Sarika,
Well done. Made so much of sense. Completely agree with you. Especially your concern for the young girls in the forum. I am very glad that you made this post.
Here is what I wrote in another post..
I some how feel that, in the excitement of connecting with Manik and Nandini, people try to connect with Parth and Niti as well. This is quite wrong.
Parth is not Manik
Niti is not Nandini.
There actors who are playing the roles, giving their 100%, doing a good job of it.
It is because they are doing a good job, that we are enjoying the on screen stories.
One should never confuse characters with actors. They are people with separate personal life, which no one has any business poking nose into.
Fans should only be commenting, appreciating, criticising the profession, rather the acting or how well they are doing their job. They have no business going beyond that. What does it matter if Parth and Niti are not friends off screen. How do we even know that this is the actual truth? If they have any issues, it is their head ache and problem. It is their business and they will sort it out themselves. Fans should only be concerned about the work they put up in front of camera. And without actually knowing the whole truth, it is so demoralizing to the actors to hear negative comments from someone who has no right to do so, on the matters which does not concern them.
How will a cashier at the bank will think, when you just go and say that you are not friends with the other cashier, so you don't work in bank!!!!! That is how ridiculous the whole thing is looking. We are concerned if the cashier is doing his job and keeping our money safe.
Love
MD
PS: I am so relieved that I am not the only person in this forum who is in her thirties... All these days I was so worried that I am alone...😳