Do u support Rano&Sahil...

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Posted: 19 years ago
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well there;s been some debate about whether or not sahil and rano were right in their decision to elope..i want to know ur opinions..

in my case i absolutely support their decision,,,they really ddnt have any other choice...nobody were even willing to hear them out properly..everyone had already formed their own opinions about what is right and made ALL the decisions for saahil...even when they were "asking" sahil to to consider marrying raashi,,,they were practically telling him " say yes or live with the guilt of ruining and even if u dont feel guilty, trust me, we'll make sure u do !!"..now dats totally unfair !!!..and i dont think its fair to compare to Pia-Pushkar case coz it was Pia who made ALL the wrong decisions...there was NO pressure from anybody anyhow..so comparing those two situations is like comparing cheese and chalk...and lets leave rano aside and focus on saahil...even if Rano wasnt in the picture..he still shudnt be forced to marry !!!..agar rano nahi bhi rehti..mere khayal se usko fir bhi bhaag jana chahiye tha ...wat do u guys think ??

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Very strangely I do. I agree that if u take this kinda step there is chaos in the beginning but everything gets back to normal later. I mean how much mad can a person get foreva in such a short life. And when the angry and crapy part is over at the end of the day U are married to a guy who u wanted to marry at the first place. I really think that Bani had no need to marry Walia. She had no obligation to and even if she wouldnt have one day or another Walia would have forgotten about Pia! And who cares about Walia, Pia got her love this way! I support eloping if it can get U the guy u want. I mean if u dont end up wid that person then u end up creating rifts, lies in any other relationship u form.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hi Tasha,

I absolutely agree with the part that Sahil and Rano should be together, they should get married. But I do not support their eloping business. They (Sahil especially) should have the guts to confront the family members and tell them openly that they are in love with each other, and that they want to get married, and that he is not willing to pay for Anu's mistakes and spend an entire loveless life with Raashi, thus ruining 3 lives. They did have enough time to do all that, even after the marriage was fixed. Sahil just has to gather more guts and face them than run away like a coward.

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Dhruvie05
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Posted: 19 years ago
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well i think what they are doing is wrong!!!

falling in love with one another wasn't wrong and i am very happy if they get married to one another. but they had ages to decide this especially rano.....when sahil proposed to her she should have agreed and not hidden her feelings as this caused the matter more worse and then even bani would help them out but NO they ended up deciding in one of the crucial MOMENT

i personally think she is repeating the same mistake as pia.....she left jai in the wedding stage and ran away if she didn't wanted to get married to him then she could have told before and i'm sure jai would help her out

ALL I COULD SAY THESE SISTERS TAKE TOO MUCH TIME MAKING DECISIONS WHICH MAKES THE MATTER MORE WORSER AND CREATE MAJOR PROBLEMS FOR BANI
POOR BANI!!!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I do not agree or support their decision to elope and get married.

I do not have any problem with their falling in love with eqchother as love is beyond your control. But what I do not agree is with the way they handled it.

If they are not mature enough for handling their love life then how can they think about handling their married life.

I know it sound very orthodox but the society survives on it and that is the reason why we Indians are what we are - Family oriented guys. According to me they should have told about their love to the family before and Sahil should not have agreed to the marriage but if he had even if for his sister then WHY THE HELL DID HE BACK OUT. this shows how strong a person he is. He takes decision underpressure and so if he is being pressurized like Pushkar was then he would leave Rnao too.

What bugs me the most is both Rano and Sahil has no concern for their families. We should be happy ab=nd rest go to hell. Thei elopement would not be this big a deal if it were not the MARRIAGE TIME.

Why everybody form the Dixit family has to elope just on the marriage day...why not before.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Love - Yes
Elope - No way -thats not the right way to deal with it 1
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I agree that thet should get married, but eloping is not the answer. They both saw what happened when Pia ran away. Sahil just needs to be a man, and put his foot down and say that he is getting married to Rano no matter what!!!! He needs to stop everyone from making the decisions on his behalf and make some DECENT ones regarding his life.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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well i agrre with all who say that when they loved each other it wasnt wrong now the way they it was wrong i feel the same but saahil had told bani about him loving another girl but she emotionally blackmailed him i agree in bani's case she was lucky coz whom she got married too was hotter than whom she loved but in saahils case my dear mrs walia raashi bechari maa lagti hai uski n bani really confused me that day when she said rano that if u would have earlier told me about it i would have done somethin chalo rano nahin saahil ne toh bataya tha then y she dint do anythin she dint even bother to know whom does saahil love now there she was very unfair well if u ask me on supporting rano n saahil on thier idea to elope i do n even dont i think its fair enough no one should presurize saahil to get married to a girl whom he doesnt like n who is elder than him also n its wrong too coz it will be bad for bani one more sister will add to her humiliation n again that maa bete ki jodi will start demeaning her n her sisters character so i am niether with nor against them i will take it as it comes
thats all i have to say
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anu
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Ok eloping i dont agree .. but in this case .. People arent too sure if they should go ahead and elope .thats why it Happens at the Last Minute ..sfter all its a very serious Step. and mostly taken in dire circumstances ...
What we all r forgetting ... is that Rano may have opposed pia's elopement ...but then she wasnt in LOVe
NOW she is .. and she did think about her sister ...but Love as usual always takes over
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Posted: 19 years ago
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To tell you guys the truth i am confused and i wouldn't know what to do at a situation like the one Rano was facing. However I would never elope with a guy as it would bring disgrace to my family, the family that worked hard to raise me up. Thus, I think Rano eloping (is tht a rite word 😕 )with Sahil was wrong as she didn't care what would happen to her sister. Knowing that Jig and Ranveer will taunt and make Bani's life miserable Rano still took that step. If a guy loved me he should have the courage to come to my parents and ask for my hand, and also should let his parents. I understand that Sahil decided to get married in sake of his sister but he is a man who can speak up but he decided to keep quiet. He should have talked to someone like Jai who was against his marriage with Rashi in the first place but he decided to keep quiet. As for Bani, she never forced him to get married but was just pointing out the consequences which were all true. I do agree that Pia's and Rano's situation are different but it is similar that they are being selfish and are blinded by love that they can't see the pain that they bought to their sister Bani who raised them up with so much love.

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