If he is JEALOUS that means he CARES damn too much

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A real and true relationship has fight,
tears, pain, argument, patience,
understanding, trust, faith, jealousy
and an undying love...
-anonymous

as there was much hype going in the forum related to the jealousy track, so i thought to put my pov also...
therefore forum waasiyon u r welcome to criticize me or agree with me or feeling like whatever u want coz u all have right to feel whatever u want to... i am neither judging anyone nor reprobating anyone...its simply my thought...

for those who think the jealousy track is not required pls dont read further coz u will disapprove my opinion...
Because that one moment of distrust 4m nandini's side has shaken manik's foundation of his belief in love as 4 him d most important thing in any relationship is trust n he is not ready to forgive her...
so to make him realise that sometimes in a relationhip forgiveness is also required cvs need to pull him out of his phase of denial of his feeling 4 nandini ( hinting towards i cant live with u n i cant live without u) like seriously he thinks that he cant live with her...then he needs to see that if he cant live with her then there r people also who will be more than happy to live with her...so to clear his twisted state of mind he needs to feel d insecurity of his relationship with nandini..
he needs to feel that if he is not there 4 her den dat doesnt mean dat there is no one to protect her, care for her, and actually concerned 4 her well being...
he needs to see that if he is not going to accept her apology then he can also loose her...
remember when nandini was not forgivin manik the jealousy and insecurity along with this feeling that she cant let him go 4m her life made her to actually forgive manik...
so the same thing applies here also...although they both hv a different train of thought in matters but in love d feelings r same...
As pain is necessary to make u feel alive d same way jealousy is necessary to actually make him realise d intense love he has 4 her...
also in my pov jealousy is a much needed salt in their succulent food a.k.a love to enhance its taste
So girls let him get jealous coz a little jealousy is not a sign of no trust but a sight of possesiveness...a sign that will make him realise his whole world is getting away 4m him...

P.S- Sorry 4 such a long post...if its boring dnt read it...n if not do share ur pov...
And no offence to any1 but even if u r offended advance me sorry...but i wanted to also share my opinion

OK...signing off...take care
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: aairahahmad

A real and true relationship has fight,
tears, pain, argument, patience,
understanding, trust, faith, jealousy
and an undying love...
-anonymous

as there was much hype going in the forum related to the jealousy track, so i thought to put my pov also...
therefore forum waasiyon u r welcome to criticize me or agree with me or feeling like whatever u want coz u all have right to feel whatever u want to... i am neither judging anyone nor reprobating anyone...its simply my thought...

for those who think the jealousy track is not required pls dont read further coz u will disapprove my opinion...
Because that one moment of distrust 4m nandini's side has shaken manik's foundation of his belief in love as 4 him d most important thing in any relationship is trust n he is not ready to forgive her...
so to make him realise that sometimes in a relationhip forgiveness is also required cvs need to pull him out of his phase of denial of his feeling 4 nandini ( hinting towards i cant live with u n i cant live without u) like seriously he thinks that he cant live with her...then he needs to see that if he cant live with her then there r people also who will be more than happy to live with her...so to clear his twisted state of mind heneeds to feel d insecurity of his relationship with nndini..
he needs to feel that if he is not there 4 her den dat doesnt mean dat there is no one to protect her, care for her, and actually concerned 4 her well being...

he needs to see that if he is not going to accept her apology then he can also loose her...
remember when nandini was not forgivin manik the jealousy and insecurity along with this feeling that she cant let him go 4m her life made her to actually forgive manik...
so the same thing applies here also...although they both hv a different train of thought in matters but in love d feelings r same...
As pain is necessary to make u feel alive d same way jealousy is necessary to actually make him realise d intense love he has 4 her...
also in my pov jealousy is a much needed salt in their succulent food a.k.a love to enhance its taste
So girls let him get jealous coz a little jealousy is not a sign of no trust but a sight of possesiveness...a sign that will make him realise his whole world is getting away 4m him...

P.S- Sorry 4 such a long post...if its boring dnt read it...n if not do share ur pov...
And no offence to any1 but even if u r offended advance me sorry...but i wanted to also share my opinion

OK...signing off...take care




Exactly...Manik as always needs a WAKE UP CALL to be jolted out of his denial or he will keep on muddling around confused b/w his "hate" and "not so hate" for Nandu as he currently is.


Nandu has vowed to fight for them, yes...but Manik needs some realizations of his own that aren't going to come simply from Nandu silently bearing his "trust tests"...some realizations will only come with a JHATKAA...and Manik's possessiveness needs a harsh wake up call which it will only get if he sees someone else moving into his territory vis a vis Nandu...then all his stupid denials will come back to bite him😆


Simply put, you never realize the value of what you have until you see it slipping out of your grasp...and Manik needs that right now.😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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U r. Right dear even I want this jealousy track manek needs to realise that his behaviour can drift Nandini away...n ya there r more things to relationship than trust...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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One moment of Nandu slip on trust has shaken him so much...and when last time he broke her trust piece by piece and still expected her to forgive him so easily. I think everyone here has lot of allowance for Manik because he is broken soul and no allowance for Nandu because remember she is self righteous figure.
Anyway jealousy is another aspect of possessiveness. sometime important to make you realize what is more important to you your inherent fears from past or your dream of better future.
And yes Manik need to realize he can loose Nandini too like she realized Manik can go out her life...

SO I took this all I hate you crap for this upcoming jealously track...and I dont care for logic or no logic...
Because for me this show work of Manan magic (Jealous Manik is magic)...logic is been out from long that's i even stopped caring


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Silentsoul

One moment of Nandu slip on trust has shaken him so much...and when last time he broke her trust piece by piece and still expected her to forgive him so easily. I think everyone here has lot of allowance for Manik because he is broken soul and no allowance for Nandu because remember she is self righteous figure.
Anyway jealousy is another aspect of possessiveness. sometime important to make you realize what is more important to you your inherent fears from past or your dream of better future.
And yes Manik need to realize he can loose Nandini too like she realized Manik can g out her life...
SO I took this all I hate you crap for this upcoming jealously track...and I dont care for logic or no logic...
Because for me this show work of Manan magic...logic is been out from long thats i even stopped caring




Bingo...Manik kare toh raas leela, Nandu kare toh character dheela...that is the logic ppl have here😆


Hate track chhodo, we bore that horrible Soha track for freakin SO long...hell yeah we deserve a jealous Manik after that! His possessiveness has long been dormant on that front...let him feel the pinch now when he himself has pushed Nandu away...tabhi he'll get a reality check about whether he can't live without her.


Manik needs to learn to forgive...as with everything else, only Nandu can bring about a change in his perspective...her alone fighting for them isn't going to solve this...he has to get some realizations of his own.
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Bingo...Manik kare toh raas leela, Nandu kare toh character dheela...that is the logic ppl have here😆


Hate track chhodo, we bore that horrible Soha track for freakin SO long...hell yeah we deserve a jealous Manik after that! His possessiveness has long been dormant on that front...let him feel the pinch now when he himself has pushed Nandu away...tabhi he'll get a reality check about whether he can't live without her.


Manik needs to learn to forgive...as with everything else, only Nandu can bring about a change in his perspective...her alone fighting for them isn't going to solve this...he has to get some realizations of his own.



Hi Nur...remember we used to talk in NBT forum ...

I think Jealous Manik is only reason I have been patient with this super illlogical track.
Actually I feel Nandu fighting alone without external push like jealousy factor, she had to deal more scenario like Vinegar drinking to prove her love, He need outside push Nandu doesn't has to prove him anything. All she has to do is keep trying to reach him...
I feel Nandu has done too much for him too to save him from himself, so what she was not following him like Majnu , she was always protecting him...He gave her his star status for a a reason ...

Problem here is not Nandini. is not trying enough...problem here is Manik who for some reason don't want think beyond broken trust...

.She shouldn't be doing anything anymore after drinking Vinegar to prove her love...He should learn to forgive and .accept Nandu with her flaws...for that he need to realize if he let her go...she can go for FOREVER too...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar




Bingo...Manik kare toh raas leela, Nandu kare toh character dheela...that is the logic ppl have here😆


Hate track chhodo, we bore that horrible Soha track for freakin SO long...hell yeah we deserve a jealous Manik after that! His possessiveness has long been dormant on that front...let him feel the pinch now when he himself has pushed Nandu away...tabhi he'll get a reality check about whether he can't live without her.


Manik needs to learn to forgive...as with everything else, only Nandu can bring about a change in his perspective...her alone fighting for them isn't going to solve this...he has to get some realizations of his own.

exactly my thoughts by making nandini suffer he is in long run making his list of regrets getting longer...
he asked nandini "how can u get manipulated by nyonika...but poor boy doesnt even know dat basically he was d one nyonika manipulated...coz she knew 4 manik d most important thing in life is trust n he trust this girl...so..lets put a crack in his trust den he himself will ruin it coz 4 him trust is equal to 100% trust... no less no more...
n coz he cant give her physical pain as dis hurts him more dan it hurts her, so will try to do mental torture...
but he doesnt know that nandini is way too smarter than what he thinks of her...so even if she is acting as so many people hv predicted in d promo...its a healthy acting 4 both of dem in long run...and by hook or crook she is going to give her best in winning back manik's trust...now lets see if manik is ready to accept his love with her imperfections...and ready to forgive her for her moment of distrust...

P.S- sorry girls i cant reply in each post as i am new member and is restricted to 10 posts per day but then also thank you 4 reading it and putting forward ur opinion...it matters a lot to me...
Thankx again guys 😊 😊 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Silentsoul



Hi Nur...remember we used to talk in NBT forum ...

I think Jealous Manik is only reason I have been patient with this super illlogical track.
Actually I feel Nandu fighting alone without external push like jealousy factor, she had to deal more scenario like Vinegar drinking to prove her love, He need outside push Nandu doesn't has to prove him anything. All she has to do is keep trying to reach him...
I feel Nandu has done too much for him too to save him from himself, so what she was not following him like Majnu , she was always protecting him...He gave her his star status for a a reason ...

Problem here is not Nandini. is not trying enough...problem here is Manik who for some reason don't want think beyond broken trust...

.She shouldn't be doing anything anymore after drinking Vinegar to prove her love...He should learn to forgive and .accept Nandu with her flaws...for that he need to realize if he let her go...she can go for FOREVER too...




Hey yeah I remember we used to interact in the NBT forum...nice to catch you here too :)



@bold: Another great point you've made there...exactly...so easily ppl have forgotten how often and the extents to which Nandu has gone in showing how much she loves him and wants to protect him...heck she followed him all the way to that farmhouse like a total Joganiya😆...usse zyada proof chahiye logon ko about how much Nandu can do for him?


At the end of the day, Manik is like that willful child with a talent for landing himself in trouble...in fact he REVELS in it...and most of his life no one has bothered watching out for him...only Nandu does it...and yes that is the reason she's earned that title of his shining star...it wasn't given lightly...


I can understand his shaken faith and his need to find that faith again which again only Nandu can build again since she alone has that power over him...but he needs a turning point...and that will only come if he senses that he's losing Nandu for real...he needs these external factors to push him or he will never get it.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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] yeah right...she actually shines for her love...
but we are forgetting that sometimes the clouds can cover the ilumination of the star...they can make the star invisible ...
but see the loyalty of the star that even if no1 can see it, it remains at its position shining as always...waiting patiently 4 d clouds to pass...so it can again shine... also its brightness is not its own rather is given by moon...who itself doesnt know it, it thinks that its beauty is incomplete without the stars but it is not aware that actually its the opposite...
if there is no moon then how can the star shine...
this is what happened after soha's fiasco...manik suddenly dissappeared 4m nandini's life even if it was 4 one day...24 hours...1440 minutes...86400 seconds...he was not there to give her his light...
n so his star was not able to shine for that one second when he needed her to shine 4 him the most...
but just after that brief moment with him made her realise ie, gave her brightness to actually see the truth to bring back her brightness...
but alas it was very late...the cloud came between them...making it impossible 4 d moon to see her brightness but d star it will wait patiently...HUMESHA...4 d cloud to pass so that its purpose to make the night beautiful with its moon be done again...n they can be whole again...this is exactly what nandini is doing she is waiting for her love to realise its importance in her life n d brightness dat it brings in her life with just d mere presence of manik...
so she will try as hard as she could to bring back her love in her life...
n till then she will continue shining 4 him...
thats why she was being rude to her...as she was not cricizing manik's music rather she was trying to protect it...
as it was explained in one of arathim's posts...n she was doing her duty...so people stop criticizing her actions...
at the end of d day we r forgetting that they both r teens so they r bound to do mistakes n then learn 4m it...
n believe me when they will cme out of this hurdle, their love will be as strong as anything in the world...
we just need to watch it patiently...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree with you! Nice post.
I am eagerly waiting for manik jealousy track. In fact I knew we will get one after pandit's entry.
I want manik to realise he cant let Nandu go from his life no matter what.
And may I say jealous Manik is very entertaining. 😛😆
I love Manik & I want to see this possessive side of Manik. I am really excited for the upcoming track. 😳

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