that he has any doubts about the fact that Bani loves him… but with the park road coming to the fore he is convinced he has lost her to hatred. He repeated that twice and in so much anguish and hurt… it was ripping his heart apart. AS much I would want to call him a duffer and yell at him for not understanding Bani and calling that night a Galati… I cant get myself to do it😭. Coz now he is not thinking from his point of view… he is talking from Bani's point of view(so he thinks!) and according to him Bani hates him and the pregnancy at this point of time is no more than a burden for Bani. He didn't say He doesn't Love Bani, he said Bani doesn't love him. It is what he has to cope with… losing the most cherished person in his life😭. Mera bechara, Jai

Pia should mind her own business if she doesn't know what kind of a Man Jai is. What Bani felt seeing him with Roshini is something Jai understood more than U, Pia… so no one really cares what ur tippani is on how a wife feels when she sees her husband with another woman. I am not offering any explanation for what Jai-Bani felt, not to Pia atleast😡.

I am so bugged with the way she spoke… did she sound like Bani's sister? She sounded like Jai's ex-fianc! Is that the way to talk to your sister's husband? I don't know what I am talking… just felt so.. so I am mentioning it.

And WHO the hell is she to decide the fate of that child😡? If I was in Jai's place I would have strangled her right then, right there to even dare to talk about my kid like that. Btw did u observe how shattered Jai was when Pia said so? He looked as if his entire existence would seize the very moment. He reacted to only two things… that he wasn't the one Bani loves and the kid never making it to the world. Me feeling so bad for my duffer darling. He deserves better.

Why is she under the opnion that she matters to Jai? She is still acting as if she is the center of his existence😡 Pia, Jai is OVER you, period! If he is even bothering to hear u out it is coz u happen to be Bani's sister. More than care for Bani, I felt Pia wanted to blame Jai for Bani's state. She knows she is responsible but doesn't want to take the entire blame on herself so blamed and taunted Jai with it. She was just wanting to wash away her guilt… and she did just that. Jai ended up guiltier than ever. Jai would have given it back to Pia, but kept quite coz he knew he didn't have a right to after what he has done to them. I wonder why Jai is not guilty of killing Pia-Rano's mom aswell. 😕

Now Jai listen up.. u r suffering from enough guilt over ur past… don't let Pia to affect and confuse you about what you feel for Bani. The world can talk and say anything they want… but you remain honest to your feeling and trust your feelings for Bani. Don't let anyone affect your relationship with Bani. NO ONE! Do u get that? 😡

And Pia, trust me I can already hear the echo of a slap across ur face when u tell Bani to abort the kid. Bani is going to blast out Pia like never before and I am more than sure we are going to here 'Yeh Bacha mera hai, SIRF MERA. Yeh Bacha Meri jeeni ke waje hai…' and Jai will get a dressing down a later, I hope so. Not in front of Pia atleast. Arre this kid is amazing… aate hi Bua and Massi ko ek tapad lagva diya😃. I am so proud of this baby. I am on no one's side.. Nor Jai's nor Bani… me on the Baby's side and it better be the winner. 😕

Btw Roshini ruled the day today👏. Her best performance till date and she carried herself brilliantly… loved the way expression she gave when she gave Jai the sweets. Ram was good as the heart broken , eternally confused, guilty as hell Jai Walia👏. Prachi was on screen for 10 secs… but if there is one image that haunted me… it was Bani holding herself close and staring away into vaccum👏. Ashwini was brilliant when she showed a glimpse of the actual intentions of Jigyasa… she left me COLD👏.

Another mindblowing episode waiting to go on air today. Lets see how it goes. Now I am sure I have it from Pia's camp? Is there any? Havent read any posts from last nite… my power is on and off at my place… that is why this post is coming this late.😕

Bye

Lots of Luv

Anu.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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hey you got a really good point there it was more of a Pia episode ysday but i supose Bani needed a break. Personally i did not like the acting by Pia she squeaked wayyyy tooo much which i think weakened the confrontation scene but in the end i guess it was okay. Oh yeah and Jai really should'nt have spilled the beans of her drink being spiked and said that oh i know she don't love me when infact Bani never said anything up untill she found out he killed her mum.

Now the next episode should be good in the sense that Bani will be back on track and what her reaction will be to the abortion proposal
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I agree completely Anu its is only Jai who has shown love for Bani while others have only taken her for granted and he has admitted his mistake of having wronged in the past I can say buddy Anu you read my mind 😉on this I also feel who is Pia she didnt have any business to raise her damn voice on Jai when sheis very one to cause pain and anguish in Jai and Bani life all this time😡. I feel who is talking about relationships when she was the very one to leav Pushky and come in Walia house few days back and nowshe is accussing Jai about marital issues😕 I hate her double standards what she meant by saying that Jai took adanvtage of Banis condtion did she imply rape or abuse if so her Bani never told her about it or did she assume that JW the man same Pia had once said to Rano that he knows relation s and understands about love could be the very one to destroy Banis life by destroying her self respect I feel she nearly crossed her limits this time tthen she went ahead by talking about abortion excuse me lady who are you decide in husband and wife privates matters and lives its not enough you questioned their intimate sex life now you go into personal issues you are limit you hot headed attention seeker Pia😡 Though I felt she is jealous that JW loves Bani 😉I hopeBani will give Pia a tight slap accross her face that will be joyful sight to watch😃 while she will cold with Jai which is undertood but I want Bani to come out of her daze who better than Pia to give her another shock to Bni and remove from her trance and then Pia will face brunt of her stupid action😆

Anu I loved your analysis 👏

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Posted: 19 years ago
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well done, and very well put together 👏 👏 👏
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Anu, you have completely bowled me over. 👏 👏 👏
How can you write so beautifully? Please give me some tips yaar 😆 , my writing always goes haywire. Its like as if I am thinking of a different sentence and writing something else (just like our sweet Jai's behaviour) 😉

BTW, I agree with every word you wrote and Pia irritated me to no ends yesterday. Agreed, she ahs a right to interfere in her sisters lives but she should know the limit. The way she spoke to Jai infuriated me, not because she went off-limits (hell, some of what she said made sense 😕 ) but her attitude took me off guard. If Jai had indeed forced Bani to a physical relation, Bani would not have kept quite (I know my hunnybun and that she's a strong girl) and it would be so apparent. But, as you have mentioned, Bani for once has not thought of that NIGHT as a disaster or a mistake, she saw it as a beacon for her to carry on living even when they go through the divorce.
I guess what has shocked her the most is that not only she loves Jai, whom she has vowed to hate for ever, now she has been bonded by another bond with him, so strong yet so delicate, making it difficult for her to break their relation and part ways.
I agree Bani scared me yesterday, especially the non-responsive way in which she sat yesterday in the bedroom. She was also so numb the other day when she was sitting ramrod straight on the sofa, ready for flight but nowhere to go 😭 . She has finally been shackled by the golden chains. My heart goes out to her and I wish i could have personally shekn her out of that numbing reverie in which she is at present.

On another note, I didn't like explaining anything to Pia at all. Who is she after all? 😡 The fact that she has a chance to stand before Jai and speak all that is mainly due to the fact that Jai acknowledges her as Bani's sister and he is hell-bent on not wanting to hurt Bani anymore. I also agree that Pia only has eyes for herself. Yes, didn't she see the two lovey-doveys dancing away to 'Kuch Na Kaho' without a care in the world and without as much as a glance towards anybody else? 😳 Didn't she see Bani dancing and puring out her love for Jai prior to the wedding?

If Jai is so guilty, then why did ND send her three young daughters to him in Mumbai? No normal parent would send their child to any person who has caused them any harm. Means that probably he realised that Jai was not the main culprit and that the accident was at best an accident. 😕

Don't want to discuss abt Jigs and Ranveer only. They only deserve these 😡
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Posted: 19 years ago
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👏 👏 I support you all the way... I just cant be on Pia's side... I hate the way she connects Jai's and Bani's relation through her.... She doesnt exist in their link anymore.. why cant she just understand that!!!!!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Anu, very well said 👏 👏 - in fact all your analyses. I really like the way you capture nuances.

You're right, Pia has this quality of only ever seeing things from her point of view.

Also, I think she hates the idea of this baby so much because she's jealous. As long as Bani was Jai Walia's 'wife' as in playing the role of the bahu, she was happy. Perhaps in one corner of her heart happy that a man was crazy enough about her to torment her sister in vengeance. I think she was pretty pleased at having ensnared The Jai Walia. But she made the mistake of assuming that the relationship between Jai and Bani was static, frozen where she left it.

Now she knows that it has moved on. She got her first hint the day she interrupted them. Now with proof of a baby staring her in the face, she is forced by her own ego to assume that in sleeping with his own wife, Jai was actually revenging himself on her. How self absorbed can she get! 😡 😡 Hasn't she been seeing the utterly blissful looks on the faces of these two?

On another level, I think Pia is a great character for the story tellers to make up. Brilliant - she really zips the story.

Love,
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Trust my Anu to always come up for defending Jai! Lolz...Lucky Guy, he has the best ladies standing up for him, onscreen and offscreen! 😃

Honestly Anu, that Frog-Face is one of Ekta's promising new comers....Haila.....

What is he going to play in Krimson Skies? A Prince who turned into a Frog? 😆

One he looks awful (He really does look like a Frog, just look at him carefully!) and secondly he doesn't have much role in KS so we dont' know about his acting!

But as a lead role, Eeeeksss..... 🤢

Cheers,

MT
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hi Anu!! Some wonderful points mentioned there!

Truly, if anyone has ever'shown' any concern and care for Bani through actions, then it has been Jai. Yes Rano has been there for Bani for the most part, but all she could offer was assurances and hugs. Never mind that, since she is the youngest. Pia hardly ever uttered any words of care for her Di except a couple of times when she cried in front of her husband, and the many times she spoke of the love between the sisters.

I was SHOCKED at what Jigyasa had to say. 😡 Thank god that Ranveer didnt get any lines to respond to her nasty intentions. All the time we were disgusted with Jigs yet we acknowledged her love for her brother. Im totally shocked with that she said! All she cares about is the property! So now we can say that Jigs is not only irked with Bani because she thinks of her as a gold-digger, but because she is Jai's wife! No wonder she caused problems in Jai's and Roshni's marriage! She doesnt want a woman at all in her brothers life, because that will inevitably debase her authority in the Walia household and the marriage may also lead to a heir! This is absolutely disgusting! She is out and out an evil character. No sympathies for her from now own! 😡

Pia, as Bani's sister is not wrong to defend her sister or protect her from apparently being wronged. But I agree with everything you have to say about her fickle nature. She has never been consistent and that is the same complaint I voiced in a response to MT's post. Though she didnt state it explicitly, basically what she did was accuse Jai of 'r***.' How did she conclude that? This can never be supported rationally! Hasnt she seen their relationship grow in the past few days? Hasnt she seen their acknowledgement of each other publicly? You and others have said enough about Pia.

I never got to talk about the abortion that she mentioned! Thats Pia for you. She is impulsive 😡 and thats all there is to it! When she did nothing to save Bani from a disastrous marriage, why is she deciding what will happen to the child?

Basically, like I said, Im against the content of Pia's diatribe against Jai, and not the fact that she spoke to him, as Bani's sister! She was so condescending.....I felt too bad for Mamaji. 😭

And yes, Roshni was too good today! The best part of the performance was her posture! Did you notice how she takes a seat close to Jai, and rests her arm on the sofa just the way Jai's arms were? 😆 As soon as she sat there like that, I knew Jai was having it, and having it horrible! The way she sat there seemed to immediately lessen Jai's power in that scene! She really weighed him down.... 👏 to the direction!

Thats all I have to say. Im waiting for the real masala, that is, the confrontation between Jai and Bani!

BTW, the July 18th episode has put our doubts to rest hasnt it? Munna cares more for his wife than his munna! It cant get better for JB campers! 👏 👏 👏 👏 An applause for the writers/directors/makers for including this scene, and making his feelings clearer! They made me glad or what!

Thats all for now,
luv, Jojo
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Pia ( 😡 )is going to confuse a already confused Jai into believing that Bani doesnt love him etc etc and that he took advantage of her...
Right now Jai needs people like Masi who can encourage and motivate him to get Bani and make ammends not drama queens like Pia to confuse him more....

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