Originally posted by: Flame.Of.Rose
Love.
A very general question asked by all, what is love?
Any answers? Any limitation, tangible line to tell its boundaries?
A man being scared, scared of not being a good enough father to his expecting baby, won't be able to love his baby. Don't your fathers love you whole heartedly? Do you know why they do so?
Because they trust? Not you, themselves.
They trust that they can fight the whole world to keep you happy, to protect you. They trust to be good enough person for you to idolize. They trust to be understanding enough to be your friend.
That's love.
That's how you love.
Love isn't about opening your wounds and vulnerability to someone and to trust them. Love is about to trust yourself to heal their wounds.
Loves isn't about backing away so they stay happy, love is about believing yourself to make the other person stay if they as much even try to think of walking away.
Love isn't about knowing that they will guide you, love is about knowing that you will show they light when needed.
And love certainly is not about setting them free of their insecurities, love is about flying above over the years of guilt, fear and insecurities so that you can envelope other person in your secured hold.