What a fab performance by Ram!! - Page 32

Originally posted by: aditee

Pi,
I feel it was unfair of Bani to "hide" behind the Park Rd raaz when her hubby was questioning her about Rano-Sahil.

Infact he was READY TO TELL ALL, Tab hamari Mrs. ko pati par bahut pyaar aa raha tha, at the warehouse remember?

Now when she is obviously WRONG, in hiding certain facts from the hubby, she counter argues like this?

UNFAIR!


I mean whats the use of getting all aggressive with Jigs?
Bani herself doesnt share facts with her hubby,when Jigs is ready to throw Rano out, she suddenly empowers her hubby?

Why cudnt she have told about Rano-Sahil to Jai?
Lets assume he is the duffer, she is the more rational, calm, collected, reasonable one............ what stooped HER?

Originally posted by: aditee

Pi, AD is sooooo disgusted with JW, sh has decided to stay single 😉
My only advice to her is:

Jai may be a duffer and his inability to say the three words to his wife is irritating us no end but Who cares for the WORDS "I love you", as long as he can SHOW HER what he feels like he did on C nite 😉

AD shud opt for action instead of words!
Words ko sunkar sirf kaan khush honge, but on the other hand................ 😳

Originally posted by: aditee

Awesome Foursome,

There is so much crisis now, how come Bani can dance like that with Saloni? Hubby is mad at her, sis almost eloped, Jogs is back, I thot Bani is no longer in that mental framework she was in last week, maybe dance dikhayenge nahi?

Plus with Mumbai submerged like this............. not sure Kitne din Kasam Se dekhne ko milega India mein.

Us folks in the US can catch up............ we are almost 3 montsh behind

Originally posted by: Piscean

Aditee....let me explain my statements. I guess what I tried to say was that even though it isn't justified for Bani to hide the truth from Jai it was understandable that she did. I agree that it is unfair for Bani to hide behing Park rd and walk around the issue of not telling Jai but Bani and Jai aren't at that comfort level yet...well at least Bani isn't. Jai has def been more forthcoming with sharing his feelings than Bani has (as seen by many of those bedroom talks!) but Bani still has her guard up. They've come to realise their feelings for each other but the communication gap hasn't been bridged yet. Bani being the rational one should've told Jai but I guess she hasn't started to trust him as a confidante yet....which is quite unfortunate. Then again Jai hiding a major issue that has affected Bani to a large extent and asking her to curb her curiosity hasn't really helped Bani build that confidence in him either. So again I'm not saying that Bani is right in hiding stuff from her hubby but I guess I can see where she's coming from. Yes Jai was ready to tell all but with a condition of never seeing her again Bani wasn't left with too much of a choice either. She picked love over her curiosity which was the obvious thing to do but that doesn't mean that she would bear it when she finds out that her hubby is a "murderer" even if it is for love....I suppose Bani's a little too righteous for that. Oh well....I think the situation is such. I don't think either Bani or Jai are acting out of line and for a change as annoyed as I am with Kekta for creating the misunderstandings I don't think they are uncalled for. They seem to go with the flow....but then again that could be my lack of sleep speaking 😛 Anyways gals I shall be back in a few hours....have to drive back to uni and have a meeting. Don't miss me too much until then! 😉

Originally posted by: soapaddict

I agree with you Pi, in that they have really put Bani's character in a dilemma with Jai being a "murderer," and all. Its all very Saloni, in that the righteous one has to confront the worst in their spouse. Lets see if the shades of grey spill over to the wives 😃

Anyways, I really, really hope that something Interesting and really worthwhile pops us today, or in the week. I am getting really tired of Jai's back and forth. But Bani standing up for herself and being the woman in charge is a great improvement, and the only saving grace of the show this week.

Pi, catch you in a few. I should get back to work emails.

Originally posted by: aditee

Thanks Pi,

OK u go to the Univ, kabhi kabhi padhai bhi kar leni chahiye 😉

Yeah u are right............ I agree with the justification u have provided for Bani, theirs is a verry complicated/dysfunctional marriage, more than any real life marriages Ive seen 😕

I just thot for a change, we shud be critiquing Bani's actions, as we jump to bury Jai alive when he transgresses 😭

Originally posted by: shafreen

I totally agree with all of you and wow!!!!! you have done a gr8 job analysed everything superb 👏👏

Originally posted by: soapaddict

Hey Chicas,

So much fodder for conversation. I can understand too Bani hiding the truth from Jai. Although it has led to many more problems.. its not as though she could have been sure of his reaction. He hasn't been too forthcoming with her about his views on anything, and is first to blow up ( hello..case in point yesterday!). The man is Ace No 1 to jump to conclusions. But, we've discussed this ad nauseum as well.
Well soap...I'm gonna get back to my original avatar of JW's defense lawyer and say that he's not the only one who jumps to conclusions! I think Bani being a woman like AD said too should really be more attentive of the clues! I mean honestly yaar woh toh ladki hai...she should be analysing things to death like we all do! But there she is jumping to conclusions even though Jai's dropping hints like a mad man!

I think that Jai and Bani should def go to couples therapy. They are the poster children 😆

I agree with you Pi, in that they have really put Bani's character in a dilemma with Jai being a "murderer," and all. Its all very Saloni, in that the righteous one has to confront the worst in their spouse. Lets see if the shades of grey spill over to the wives 😃
I'm glad I"m not the only one who sees the similarity....unfortunately! I stopped watching that show as soon as all this raaz thing happened so I def hope this raaz doesn't put me off KS...then again SP didn't have any eye-candy....I'm sorry I'd pick my RK any day! 😳

Anyways, I really, really hope that something Interesting and really worthwhile pops us today, or in the week. I am getting really tired of Jai's back and forth. But Bani standing up for herself and being the woman in charge is a great improvement, and the only saving grace of the show this week.
I so hope so too but I think the show's schedule is going haywire due to the flooding like Aditee mentioned! I really hope that mother nature showers her pity on us so we can watch our JW and get our daily fixes like AD said 😉 but also so that the show can stop changing tracks so often! I agree that it's heartening to see Bani as a strong and recharged woman but I don't like seeing Jai so vulnerable either! It might be a tradeoff but I hope Kekta doesn't make us gopiyaan get the raw deal! 😡

Pi, catch you in a few. I should get back to work emails.

Originally posted by: aditee

The first time they mentioned the raaz and Jai's face pales, I KNEW the creatives didnt have a clue and plan to milk it till it starts to bleed and thats exactly whats happening.

TRPs have takena leap and have left Saat Phere behind, so Kekta might actually extend this gas chamber for a few more weeks...............

I remember in the show Kutumb, the illegitimate child track appeared, but people had already sensed the REAL LIFE chemistry between Hiten Tejwani and Gauri Pradhan, and didnt want them to part ways so the child ended up being some gold digger's

And after the gold digger leaves the scene, Gauri is shown as being pregnant and Pratham (the guy's name) becomes this neurotic, psychotic hubby who wudnt even let his wife breathe! Why? Coz she may hurt the child........ He becomes this over protective wud be Dad.............

Gauri ends up losing the baby (she tries to be sherlock holmes.........also during a wedding and elopement) and they separate and file for divorce..........thats when they brought in a new director Swapna Waghmare Joshi and from the word go she started nailing the coffin for the show 🤢 🤢 🤢

It went from worse to unbearable! 😡 😡
Varun Badola was wasted as Gauri's lawyer, he was brought in as her new romantic intrest, but the looks she used to be giving Hiten, u had to be blind not to sense the physical attraction (they have later tied the knot in real life I believe!)

So the show was quickly wrapped up the day of their divorce hearing or something..........

It started with a Suraj Barjatya kinda family with 15 siblings, their kids and kids' kids etc and quickly ended up being a Hiten Gauri "chemistry" show........... 😡