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Originally posted by: Flame.Of.Rose
Love.
A very general question asked by all, what is love?Any answers? Any limitation, tangible line to tell its boundaries?A man being scared, scared of not being a good enough father to his expecting baby, won't be able to love his baby. Don't your fathers love you whole heartedly? Do you know why they do so?Because they trust? Not you, themselves.They trust that they can fight the whole world to keep you happy, to protect you. They trust to be good enough person for you to idolize. They trust to be understanding enough to be your friend.
Are you saying that a man who'll fear if he'll be able to do justice to a new life, if he'll fear the shadow of his imperfections tarnishing his little one, if he'll fear making mistakes while being a parent, if he'll fear not being the kind of parent that child deserves, if he'll fear his flaws and shortcomings because he wants his child to have absolutely the best in the world, if he'll fear for his safety and for his goodwill, he won't love his baby? But technically, won't these fears stem out from the undying love which is need, to see that baby have the best of world? To see him reach heights the father never could? Is uncertainty not stemmed out of care? and if not then how? Did your parents not have moments of apprehension during parenthood? Did they not make mistakes and learn? And do you not think ones with the most fears have the capability to turn out the best? For they've the will to help their children where they lacked?That's love.That's how you love.
That's rather a very definite and perfect definition to love don't you think? What is exactly love? Being unchallenged, unapprehensive, undoubtful, thus unchallenged? doesn't that sound a little stale?Love isn't about opening your wounds and vulnerability to someone and to trust them. Love is about to trust yourself to heal their wounds.
Funny. Some people would actually argue that love is about being vulnerable. That love is all about bravery and the courage to be vulnerable. Love is about standing in the middle of the road and taking the chance of being hit by a truck. Of showing someone your deepest scars, and trusting them not to mock you, not you curse you, not to laugh, but accept. Accept your humanity. Accept your battles. Accept you in the form you are. and if that's not vulnerability and courage, then what is? If love is not about being able to trust, and just give, then charities work the same way too. Pity as well. Sympathy, too, don't you think?Loves isn't about backing away so they stay happy, love is about believing yourself to make the other person stay if they as much even try to think of walking away.
There's a very famous saying. Love them enough to let them go. If they come back they're yours, otherwise, they never belonged to you. Is love not wishing the best of the world for the people you love? Even if it's not you? If not, then what is this?Love isn't about knowing that they will guide you, love is about knowing that you will show they light when needed.
It is because I love my parents, that I ask for their guidance and their guidance only. for who am I? A mere girl? WHo can have right thoughts, but what if i'm lost? What if i need guidance for every human does? Why won't I go to my neighbour, or my closest friend at times? Why ultimately turn to them? It's because their insight means the most to me, has the most value in my life, it's because i trust it the most, it's because i give them my vulnerability and love and know they'll never let me be astray, and i won't them. How is being human not love?And love certainly is not about setting them free of their insecurities, love is about flying above over the years of guilt, fear and insecurities so that you can envelope other person in your secured hold.
They say love has the utmost power. One of its powers include freedom,
it has the power to heal.
the power to reveal.
the power to give you wings.
and the power, to simply, set you free.
Selfless toh charity wale bhi hote hain.
Pyaar mein dene aur maange ka haqq ho toh koi baat hai.😆
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