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Originally posted by: 13thwish
@Rida: I don't deny the imbalance but my point is she is just as responsible for that as him.. she never lets him see her struggles toh what can he do? That's why I said yesterday, her 'trustfall' moment was just the beginning, actually living up to the promise of that is a whole other story.. she needs to make better choices for herself but that is her realization, it will come when it does.. today, Pandit pointed out her lack of focus in music (she is too busy worrying about his), eventually (I hope) she realizes her lack of focus towards her own life n her own wants..
^^ditto agree with that. I did mention it previously too. i need her to sort herself out too.😆Yes, but it's always both with him na.. he wants to push her away but he can't let her go too.. that's his struggle.. even during vinegar incident.. he wanted her to back off n yet he also wanted proof of just how much leverage he has with her..These are NOT trust tests..that's just the general interpretation.. I have issues with both words.. this is him unable to help himself/stop himself from acting out because the constant push n pull are overwhelming him.. this whole track would fail if the trust weren't already present by default.. Is he misusing his right on her in silly ways.. well of course, but don't we all with our loved ones? We take them for granted, we abuse their patience with us, we completely play on their sympathies until we calm down n realize.. then we feel grateful n promise to do better next time which really never comes..cuz we are who we are n they love us anyway😆..it's just this simple thing, that's all..
That is exactly my problem here.
This track came right after the track of post musicana where they got together.
Even that time Manik was more 'demanding, grumpy, angry' about the fact that she should forgive him and get back with him. Putting all reasons aside, he never sat and thought about the amount of hurt he's caused her since day 1. constant intense action going on in her life. Bullying parts and what not. Given, they got together.
Then the next track came which was all about them trying to learn about one another and they did come a long way and he promised her to go a long way for her.
He already knows how naive she's been.
And then where both of them hid things equally - the loophole - communication.
My problem is continuity of denial on Manik's part. They're showing this from that hospital part. And now again because she's faltered its there.
My only complaint yesterday was this 'i'll make it hell for you to make me smile.' defend it as you may, it sounded so wrong and condescending to someone like me.
They can show the same track with so much more depth and subtlety rather than trolling Manik's indecisiveness all the time.
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