Why would Jai Think that....

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I have a question....

Jai was really scared of Bani finding out about the Raaz, because he felt that she would never forgive him or would leave him because of it. Why would she leave him???

The whole situation is very sad, and I can see that everyone involved would be sad.... But, in the end, we all have to remember that it was an accident.

1) He didn't go out for the purpose of killing Bani's mom... and he did take Karin (Bani's mother) to the hospital to try to save her.

2) He also gave Bani's father money to try to help ease the situation (and yes, I know that money can't replace a loved one) but he didn't do it on purpose.

He was wrong for not telling her in the beginning, but he isn't at fault for killing. It was an accident. Anyways, this is only my oppinion....

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Babitta

I have a question....

Jai was really scared of Bani finding out about the Raaz, because he felt that she would never forgive him or would leave him because of it. Why would she leave him???

The whole situation is very sad, and I can see that everyone involved would be sad.... But, in the end, we all have to remember that it was an accident.

1) He didn't go out for the purpose of killing Bani's mom... and he did take Karin (Bani's mother) to the hospital to try to save her.

2) He also gave Bani's father money to try to help ease the situation (and yes, I know that money can't replace a loved one) but he didn't do it on purpose.

He was wrong for not telling her in the beginning, but he isn't at fault for killing. It was an accident. Anyways, this is only my oppinion....


I'm not going to say he isn't at fault but just as a sidenote...something that you said reminded me of another point....
"He was wrong for not telling her in the beginning".....well was he really? For one her own father didn't tell her how their mother died. And to top it off he packed her and her sisters off to the very same man who "caused" the death of his wife! So really how innocent is Nishikant Dixit in this situation! 😕 I mean Jai knows that Nishikant hasn't told his children about the real cause of their mom's death (at least he can assume he hasn't from Nishi's statement on the fateful night) so how was he supposed to bring it up with Bani and tell her that for 7 years she was living under the misconception of her mother's mode of death! I think it's unfair for people to assume that Jai should've told her esp since he was honouring the word of a deceased father, maintaining the father's respect in his children's eyes and saving the woman he's in love with it from further pain! I know I'm being fiercely defensive of Jai but I think him hiding the truth to a certain extent is justified! 😛
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Posted: 19 years ago
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True hun!!...i also think that Bani's being a little unfair...remember when she thought Jai killed Ranvijay's wife?!!.....Bani had said that it was an accident and he should forget about it...something like that anyway!!

But why do the rules have to change for her?!!....i mean i know it's painful...but not entirely Jai's fault!!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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i think she thinks its done on purpose...when a loved one dies u dont think straight...

or maybe its jus her time to be mean to him...and im sure she wont be able to be evil for long..and i know she is being unfair as it was an accident
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Posted: 19 years ago
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ok, i think that Nishikant Dixit is to be blamed to a sertant extent...he should have told his daughter the bitter truth...none the less Jai is also in the wrong for not telling his wife about her mother, Bani had full right to know all!!
Now i am not entirly blaming Jai for not telling Bani...Both him and banis farther are at fault equally!!

I feel Bani's reaction is truly justified...she is hurting...come on her whole life has just fallen before her feat...all her dreams have been shattered...why?? because she loves Jai...this makes the matter at hand worse...she feels betrayed and hurt that he did such a thing...this is the very tragedy...she loves him but yet she has been hurt by his past actions!
she gave her heart...but got back wounds...

I feel personally that there is truly more to the raaz then meets the eye, well so i hope so...as i realli do not want J to have killed Bani's mum,...accident or no accident. There are so many loose ends...the story which Bani know knows is not complete...well so i feel.

I realli would hate it if bani started hating J...i don't know why...i wouldn't mind it being J hating Bani...but bani hating him...i dunno know why it just isn't rite!!

Once again i say that the way bani reacted today was normal...she ran into J's arms knownig the raaz except choosing to forgive all in a heartbeat...as she was loosing the man she loved with her whole heart in front of her very eyes...now wouldn't that kill any woman??
But after being safe from...reality caught up with her and she realised all...hence the shock and sudden outrage!

I personally hope that Bani and J problem will be resolved soon...yet i do not feel as if this wish of mine will be granted...as in an article which i am sure all of us have read it said that Bani will start hating J....i feel that this hatred which Bani feels for J will be dragged for some time 😭 ....this is not what i wish at all...but none can stop the unstoppable...hopefully after some time...more to the raaz will be revealed...and bani will get clues...and then put on her detectives hat to find out the true truths which lurk amongst the shadows hidden from all!!
Then i think only will slowly her hatred for her husband leave her...
hey, but anything can happen...i realli don't know!

😭 am sad about the way Bani reacted today...i realli don't want her to hate him....but if any one of us were in the poor gurls shoes i am sure that we would react as did she...but still i realli didn't want bani to react the way she did!!

Hopefully something good will come out this week...

opps i seem to have written too much srry guys!!
pls do not be offened at what i wrote...as these r just my personal thoughts!!

Luv sweetu 😃
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hi guys!

Had gone out, just got back and theres a storm of updates and opinions and reviews.....ufff!! Well, its overwhelming! I'm disappointed 'cos somehow today's epi didnt seem to flow in continuity with the emotions bani displayed at the end of yday's epi..it went in reverse mode..
i agree with sweetu, her reaction is totally justified bcos just now she has found out this big truth abt her life, her parents..and all those emotions wud come overflowing abt how she had to become her sisters' mother and how she lost a chunk of her own childhood in that and how she had to see her father suffer every single day after her mom's death.......it all came to her especially after roshni pointed it out in so many words 😡

She just needs some time, maybe over time she will realise that it was not done intentionally and that he is not a bad person at all..

now it all depends on how ekta takes the story from here..i hope she makes the storyline interesting.. ofcourse, i don't think there are gonna be many sweet romantic J&B scenes for sometime 😭 😭 , it will be more like the initial jai-hates-bani kind of scenes in reverse, i guess..but be patient, and it will all be worth it..

meantime, i think, over the time when bani cools down a bit, she will again start her jasoosi and get an inkling that there is more to the truth abt the accident than what jai has seen and said to her..maybe ekta will go along those lines, of bani holmes finding out the actual truth and the culprits, and then punishing them..

and then there will be a reunion.. 😳 😳 😳 which ofcourse will be like in a year or so 😆 😆 😆


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Posted: 19 years ago
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Jia was thinking right. Any gal finds out that her husband Killed her mom will walk out. The key word here is KILLED. But in Jai's case it was marely an accident. ( I think Cobra's family killed her and left her there so Lady Cobra can bring gulleble Jai and frame him, Thus saving her brother). I think Bani's reaction is totally justified. She will need some time to come to her sense. I wonder why she expects that Jai will share his secret with her. She still thinks tha Jai hates her. So why would he share anything with her. I really feel bad for JAI. Poor him didn't have a peaceful life. No wonder he has gotten soooo AGED in 7 years. But I still want to see Jai crawl for BANI. And try to win...
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetu144



I personally hope that Bani and J problem will be resolved soon...yet i do not feel as if this wish of mine will be granted...as in an article which i am sure all of us have read it said that Bani will start hating J....i feel that this hatred which Bani feels for J will be dragged for some time 😭 ....this is not what i wish at all...but none can stop the unstoppable...hopefully after some time...more to the raaz will be revealed...and bani will get clues...and then put on her detectives hat to find out the true truths which lurk amongst the shadows hidden from all!!
Then i think only will slowly her hatred for her husband leave her...
hey, but anything can happen...i realli don't know!

Luv sweetu 😃

I agree with this point. because bani will come to think about the cheque of roshini, about the mechanic, about the judge etc etc then she herself will feel that there is something more and come to find it is not jai in fact who killed but he was framed by roshini. i really wish let it happen like this. it EK again, she twist things to the angle none of the KS fans expect her to go. again there will be just opposite scene like how jai reacted after hearing anu's pregnancy revealing. may be ek is scripted something like that. or even may be sandy himself will provide her much.

jai told her it was her mother died in the accident. roshini told her jai killed her mother. the workd "killed" means a different thing. again sandy told her "sorry, i wanted to tell the truth, but i had to say it the way roshini wanted" ie; murderer victim, murdered the woman etc.. something more to the raaz... wow i am going to go to some forest deep inside which will not allow me to come here for the next few episodes... i feel like the whole energy and enthusiasm is dried out

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetu144

ok, i think that Nishikant Dixit is to be blamed to a sertant extent...he should have told his daughter the bitter truth...none the less Jai is also in the wrong for not telling his wife about her mother, Bani had full right to know all!!
Now i am not entirly blaming Jai for not telling Bani...Both him and banis farther are at fault equally!!

I feel Bani's reaction is truly justified...she is hurting...come on her whole life has just fallen before her feat...all her dreams have been shattered...why?? because she loves Jai...this makes the matter at hand worse...she feels betrayed and hurt that he did such a thing...this is the very tragedy...she loves him but yet she has been hurt by his past actions!
she gave her heart...but got back wounds...

I feel personally that there is truly more to the raaz then meets the eye, well so i hope so...as i realli do not want J to have killed Bani's mum,...accident or no accident. There are so many loose ends...the story which Bani know knows is not complete...well so i feel.

I realli would hate it if bani started hating J...i don't know why...i wouldn't mind it being J hating Bani...but bani hating him...i dunno know why it just isn't rite!!

Once again i say that the way bani reacted today was normal...she ran into J's arms knownig the raaz except choosing to forgive all in a heartbeat...as she was loosing the man she loved with her whole heart in front of her very eyes...now wouldn't that kill any woman??
But after being safe from...reality caught up with her and she realised all...hence the shock and sudden outrage!

I personally hope that Bani and J problem will be resolved soon...yet i do not feel as if this wish of mine will be granted...as in an article which i am sure all of us have read it said that Bani will start hating J....i feel that this hatred which Bani feels for J will be dragged for some time 😭 ....this is not what i wish at all...but none can stop the unstoppable...hopefully after some time...more to the raaz will be revealed...and bani will get clues...and then put on her detectives hat to find out the true truths which lurk amongst the shadows hidden from all!!
Then i think only will slowly her hatred for her husband leave her...
hey, but anything can happen...i realli don't know!

😭 am sad about the way Bani reacted today...i realli don't want her to hate him....but if any one of us were in the poor gurls shoes i am sure that we would react as did she...but still i realli didn't want bani to react the way she did!!

Hopefully something good will come out this week...

opps i seem to have written too much srry guys!!
pls do not be offened at what i wrote...as these r just my personal thoughts!!

Luv sweetu 😃


Well sweetu that's why I said that I'm not disagreeing that Jai is at fault but he's not the only one at fault is what I'm trying to get at. I mean we can't all point fingers at him and say that he had to tell her the truth when there could've been some moral inhibitions stopping him from revealing it all. I don't see why Nishi didn't tell his daughters the truth so I blame him as well. I agree that both Nishi and Jai are at fault here but it's only Jai who is suffering which isn't fair is what I'm saying. To Bani her father is still honourable but only Jai feel from her nazarein...now that's unfair! Anyways I suppose we're both fighting for the same cause so there really is no point in prolonging it....I sure hope that Kekta makes Bani realise that her love is far more important than her so-called hatred soon enough! 😕
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: rose467

I agree with this point. because bani will come to think about the cheque of roshini, about the mechanic, about the judge etc etc then she herself will feel that there is something more and come to find it is not jai in fact who killed but he was framed by roshini. i really wish let it happen like this. it EK again, she twist things to the angle none of the KS fans expect her to go. again there will be just opposite scene like how jai reacted after hearing anu's pregnancy revealing. may be ek is scripted something like that. or even may be sandy himself will provide her much.

jai told her it was her mother died in the accident. roshini told her jai killed her mother. the workd "killed" means a different thing. again sandy told her "sorry, i wanted to tell the truth, but i had to say it the way roshini wanted" ie; murderer victim, murdered the woman etc.. something more to the raaz... wow i am going to go to some forest deep inside which will not allow me to come here for the next few episodes... i feel like the whole energy and enthusiasm is dried out


Good point rose...I didn't realise that! 👏 The difference in use of words does mean soemthing entirely different! "killed" versus "died"....very true....the choice of words makes a huge difference! But to me it only means that it's all Rosh's ploy to separate the love-birds and nothing more! I still stand by the thought that Jai is innocent! 😊

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