4 queenkumar: read...a letter!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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dear..queenkumar

me (rahena) & ash k wanted to write a letter to u in the public eye. this is mainly because then this matter can be sorted infront of everyone's eyes.

since u dnt reply 2 us, & we were very upset after u quoted us in one of the thread last night.we want you to know we are actually very upset this moment.

me n ash wer having a few line conversation in a different language..so u quoted and said its rude & we shudnt write in a language which nobody understands and that we should write in english. we apolegised to u, but also asked u if u would do the same to anyone else who write in different languages too. but u never replied. 😭

first of all...it was very offensive when u said that 'nobody understands d language!'...ofcourse der a millions dat understand it...we feel u shouldnt have said that!

secondly....der are always people on this forum who write hindi...which a lot of people dont understand. me & ash dont understand it either. hence u never wrote to them that they r also being rude by writing in a language that is not english! so how comes u never pointed anything out to them? i guess its cos u understand it. and if thats the case its very unfair for you or anyone to think like dat.

thirdly we feel very offended that u never replied back. at the end of the day we apolegised & things could have been sorted right there n then! but instead u ignoring made us feel u dont agree that others shouldnt write hindi in this forum.if thats the case, then we feel discriminated.

pls acknowledge that we didnt write this letter to bash anyone or start argueing...but simply because u dnt reply n right now we are very upset & would like your reply pls.

questions:

1) do u think hindi & english writing are the only languages that should be allowed in this 'forum' ? why?

2) (f you think hindi language should also not be allowed...n just english)...will u tells others not to write in hindi too?

we will await your reply...

thanks

rahena, ash k

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Posted: 19 years ago
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DEAR QUEENKUMAR,
i am also very upset, as i feel me and rahena didnt cause any sort of offence 2 any1, as no1 else at the time had complained, apart from you.
we apologised but the fact that we didnt get a reply made us feel isolated, more unwanted, wen we asked abt hindi being written in the forums and the fact that we dont understand it u didnt reply....
i truly felt ignored and discriminated, however can u please get bak 2 us!!! we have tried on many occasions but u always go offline?????

I REQUEST YOU 2 GET BAK TO US PLEASE!!!! WE R ALL HUMANS AND SHOULD B TREATED EQUALLY!!!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: sajibabe

yeh you guys should get back a reply for your apology, after all queenie is senior member of the forum. so she should at least respond & give you the due repect that you guys deserve, for being so mature & realising your mistake. i respect you guys for being so respectable to your seniors

hey thanks....i really aprecite it.

as 4 seniors...well me, u n ash r one too...so we shud be respected too

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: sajibabe

yeh you guys should get back a reply for your apology, after all queenie is senior member of the forum. so she should at least respond & give you the due repect that you guys deserve, for being so mature & realising your mistake. i respect you guys for being so respectable to your seniors

thanx 4 understanding us!!!! just hope other ppl dnt think were wrong, im not a bad person at all........ but yesterday i felt completely bad. im a very sensitive person with a weak heart

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Posted: 19 years ago
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If I recall Rahena, that thread was closed and I did not receive any pm from u guys, therefore no reply.

Anyway, I just wanted to make a point, most people here understand english and hindi. I'm sorry u dont understand hindi.

Anyway feel what u want to feel, I was online for just a bit today since I'm really busy.

Anyway, u wont have to worry about me here again, I wont be posting much, I'm leaving on vacation.

You take care and happy holidays to u.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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we didnt PM u, we replied in the thread, but thank god ur online, im again telling u that im sorry, i wont do it again, if my language seemed very offensive then i apologise again!! my language is important as my ancestors had fought for this language therefore i value it.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: ash k

we didnt PM u, we replied in the thread, but thank god ur online, im again telling u that im sorry, i wont do it again, if my language seemed very offensive then i apologise again!! my language is important as my ancestors had fought for this language therefore i value it.

I'm sure it is, not saying its not dear, afterall heritage is everything. Anyway your apology accepted.

Take care,

Sangeeta

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: queenkumar

If I recall Rahena, that thread was closed and I did not receive any pm from u guys, therefore no reply.

Anyway, I just wanted to make a point, most people here understand english and hindi. I'm sorry u dont understand hindi.

Anyway feel what u want to feel, I was online for just a bit today since I'm really busy.

Anyway, u wont have to worry about me here again, I wont be posting much, I'm leaving on vacation.

You take care and happy holidays to u.

wat? wat kind of attitude is dat?

n so wat majority understand hindi...why shud WE minority be discriminated?

as for if ur going to say that these are hindi drama's...well kaa is based around a bengali family...the chatergee's...gauris meant to be bengali, mashima speaks bengali too somtimes! so cant people speak bangali if they want? ye hell dey can!

just cos the majority of others wont understand it, it doesnt mean we minority cant have freedom of speech den does it?

as for the other topic closing...well as we remember we replied imeditely....so im sure u saw d posts!

anyway atleast we now wer u stand...must say we tried...but uv still left me upset n more angry now!

Edited by rahena - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: queenkumar

I'm sure it is, not saying its not dear, afterall heritage is everything. Anyway your apology accepted.

Take care,

Sangeeta

i agree it is all abt heritage, but i cant begin to start how my ancestors had fought, many of them died, just for this language, doesnt sound like much, but for me it is more valuable than my life, my RELIGION, u need 2 understand how much i worship my language, its the 1st and last thing in my life!!!! wud u strongly agree? i mean u dissaproved yesterday. i just felt so awful.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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😡PS: since u dnt care about us minorities in this forum...well hey we never till yesterday complained about ppl writing hindi! so therefore i will write watevr language i want! n no 1 shud complain!

cos im not having one rule 4 one...n another 4 others! 😡

Edited by rahena - 19 years ago

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