precap!! what the eff - Page 13

Originally posted by: AnomanderRake

But people fall down, your assumption is that her dignity is based on someone else's perception of he falling down. People can perceive a million things about a person, does that stop us from carrying on with our lives. Let me take the example of Nandini here, SPACE people considered her behenji and not sophisticated. They laughed at her, did that stop her from carrying on with her life? She has faced far worse in life and aced the test with flying colours. That's the beauty of Nandini's character, she doesn't allow others' perception of her determine her self-worth. That's true dignity.

Originally posted by: arathim

[ That's true dignity.

Originally posted by: AnomanderRake

I am a ordinary girl...if something like that happens to the one i care about...what happened to Nandhu...where it was like she was in a auditorium...I will feel bad that it happened in front of so many people...its natural to me and many others...i donno if you categorize that as us measuring our self worth on others perception...wud i agree or disagree...? Maybe both...some part of us ordinary people do see ourselves from others eyes too...and i said some part...I am personally like nandhu...i dont conform to the dressing style etc...or any other things that my peers think measures my selfworth...infact i m completely oppo to that...but i wud still feel bad for my sis and nandhu if they fall like that in front of so many...its up to you what you think about me and people like me...who feel bad for what happened...!!!!

Originally posted by: arathim

Its got nothing to do with ordinary or not ordinary. People have opinions and different people have different opinions. For you falling down, might seem as a loss of dignity, for some other people, women working is an affront to their dignity. If we start listening to what people say, then a girl will be shackled inside the house, where also people will have opinions as to what is embarrassing or not. And hence my point, dignity is not based on other people's perception, because if it becomes that, might as well sit at home.

Originally posted by: AnomanderRake

Sit at Home...😊...Nope...!!!

Falling down in front of many people may embarrass me ...but wont stop me from getting up with a defiant smile on my face and gracefully get back to my seat...thats my nature...

I felt bad doesnt mean that would make me take a step back...I am what I am by my own...not others...Feeling bad doesnt make me weak...makes me Human...!!!!

Originally posted by: arathim

So why make it a big deal for Nandini? She is supposed to represent all of us, she is not someone who shouldn't fall right?