Observations - 13Th July

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A man's life is not complete until he either authors a book or fathers a child!

-French Proverb

If a woman - child relationship is the most sacred on earth, the father - child equation is the most unique of its kind. Ask me to define the relationship I share with my father and I cannot. I can only feel it. Till date, we have shared neither hugs nor kisses. He has never told me he loves me. I have never told him I love him. All his life he slogged for other people and we hardly spent any quality time together and yet even today I run a high temperature if he goes out of station for even a day, he gets all worked up and uneasy if I'm late by even a second. The day I got my first pay cheque, I remember he had only a 'Congratulations' to offer me while my mom was all over me, hugging me, kissing me like I had won the Booker. He said nothing but his daughter couldn't be fooled. She could see his chest swell up with pride and his eyes shine with the tiny tear of love and affection, like finally he has received his life's greatest reward. And it has always been like that between us. We never needed to verbalize what we felt for each other. We knew, we know, we always will know what we mean to each other. I know his life is nothing without me. He knows the day, the day arrives when we will have to part ways, I will miss him as much as I will miss my mother, if not more. I look back and I see that if mom was a tree, offering me shade and succor, Pa was my wall, silently supporting and protecting me from all ills and standing between pain and me.

It is sad that while we on the one hand eulogize (And rightly mind it) the mother, we are guilty of underrating a father's love for his child. Because men, most of them, at least the ones I have come across, just cannot express their feelings, give a form to their inner thoughts. But ever seen a 'would be' father waiting outside the delivery room? Ever seen a 'just become father' when the new life is put in to his trembling hands? If you have you'll know what I mean. If you haven't, wait till you, to fathom what it means for a man to become a father.. .. ..Or just watch the last scene from yesterday's episode!

All the fury, the pain, the injustice buried deep for so long now demand an outlet and Bani gives them in the form of "I hate you Mr. Walia". Repeating all that and showing us all that again is not in good taste, Zee. Repeating a big chunk of last episode gets boring, unless it's something like that amazing hug. When Amma opened her mouth, I was like arrey somebody, mouth dissolving need ki goli dedo miya biwi ko or better still Munna time for a kiss attack- after all my kiss dispenser has never missed his aim till now, na? The bg was pathetic. I can never forgive them for that.

The three couples are getting ready to be dumped at the hotel. And Jiggu is purring sweet nothings in to her daughter's ears who incidentally happens to have the expression of? No expression at all. Anu kuch tho kabhi tho emote kar dear. Such a touching moment and her voice and face are flat. Rano is reliving that cute but unfortunate kid's past when Kiran is feeding her noodle soup. Gosh Kiran what perverted logic induced you to stand under that manhoos lamp post on that manhoos day? Please tell me or my head will burst. Much as I felt like strangling Pa and Ma Dixit, I couldn't but help be moved by the scene 'Meri duniya hai tujhme kahin'.Ouch!It must be the most terrible thing in the whole world to be suddenly orphaned and thrown at the mercy of the ruthless world. It's lucky that the 'ruthless world' happened to be out Hot and happening Munna.Gosh!Kya lagtha hai! Jiggu Kitty, how come it doesn't strike you that like Anu is your daughter, Bani, Rano and Pia are somebody else's daughters too? You cannot bear to see your child shed even a single tear but leave no stone unturned to hurt somebody else's daughter? Unki hai teri beti ko hi lagegi. Munna calls up Mausi to tell her Bani ha staken ill. Wah Munna! One of the best decisions of your life! I a proud of you.

Yes Yes Yes yes! Ma Tony is back! My angel is back! Gosh honey, where were you? I missed you exceedingly. KS ki raunak hi choot gayi thi. Gosh! He looks so fresh and as glad as ever to be back. Mera malai marke lassi, welcome back! "Anything else Ma'am?" Gosh! Nobody can say that like he does. Ma Tony! Ah I am in the seventh heaven! Never leave me again my milk.

Gosh Pushku, you lifting weights? He has grown so mature and I don't know he has become more adorable. Maybe it's the stubble? I still cannot believe this is Pia. So understanding and more likable now. I loved the way she gazes at her husband lovingly like she is seeing him for what he is, for the first time. Pushku koi kala jadu tho nahin kiya hi na? Well. Very fulfilling to see them like that. Eesh, keep them that way. I think there is no danger to me Munna's izzat from this quarter.

I was waiting to see Rano and Sahil together as husband and wife. A huge let down! Sahil looked so hot in blue I cancel my previous disowning him and accept him back as one of me crushes. Hot yes but hey nowhere near my Neelnath! Gosh! Gosh! Munna just rocks in Blue even if he tortures his vocal chords and gives the asses a run for their money. Rano looks at herself in the mirror, she made quite a picture and one of my all time favorites plays in the bg 'Jab koi bath bigad jaye jab koi mushkil pad jaye, tum dena saath mere O humnawaz - would suit Amma and Munna perfectly. Amma you listening?Give your saath to my Munna. He needs it. Sahil comes along and they share a warmless soulless hug. He understands she is missing her sister and he says this is pyar. Yeah? And what is stabbing your Mami on the back and running away and keeping mum like pigeon refuse is stuffed in your mouth when your mom is about to kick this 'pyar' of yours Out called? Come again Sahil. I can never quite forgive you and Rano for your insensitiveness and unscreened selfishness. Hai Eesh! Kaise kaise namoonon ko paida kiya hai bhai? Rano accepts Sahil's chest to rest her head on to go to sleep? And Look at the way both adjust their heads so they are in the most comfortable position. So funny. Gosh Rano and Sahil, you are as bad as your Mama and Mamiji. Gosh this is your SR - Use the damn Bed for god's sakes! Pathetic chemistry between these two. What happened to that brilliant chemistry that existed when Bani Amma caught them in each others' arms? Maybe they need Amma; the initiator?

Ye lo aur ek namoona pair. After causin so much mischief, Anu and MT's frog faced boyfriend are happily having the time of their lives, resting comfortably on the bed (Chalo koi tho bed ka isthmal kar raha ahi. Main dhanya ho gayi!) and the dialogues cracked me up. "I am sorry Anu"! I mean ding dong to bhai aram se kar liya aur proof bhi chodke rakha hai, use legalise bhi kar diya and mahashay is sorry for it now! Darling have you borrowed your brains from Sandy Bhalua nd Cobra combined? Anu was equally responsible. Sorry apne behen ko jake kaho. Dekh Swamiji uska kya haal kar raha hai. Though Anu drones on that maybe this is pyar, the sentiment behind it touched me. A mistake happened. Maybe lust. Maybe infatuation. But Rohit was very clear about wanting to rectify it and therewas never the question of ditching Anu and I think if Papa Cobra would have played some funny games, Rohit would stand up to him. I like this guy. Give him a sensible role and I am sure he can act. Anu you stick to grinning from ear to ear like a drugged grinning monkey.

Ting ting ting tung tung tung tung Gosh! The bells bg - they and Swamiji make me dizzy with desire. Gosh! Yaar ye Walia ladke maar dalthe hain, hai! Mama numbari tho bhaanjen hazar numbri! Nah It's the other way around actually! Cut it Sadhu. Because you are perfectly delectable, doesn't mean you can mouth any rubbish and I'll forgive you with a smile. Gosh! Open your scriptures Swami and you will see the sacred feminine has always been worshipped since time immemorial. Even Lord Eesh is incomplete without his union with Shakthi. Ek masoom ladki ko rulakar, ek stree ka apmaan kar tera sara puja vyarth hai. Gosh Sandy Bhalu, you have so many serious competitors here! Swamiji ne kaunsi murthi table par rakhi- Mangalmurthi; Ganeshji ki? Hohohoho, ab tho sab mangal hi hoga bachche. Sansar ke sagarme dubki le chuke tho kab thak uske cheethon se bachoge? Just you wait and watch! Awww Raashi! I love this actress. She expresses her feelings through her eyes. Look at the way every word of Swami's excites shock, distress and sadness - those eyes, those expressions- brilliant! Don't my dear. Swami will come around. Amma hai na; self appointed agony aunt of Walia khandan. Put your case at her kadam at the earliest. Or no need. She herself will appoint herself as your friend, philo and guide. Only god be with you!

Arrey, Swami has offered the bed to her and he will sleep on the ground? Good night Swamiji! I hope a great bug gets your tooshie.

The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.

- G. K. Chesterton

Gosh! This hospital? Isn't this Anu's slant roof greenhouse? I may be mistaken because I have seen the C episode only once but impact was so great I can remember every detail. The window, that's the one through which the rustling plants were show, na? So funny! The spirit of the C night will be turning in his grave! Fancy the beautiful aromatic candles being replaced by stinking disinfectants and silly Red crosses in all the wrong places. So funny there's a huge red cross right next to the X-ray sign. I was rolling on the ground. Which hospital has so many red crosses raining all over? My Munna is all agitated and prancing the floor. The tension, the wait getting to him, bangs his fist on the wall(Ouch! Aa Munna iodex laga doon). The doctor arrives. Gosh! He looked so phony but one great thing about KS is that even minors are chosen with great care. Bhalu is of course an exception!

Moron Doc - "Aap Mrs.Walia ke saath aye hain?"

Na re mere surdas ke aulad, tere amma ke saath aya hai.Don't be silly Moron Doc.

Munna - "Ji"

Moron Doc - " App inke kya lagthe hain?"

Gosh this Doc, where is his brains? In his stethoscope? Did he think Munna was her father, by any chance?

Munna (without hesitation, without any qualms) - "Main unka pati hoon".

Wow. Ye munna ke muh se sunkar ajeeb sa sukoon mila.

Munna "Kya hua Bani ko?"

Moron Doc "Mrs.Walia .. .."

Enter moron nurse.

Moron Nurse "Doctor us blah blah patient ko glucose ki injection doon?"

Moron Doc "Us patient ko injection ki zaroorat nahin. Pehle uska blood test karao".

Ye leh! Diagnosis hi nahin kiya aur injection ki baat kar rahi thi! Munna, take your bahu from here and flee!

Munna gets impatient and gosh for a second I thought the moron Doc will get a taste of what the mechanic got but fortunately for the Doc demands "Please Doctor!."

The doctor comes back to earth and tells Munna expressionlessly "Mrs.Walia maa banne wali hai". Munna snaps "What?"

Just look at the good Doc's face; priceless! Munna has this uncanny knack of terrorizing people! The Doc says unsmilingly, probably his heart in his mouth "Ji, aap baap banne waale hain"!

Munna cannot believe what he has just heard. He stares at the doctor in disbelief. Can it really be? After having stared at death, right in the face, a while ago, can lady luck smile upon him already?As the truth sinks in, his eyes light up, eyes get mellowed, his lips break in to a slow smile and then in to a huge ecstatic grin. All the tiredness, sorrow- everything vanishes imparting a glow to his tired face - the happiness is evident in the way his hands go to his mouth in surprise. He wraps the stunned Doc in his arms and does a pirouette with him. Gosh Munna. I thought you were going to kiss him. Sambhalke munna. This is not your Papa Cobra! You can see Munna's so happy that he doesn't know what to do with his hands or legs. Overflowing with happiness, all he can do is smile insanely and gesticulate towards Bani's room. One more grateful look at the good Doc who finally convinced that Munna is no threat to him, smiles at him amused, Munna dashes off towards Bani's room, taking two steps at a time. My favorite flute strains play on followed by the 'Jiya shadak dhadak' instrumental, played on the Veena. Gosh! How lovely!Left hand on the knob of the room, he pauses. Gosh Munna! For what? Gosh!Didn't I tell you not to think but just do it? Well. He pauses and he cannot enter the room anymore. Bani's words echo in his ears "I hate you Mr.Walia".Ouch!The lakshman rekha stops him. His fatal mistake of seven years ago becomes his lakshman rekha, blighting his present future and what little chance of happiness is left.

The color from his face flees, his eyes become wells of sorrow, the lips that looked like they were made so they could keep smiling, now have not even a hint of it. A picture of sorrow, Munna retraces his steps with a heavy heart. Every step down takes him away from his only chance of redemption and happiness; his wife and his child. As if this is not enough to stir even the most unemotional people in the world, they play the 'Jiya dhadak dhadak' with heart wrenching lyrics. So painfully beautiful! His grief is all the more terrible, it moves you all the more because Jai Walia; the great business tycoon, the snooty fella who could get the whole feet groveling at his feet has lost the biggest battle of his life today and can do absolutely nothing about it. His money, contacts, nothing can come to his rescue now. The wall has collapsed, crumbled; hopelessly, helplessly. The tears in those eyes are a witness to this. His grief is so great that it seeps in to you.

The lyrics awwwww.. .. .. pain is a very painful teacher indeed. As he sits on the steps, a defeated hopeless man, he realizes how Bani won him, by her patience, understanding and selfless love, and expecting nothing in return. He throws a pained glance at God and muses how his most wonderful day of his life turned in to the most painful one because his past sin caught up with him. Ram Kapoor was fabulous! Just awesome! Just compare this aggrieving man with his demolished spirit, dragging himself painfully down the stairs to when he takes them two at a time. The agony, the pain so brilliantly expressed! Gosh! Just Gosh! Superlative. I cannot find words. Just a huge applause to Ram and the creative team!

It is so unfair. He has accepted his mistakes and is ready to make a clean break but we all have to pay for our sins. God has his own law that cannot be understood by us. Munna will have to pay not for what he did seven years ago but for what he did with the Dixit sisters especially Bani. Bani and Jai are so alike sometimes. I guess Bani will also be initially happy but will remember her husband regretting their night together and add to that the fact that he is her mom's murderer. The poor girl has to come to terms with so many truths. It will take her sometime get a hold on herself and take the right decision. I am counting on Mausiji. Thank God Jai called her up.It will be wonderful to see her breaking the good news to bani.Sone pe suhaga if she drags along Jai too. I think not, though.

It was a beautiful episode. See even the so called ruthless people like Jai walia are human too. His business associates would have been shocked to see him grinning and bouncing like a kid. I wish, sincerely wish Bania nd Jai realize and confess what they mean to each other before the child comes in to the world. I cannot bear to see either of them thinking the child is come by force and they had to accept the role of parents.Mausiji, please kuch karo.

The last scene no doubt is one of the best performances ever, one of the best scene ever. What struck me about it was the classic display of drief by Munna. So different from the other wimpish Ekta heroes. Munna is completely broken, he actually cried but still there is no compromise on his dignity. He is still Jai walia. Very much in character. I am not able to explain it but I hope you get it.

Awwww the great Jia Walia had to bow before fate. He lost at the hands of fate. So tragic. The tragedy is Jai thinks he deserves it. Bani please save him and yourself too. You are both incomplete without the other. Now that your love ahs taken shape, don't lose it. Gosh! It was so terribly beautiful, so well portrayed, you could actually feel it… … So touching so overwhelming. So unfair. I cannot go on.. ..

Red Cards to:

1. The satanic twins; Cobra and kachra. Jad of all evil. My munna cried because of them.

2. Papa Dixit. I am convinced he is involved in the murder.

Yellow Cards to

1. Hmm. To Swamiji? What a creep.

Goals to:

1. The KS creative team. Gosh! At your seesaw game again?Last episode was rotten vegetable. Today it was amrit.Bravo! Speechless. Well done! Kya heart to jhakaas rulaya hai dears.

2. Munna. Munna munna! Gosh! My babay! Don't vry.See we are all with you. This too will pass.Chhota Munna hai na.

Golden Ball to:

1. Ram Ram Ram Ram Ram. Gosh What do I say about this man? This man should be in the hospital right now. But he acts the thorough professional and Gosh! He actually gives an award winning performance, that curdles your heart, touches it and makes you feel every emotion; the ecstasy, the pain, the sorrow, the guilt! Magic?

Raaga's secret urge:

Gosh! I wanaa see Swamiji, in a Dhoti, bun on the top of his head, rudraksha mala in his hand, sitting under a tree and meditating while Raashi dances a Menaka, followed by something like June 19th and of course Chhota Swami. Gosh re! Chhota munna, chhota Swami, what will happen to me? Hot baapon par drool karungi ya hot beton par? Hai Eesh! What are you playing at?

Best answers to yesterday's teaser:

Sish wrote:

Please keep my Ma and Da always together. Don't get them married to other people. I do not want multiplechoices when asked about my parents .

Pmtwist wrote:

Chota munna will say to God - such a innocent kid.... whenever he will look his mom doing pooja and praying he will give a cute smile ( i can remember krishu's smile in Mamta ) and he would imitate his mom and pray to god .... let me get the love of both my parents. They are wonderful people on the entire earth and I will not be a good man/woman boy/girl without them both by me. I want to be the happy bond between my mom and dad so that I can see them always happy and shower their love on me....the one that their parents could not shower on them. Oh God I would rather die now than see my parents separate

Congrats dears. Great answers!

Your answers:

1. Today's Answer : Let sanity prevail over my parents so that i can come to this world unharmed. - Sangitadas

2. What did chhota muna tell God?'
Don't you think that its time that i went...if i don't this park road raaz will get inbetween my parents instead of me!!...and i think that i should be the soul one thought about instead of park road...i think it's time i went and came inbetween my parents...so that they forget all and shower me with love -sweetu144

3. What did Chhota Munna tell God?are u sure mere jane ka sahi time aa gaya hai?let my mom solve park road mystery first,otherwise she will continue visiting such scary places. and i will end up looking like sandy bhalu. - Sam111222

4. Chota Munna : Oh god...dunt u think that the bada munna (my pa) is sufficient alone for my mummy? Mera kya kaam??? - RiyaDutt

5. My take on what chhota Munna would say is as follows:

Nope! - I'm NOT going until you confirm in writing that I will HAVE :-

1)My Dad's good looks and NOT my Mum's brains
2)My Mum's taste in food and not me Dad's! (chicken kofte indeed.........just look at the size of him!
3)The love of both Me Mum and Dad
4)A good, long life with me Mum and Dad.

and finally, no formula milk. Is that a done deal???? - madmadgirl

6. Oh! god plz send me as soon as possible to my dear Papa & mummy, both of them r so innocent to understand the wicked ppl in this world.I want to take care of each & every person trying to seperate them. I want to teach a lesson to Jigs Bua, Roshni & Pia aunties. -saniyaa9919

7. Chota MUnna tells god .. Please let me be a MUNNI so i can replace My late' Naani ma' and make up for her Absence in My Mommys life .Will be there for her when she needs a comforting hug , a reassaurance in difficult times that all will be well .and . a soother when she is in Angish and Pain .then she might forgive my Papa . coz without him .. she wouldnt be able to have MOI... - klueless

8. chota munna asked god:

heyyy bhagwaan! yeh kaha bhej diya mujhe!!!" blossom84

Ans: Chhota Munna to God - Bhagwaan ji mere mummy papa ko phir se yeh rolling game mat khelne dena. Waise bhi mama sarphiri hai...uski akal ayegi mujhko aur is rolling game ke wajah se mera dimaag aur ghoom gaya toh bechare papa ka kya hoga! Piscean

Answer: Chotta Munna asking God, plz send me to Pia massi's..I had rather see Pia Massi and Pushy Massa fighting then my duffer parents giving cold stares at each other.- lighthouse

Choota Munna said to God......
"God please when i am older make me marry a goongi (someone who cant talk)kyun ke papa ki haalath mummy ne kya kardi hai ithna bool bol ke, bechaare ka sar ka diya hai, i think its time i go down before she sends him Tere Naam style into a mental asylum..."- **Tinkerbell**

ans:munna said to god tat pls make sure i have the presence and love of both my parents as they both are very important to me and also they may not realise it but they do love each other and are very impotatnt for each other too... - zarna28

Chota munna will say to God - such a innocent kid.... whenever he will look his mom doing pooja and praying he will give a cute smile ( i can remember krishu's smile in Mamta ) and he would imitate his mom and pray to god .... let me get the love of both my parents. They are wonderful people on the entire earth and I will not be a good man/woman boy/girl without them both by me. I want to be the happy bond between my mom and dad so that I can see them always happy and shower their love on me....the one that their parents could not shower on them. Oh God I would rather die now than see my parents separate - pmtwist

What did Chhota Munna tell God?

Answer to teaser: Amma, ab bus...tum kuch mat kaho...tum kyu baar baar mera Pa Munna ko tang karte rehte ho...time to faint, Mommy! -inavars

Answer to your teaser: Since all the angles are taken I am trying something different:

Chota Munna said: "God I have to be strong. My mother is not going to stop going on her detective prowls. Already we have fallen on a godown floor, thrown like a ball and rolled on the floor of some mill. Please tell badi maasi to feed those besan ke laddoos to my mother so that I become strong to face these kind of trials. I need those laddoos more than my pappa does

Thank you for all your great responses. Such a riot! Keep them coming angels!

Today's teaser:

Why did Swamiji sleep on the floor?

Sorry for the incoherency.Too overwhelmimg! 13th July - the victory and defeat of a father!13 is an unlucky number.What a twisted co-incidence.But gosh! What a terrific episode. Ye episode nahin dekha tho kya dekha?One thing I can tell is that Munna will make a great father, a great husband. Bnai, give him one chance; you deserve it. When Sia kapoor grows up, I wish her to see yesterday's episode. She will be proud of her dad!

Have a great day dears.

-Raaga

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Awesome analysis 👏

The answer to question:

Swamiji slept on the floor because it was easier and comfortable for him to do his early morning surya namaskar and dhyan sadna or meditation on the floor 😆😆

Edited by mayona - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Great Raaga
My reply to your teaser !
Swamiji thinks sleeping on the floor is going to keep him sane but he does not know it wiil only give his lovely doteful wife the "upper" score and hence she will rule over him if not today then soon in life !
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Posted: 19 years ago
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gr8 analysis yaar.
hats off to you...............
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Sweetheart, you are the best! 👏

As usual, a fandabidozee review! Big hugs all round for a gret piece of work!! 👏
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Take a bow Raagu, once again....You better your record every day!!!

Loved every bit....Belive it or not, I have all your Observations copy pasted on my Desktop in a File! 😃

My Khabari is also a big fan of yours, btw!

Cheerios,

MT
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Once again great analysis.


Why did Swamiji sleep on the floor?

"Mamiji used to sleep on the floor, look where it got them, they are having a baby!!!! I am better off sleeping on the floor, to be on the safer side".
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Thankys dears. 😆 😆 Shish!Too much! 😆 😆 You don't say so MT?😲 Gosh she visits IF?She erads my posts? 😳 😳 All that about err Munna gosh!IThen I better start taming my drooling!Gosh!I hope she doesn't spill all that to Ram.O gosh!I don't know where to hide. 😳 😳 😳
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Great as usual Rags, was waiting for your analysis.
Loved Ram yesterday and his portrayal of JW's pain and emotions. Also was on the verge of crying ... 😭 😭 😭

Today's answer :

Swamiji slept on the floor so that he doesn't get involved with Rashi (ahem, ahem) in any way whatsoever and break his kasam to his mother that he will stay a virgin forever. 😉
Sorry guys, couldn't control myself 😆 😆 😆
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Swamiji took the floor bcoz

Swamiji : I prefer my open floor-space, since the bed cramps my style.

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