Jai is worse than Pia and Pushkar - Q & A - Page 2

okay so now back to answering your questions!!

Originally posted by: mistletoe

So, my questions to you are;

Do you still think that Jai's actions are still justified as he has gone through a very rough emotional patch and he needs to vent it out on the first available person (Bani) till he comes back to normal?

I used to think that his actions were justified, but not anymore!! I mean how much more bani can endure all this pain that is being given to her by Jai. In every step of the way, he is trying to weaken her, but knowing bani, it just not working for her. Normally, i would say that it's not jai who's been hurt, but his "ego".

Bani is investing too much of herself in Jai, much more than she did for Pushkar and for her sisters also! Do you think that she is in for a massive heart-break from which she might just never recover or will fate intervene and Jai will realize what is about to lose at the nick of the moment?

Ah I'm seriously hoping that this won't happen! I don't think jai will break her heart really bad because he is too falling for her! But bani already knows the deal, so she is prepared for what's gonna happen to her. Well hopefully jai will realize the love for bani in the nick of time, because there is no one else besides bani, that can understand him better than others. My guess, jai won't break bani's heart, but he will not confess his love for her either, until it'll be the moment for her to leave. As for bani, she is really falling for jai, but she knows better herself that after her work is done, she'll leave because bani keeps her promises and she is just known as a giver!

Do you think that whatever Jai is doing to Bani is a deliberate, well thought off, manipulated game of revenge and not an impulsive reaction on his part?

NO, i think it's not at all manipulated attempt or planned out! Because he was kicked her out of the house before with the misconception of her withdrawing money from jai's account! I mean he could have just insulted her and made her suffer more. But he actually gave her the option(or opportunity) of leaving his house! But despite this, bani came back for mausi's sake because she is doing all this for mausi (well jai too) and jai knows this really well so i don't think he'll use this opportunity to get back at her! I mean what else she has to lose! She already lost a lot, and there's hardly anything left!

Do you think that Jai might just take the Shirt back from Tony and wear it one fine day to surprise Bani? (Wishful thinking....)

Haha!! i hope this happens. I think he might do this, because to tell you the truth, why the hell he tried the shirt on in the first place when bani told him to. And why he even bought the shirt! I mean he is just so confusing at moments, but then comes to think about it, he actually for that moment, felt that he should buy this shirt, thinking that bani wouldn't know about it. But when bani did find out, he didn't like it because he probably thought that bani will probably will think that he is falling for her or something! And feeling the insecruity that she might be using him also, he just gives the shirt to Tony, just to satisfy himself! I know my answer is a bit confusing!! I should have type this in urdu! haha😆

Is Jai as hurt when he hurts Bani, or does he really pleasure up with the thought of seeing Bani in tears and with a dejected heart?

No, i think jai too feels the agony bani is going through. He does feel guilty when he hurts her. But he hurts her just to satisfy his own ego! but deep down in his heart, he actually have real feelings for bani. He will keep hurting bani, until his ego is broken and his heart takes over his so called egocentric image. "sometimes i get that feeling that roshni is here to make him realize the importance of bani."

Do you think that Jai will go through a complete emotional breakdown the day he comes to know how unfair he has been to Bani? Or will he just be his normal self and apologize to her infront of everyone and tell her to forgive and forget?

Well i agree with both in a way. He will be broken down once he realizes that how much he made bani go through. Him being normal is actually not normal at all. Because he is a man, he has the dominance to control his emotions. He will apologize to bani for sure, but before apologizing infront of everyone, he'll confess his misdeed infront of her alone. It'll be great of bani if she forgive and forget. I can forgive, but not forget!!😆

Do you think that Bani will ever be able to forget the hurt that Jai is making her go through? Do you think that Bani will forgive Jai for everthing but still opt to move out of his life when Mausi has gone and wait for Jai to win her heart back from scratch?

Actually knowing bani, she'll most definitely forget. Like i said, bani is a giver, and she understands jai so much. She understands for a man like him, what he went through. Yes, i certainly believe that she'll forgive jai for everything and yes she'll move out of his life when mausi leaves! Bani sticks to what she says, and also she doesn't even know if jai loves her or not, so it's no use for her to stay in walia mansion. Unless jai brings her back or stops her. But i don't see this happening soon; most likely when everything is solved and all the misunderstandings are cleared up, then i see the ray of hope!

MT yaar, u ask the only hard and confusing questions; but it actually makes u think hardcore!! lolzz😆😆 so ya here were my answers, i know some of them are weird!! lolzzz i just put anything that came to my mind!😃 okay with all this writing, mere paayt mein choohay dhorr rahey hein; so im gonna go find some khana! lolzz 😆

Hey MT,

Beautiful analysis and thoughtful questions again. Man, I think ending the week on such a sour note sucks. Every time we think Jai has taken a step forward, he takes 3 steps back. At this rate, his manzil (Bani) is
long ways off. AS much as I love Cuddles, he has just exasperated me today. And Bani, where is your spine young lady? You need to get nerves of steel and ignore that Khadoos hubby of yours. Right now he needs you more than you do (I know, I know - u are in love) so make him plead you for favors to please his Maasi.

I initially thought Bani's characterization was similar to Eliza Bennet from P&P. But sadly she is not standing up to to her principles even though she has oodles of pride, confidence and dignity. I truly hope
that Bani does not become Jai door mat. She needs to stand up to Jai and give him a befitting reply for every taunt or insult of his.

All said and done, I just adore Jai and Bani and they are a perfect foil for each other - his arrogance to her innocence, his hatred to her love, the list can go on and on. In spite of all the differences, they suit each other to a T. Oh I just love them. Hope we see better days for them soon.

Now to the questions...

Thanks
IU


Do you still think that Jai's actions are still justified as he has gone through a very rough emotional
patch and he needs to vent it out on the first available person (Bani) till he comes back to normal?

I have still not watched today's episode, but going from the updates and UK videos, Jai is still the nasty Jai that he was a few weeks ago when he said those horrible things to Bani. He still cannot fathom what Bani means to him as he is too wrapped up in his emotional distress and pain.
I think his supposed mellow-down after his drunken outburst was that he was happy that Bani saved his skin in front of Maasi, not because he cares for her. And of course his behavior cannot be condoned much longer as it is now out of bounds. What's more aggravating is that he is mis-using Bani innate goodness for his selfish purposes to please his Maasi. I cannot believe my Jai has turned out to be such a heartless man😭. So no, his actions of late cannot be justified.


Bani is investing too much of herself in Jai, much more than she did for Pushkar and for her sisters also!
Do you think that she is in for a massive heart-break from which she might just never recover or will fate
intervene and Jai will realize what is about to lose at the nick of the moment?

Bani is the beautiful and wonderful girl who always sees the positive in every person. Now she has fallen in love with Jai and being a sensitive person she will put up with everything that Jai dishes her way. Jai
being the egotistical maniac that he has become will think that Bani is here 'cause she likes to mingle among the rich and the famous. So he will do anything to break her heart. I think it will take Jai to
loose Bani to understand what she really means to him.


Do you think that whatever Jai is doing to Bani is a deliberate, well thought off, manipulated game of
revenge and not an impulsive reaction on his part?

It is hard to understand what is going on in Jai's thick head. As of now, I don't think it is deliberate. But as he realizes Bani's love for him, he might become manipulative - his idea of revenge for what Pia did to him!!!!


Do you think that Jai might just take the Shirt back from Tony and wear it one fine day to surprise Bani?
(Wishful thinking....)

This will be funny. Jai trying get the shirt back from Tony Butler. I hope Tony does not give it to him saying that it his favorite shirt and I hope he goes looking for similar one just to impress Bani.


Is Jai as hurt when he hurts Bani, or does he really pleasure up with the thought of seeing Bani in tears
and with a dejected heart?

I don't know whether he gets pleasure or not, Jai sure does not like to see Bani happy. His clouded brain (all that booze is not helping 😆) right now cannot process that Pia and Bani are 2 different individuals even though they are sisters.


Do you think that Jai will go through a complete emotional breakdown the day he comes to know how unfair he has been to Bani? Or will he just be his normal self and apologize to her in front of everyone and tell her to forgive and forget?

Oh man, he will be on his knees. I think he should be. He will be totally disgusted with the treatment he meted out to Bani. I don't think he will break down in front of everybody - it does not suit Jai's character. He will probably tell everything to Maasi.


Do you think that Bani will ever be able to forget the hurt that Jai is making her go through? Do you
think that Bani will forgive Jai for everything but still opt to move out of his life when Mausi has gone
and wait for Jai to win her heart back from scratch?

Bani will forgive immediately although I don't want her to. Jai needs woo her back into his life and she should come back on her terms - not for Maasi, not for her sisters, only and only for Jai's love and he needs to earn that love kyun ki woh bahut manmaani karli.

Hi MT!

Hmm looking at ur topic, i can guessed as to how angry u r with Jai. I agree he was really mean... but how does that make him worse than Pia-Pushkar? Yeh dono beech mein kahan se agaye? 😕 They are out of him life for good and even out of his system... whatever he is doing now is purely coz of Bani. Love or Hate... it is Bani, ONLY BANI!
And when did Pia-Pushkar regret? Did I miss the episode? If they went and fell to Jai's feet it was simply coz of fear and not guilt. Those two people have felt sorry for Bani… but Jai? NO WAY!!!
No matter what Jai does he can never stoop down to Pia-Pushkar level... atleast not for me. There is no point in me drawing up references to compare what Pia-Pushkar did and what Jai is doing… simply coz I cant compare Jai to anyone, and def not Pia-Pushkar. They are a bunch of people whose existence doesn't even matter to me.

To sum up what is transpiring between Jai-Bani, I would like to say they both their souls are intertwined and so are their destinies… what one feels is what the other one feels aswell. If Bani is in Pain, so is Jai… if Jai is in Pain so is Bani! Their hearts are entwined in such a way that you cant separate them with a logic like 'Jai inflicts Pain and Bani bears the brunt of it…Bani is Good, Jai is Bad.' Both of them suffer for eachother, with eachother… if that is what Love is, so be it.

Do you still think that Jai's actions are still justified as he has gone through a very rough emotional patch and he needs to vent it out on the first available person (Bani) till he comes back to normal?

There a few things which cant be catergorised as Justified and Not Justified. we might not be able to see any justification to it... but it isnt necessary that there was no justification at all. I dont find Jai justified all the time, but nor am I in a position to hold him guilty and fire him down.
I feel he is over that phase of Pia-Pushkar... they just seem to cause a sense of irritation when they come in front of them, else he gladly forgotten everything. I feel what is troubling Jai the most now is his inability to trust himself and his emotions. More than venting out anger at Bani he is harming himself. His heart goes out to Bani, but his cynical brain seem to taunt him with fear that even Bani would trample his heart. He cant afford it and if it is Bani who will cause it, It will be the END of everything for Jai. At the point he is in he cant afford it. With all his turmoil, there is Bani who seem to cross any limit for his sake... leaving him all the more confused. The poor guy is waging a battle within himself.... It is his Heart Vs Brains, It is Love Vs Hate. His heart sides Bani and Jai knows it, it is his incapability to trust his heart at this point that is reason for such crap behaviour. His vent of anger on Bani has nothing to do with the fact Bani is related to Pia-Pushkar. The anger he takes out on Bani is the anger he has on himself... It is usually said that Anger is the sign of Helplessness, Jai is plain Helpless .

Bani is investing too much of herself in Jai, much more than she did for Pushkar and for her sisters also! Do you think that she is in for a massive heart-break from which she might just never recover or will fate intervene and Jai will realize what is about to lose at the nick of the moment?

Losing yourself to the person u Love doesn't destroy you, It completes you. I believe that Love can never destroy anyone… infact it is so divine that it changes you for the good. Having to love someone is a very satisfying experience in itself... it doesn't need another person to reciprocate it in the same way, That is what True Love is about. Blessing is not in being Loved, it is in being able to Love unconditionally. Bani is capable of that. If you want to call it investing in Jai… the I would say she is going to reap the benefit of that for life. I am confident about that coz I can see how deep Jai's emotions run for Bani. We always say Bani is selfless when it comes to Jai, but then give it a thought, is she really selfless? If Jai's Happiness is Bani's happiness then she is doing so for her happiness. Taking care of Jai is something she loves to do… she loves to spoil him, pamper him… so she does. If she isnt capable of being angry with Jai, what can Jai do about it? (other than ofcourse give try to give her more reasons to be wild at him 😕 )
Bani's heart wont break… will get bruised coz of Jai's coldness. One day Jai will come around for Bani and Bani is going to be the most Loved, Cherished Woman in the world. 😳 I am sure of it, coz I am sure of Jai 😃 .

Do you think that whatever Jai is doing to Bani is a deliberate, well thought off, manipulated game of revenge and not an impulsive reaction on his part?

Jai isnt capable of being manipulative, atleast with the emotions of people. If he was there would have been a catastrophe by now. What Revenge are we talking about? Did Jai take Revenge? Did he destroy Pia-Pushkar? When did that happen? He has maximum only threatened to destroy them… HE HASN'T DONE ANYTHING! Jai is simply not made that way, He is too much a man to use Bani's emotions as a weapon for revenge.
What if Jai is doing all this for Bani's good? What if Jai is being harsh to Bani to make her give up on him, coz he thinks he cant reciprocate her feelings. What if he wants to save Bani from further heartbreaks by raising her hopes in him? The reason could be anything… His reactions to Bani is deliberate, but reasons for it is not clear… if it is for us to assume it, I would rather believe in the best of Jai. 😊
The main reason according to me is his confusion regarding his own emotions and nothing else. His intensions are deliberate but very Impulsive. He keeps hiding from what he feels for Bani… he is not ready to face it. what happened yday with the shirt was coz of this reason. He was caught and by no one other than Bani, and Bani seemed very happy about it… which freaked him quite a bit and he gave away the shirt just to prove a Point…'I am NOT in LOVE with you, Bani!' could there have been any other reason for it? Despite the shirt being a colour he doesn't wear, despite being surrounded by Roshini… he managed to buy that shirt without Bani even realizing. Doesn't that say something? Trust me if Bani hadn't found it… or if Jai hadn't known that Bani knows about the shirt… the shirt would have remained with Jai, he would have hidden it in a secret closet, until the day he was ready to admit his love for Bani. But Bani found it and her smile reflected the fact that Jai loves her and it only freaked out Jai and he had this stupid urge to tell her… 'You are so WRONG' and it was the only way he could have done it. I don't call him a Duffer just like that… he proves himself time and again 😕 😡 .


Do you think that Jai might just take the Shirt back from Tony and wear it one fine day to surprise Bani? (Wishful thinking....)

No. Jai would never do that, nor do I want him to do that. Agar biwi ka itna hi kayal hai.. let him go buy a shirt of the same shade. In anycase Bani didn't buy it for him, he can go buy it for himself… it was the shade that Bani liked, not particularly the SAME piece of shirt.

Is Jai as hurt when he hurts Bani, or does he really pleasure up with the thought of seeing Bani in tears and with a dejected heart?
You can see the strain he is putting his heart through when he yells at Bani 😭 . Actually it hurts him more than Bani… which the reason I get wild at him. If he gets hurt then why yell? What purpose does it serve? If he relieves himself shouting at Bani… I am ok with it, coz Bani is super ok with it. Thank God for the fact Jai is not a saddist to derive pleasure out of seeing Bani in tears.

Do you think that Jai will go through a complete emotional breakdown the day he comes to know how unfair he has been to Bani? Or will he just be his normal self and apologize to her infront of everyone and tell her to forgive and forget?
Jai knows he is being unfair to Bani… The D day will be the day when he realizes his emotions for Bani are so strong that it can stop him. Jai will not apologize for what he has done, not coz his Ego stops him but coz he knows a formal apology would mean nothing compared to what Bani has been through. Jai isnt the kind of a guy who will ask anyone to forget and forgive, He will accept his mistake gracefully and make it up to her in the future. Someone forgives him or not, would mean nothing to him… what is more important to Jai is if he will be able to forgive himself. I hope he can forgive himself, else he will only punish himself more and in turn Bani.

Do you think that Bani will ever be able to forget the hurt that Jai is making her go through? Do you think that Bani will forgive Jai for everthing but still opt to move out of his life when Mausi has gone and wait for Jai to win her heart back from scratch?
You are talking about Bani forgetting? I am thinking does that girl even remember something to forget? 😕 This time if Bani is going to stay with Jai after Massi goes, it will be only if Jai has accepted their marriage. As far as I can see Massi isnt going anywhere till she has seen her pota/poti, so the question of Bani leaving isnt going to arise 😆 .

Btw more that Jai, I want to hunt down the scriptwriters 😡 . They show Jai sulking and irritated with Roshini only to show him having a nice laugh on a drive. They are portraying Jai as a hypocrite he can never be 😕 . And where the hell did he leave Bani the entire day???
That was long
Luv
Anu.