Originally posted by: NushIsh
It's strange how the majority of the audience being females are always ready to judge the FL.. I mean if you really think about it personally what Nandini is doing is similar to what we might do in real life. We are not perfect so why do they want Nandini to be perfect that is unrealistic.
People complain when The FL is too self righteous and forgiving to all the bad that happens in her life but here Nandini doesn't know how to over come the pain she has being through and for someone her age that would be the case but still we are criticizing because she is not being strong.. The FL is always judged for all her actions but the ML is never judged there will always be an excuse for his behaviour.
You know when Manik would hold Nandini tightly in anger or give her marks even though he apologized but such acts even him making her drink vinegar are still explained but with Nandini she isn't harming him or them , just is confused , and has her own issues - yet she is vilified ,her action wrt Manik judged. It;s both a writer and a viewer thing, somewhere people are too accustomed to seeing Nandini as part of MaNan that somewhere they stopped empathizing with Nandini long time back- probably the time she called their thing toxic or when she wanted to go to Mangalore the first time. Yes, writers need to spoon-feed and give every explanation for her reaction for the viewers but in her case it's not that complicated as well . She went through a trauma and is lost, bas and somehow that dumps her down. 😕