What is trust? Kindly have a look?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I've read at places Manik should have trusted Nandini( even i agree to this, because i hated the way he made a mockery out of every beautiful things which happened between them just to alienate her)
Now i've read that Nandini should have trusted Manik despite whatever he said...
So what does trust really mean???
Nandini trusted Manik never to step out of limits with her when she was spiked, and gradually acknowledged her love for him.
Their love is like a new flower which is blossoming, it needs time and care!
A relation of a few hours, should we take it for granted that Nandini should have trusted Manik???
I dont know when i heard his harsh words, him humiliating her and finally the way he referred to the kiss and all, Nandini tried desperately to believe in him, maybe if she was more confident she would have seen behind his facade of lies!
But the fact that everything is so new to her, she even told him this at one point..
so my question is what is trust?
should she have trusted him despite his words! should she have trusted him the way he said she was a challenge to him? Should she have trusted him after the way he was laughing at her and her tears?
I mean seriously, if any girl had trusted any man after the way Manik insulted her, then i would have said the girl is stupid!
This is my POV, and i respect that everyone has their own views.
Now coming to Manik, i do want to kill him, but i guess his guilt, the pain of separation and maybe even jealousy will slowly kill him...
well now its too late to cry to over-spilled milk like they say, but now Manik has to earn her trust, has to earn her love!!!
I want a proper track of redemption, and no Nandini being mahaan and forgiving him no matter what he does!
I'm kinda of bored of seeing such scenes, where female leads forgive everything so quickly!
I know i'm a sadist😳
Their love started too easily, neither even understood the meaning of love and trust!
Love runs more deeply than just a few mere words...
Unfortunately actions matter a lot, and Manik has just burnt his bridges

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agreed!
No fault of nandini .

Now toh manik will have a tough time if he want her back in life.
He broke her trust and more than that he broke her belief for true love.

Manik ne toh Kar diya for friendship but he will soon realise this all is so not easy that he will forget away all this by being monster manik.

How long he will fake it!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I still want her to trust Manik...
If Manik's need is only to use her & leave he'd've used her when she was drunk, when they're locked in storeroom, when she's at his place..
Just tell me if Manik wanted to break her heart, then why he helped Rishab & let the NH3 win...
nandu is not a baby to fall for a trap she took lot time to trust him..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ok so I just wrote my opinion on this in another post; am repeating that here.

I would say 'trust' is a two-way street. Nandini's trust for Manik didn't come in a day, nor was it unexplained in any way. It came because he had 'earned' it. Given their history, Nandini could have chosen to ignore all the little signs of goodness she had seen in him and walk away, but she did not. Willingly or unwillingly, he showed his trustworthy side to her through little incidents, and she actively chose to believe in him and overlook that 'monstrous' side that she was well-aware existed in him.

Trusting someone is always a choice you make based upon their actions. Expecting Nandini, or any other character for that matter, to be a mind-reader and get through immense pain and shock in order to read his eyes is extremely unrealistic in my opinion. Yes, unconditional trust should exist in a relationship, but that can only happen when it is supported by communication. Every time Nandini 'saw through' Manik and comforted him, she already had an inkling that he was disturbed in some way, be it when he hugged her or when he shouted at her when she told him about Cabir. This is why the responsibility for this particular fiasco rests solely on Manik for me. He simply did not communicate. Instead he deliberately hit her where it would hurt her the most. He cheapened the trust he had built himself. Nandini, in the future, might figure out his reasons. I am hoping she will. But her 'trust' should not return until Manik learns to communicate honestly.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I thnk ur rite..cannt blame nandu for nt trusting her..and yeah i wanna see ways thru vch nandu revenge back manik..bt still i dont want it to be very strong revenge ..and strong jealousy track wud doo good..i ll love it ..

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