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Posted: 20 years ago
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Wow, so much has been written about A-K love story. Every body fr Chilly , MD, Nits, Love4ever, bips, Tisha........ have given their opinion & expressed their point of view brilliantly, so here's my 2 cents..............

Kripa loves Angad……no matter what the circumstances…..to be able to love anyone so deeply, the only word that can be described such a loving state is the word UNCONDITIONAL. Kripa's love towards Angad is UNCONDITIONAL. But Angad's love towards Kripa is SITUATIONAL. Coz of the conditions & circumstances at home & at work he fell in love with Kripa.

This might seem like a strange statement, but not everybody is ready to love unconditionally. Some people want to hang on to their judgments, their blame, their anger, and their resentment. Some people want to continue feeling like a victim to their lives and to others instead of taking responsibility for their lives. Some people don't feel happy unless they are complaining about others and/or about the events and circumstances of their lives. There goes Angad Khanna not communicating only reacting & hanging on to his own judgement!

But, we all know that…..If we don't change our perspectives on things,
nothing in our lives changes either. Angad has to change his perspective.

On the other hand……Kripa changed her perspective that's when she learnt how to love unconditionally.

But now everything around her has changed, for the worse. But if Angad, changes his outlook & perspective everything will be fine b/w them. Angad's instinctual functions tends to keep him from loving unconditionally. Poor guy has to overcome these limitations.

Ptithvi the sweet-heart should take Angad to a psychiatrist, get a therapy done, fix him up & hand him to Kripa coz P loves K unconditionally.

Mink, thinks that what we hate the most will keep showing up in our lives until we learn to love it!

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Hi Deepey, Your sig line describes A-k the best....................

Hum logon ko smajsakoto samjo dilbarjani
Jitna bhitum samjoge utnihogi hairani...................

Really their love is unique.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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I am sooo confused now. U R right too, Chilly is right too, Nitica is right too😕 , I am right too😉There is no wrong way, everyone is right!!!! There R soo many questions?

Is Angad right? Will Kripa forgive him? SHould Kripa forgive him?Love? True love? Unconditional love? Situational love? Honor vs. Love?

I think my brain might burst!!!!!!

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: mink

Hi Deepey, Your sig line describes A-k the best....................

Hum logon ko smajsakoto samjo dilbarjani
Jitna bhitum samjoge utnihogi hairani...................

Really their love is unique.

Oh thanx Mink, But my sig was supposed to describe myself. But its ok if it descrines Ak too. i just wanted the world to know that PHIR BHI DIL HAI HINDUSTANI.😛

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Posted: 20 years ago
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See, the soapy effect started twisting everything to fit the soap.

Deepay Ok, understood Good!! 'Im also a big time Lovatic Hindustani!!

Love taught me humility and patience, which I need and which help me cope with each day's tribulations and trials. Love taught me that joy is not superficial; not found in things; not dependent on having things a certain way in my life, but rather on being willing to be more unselfish, more obedient, more honest with one another!!😊

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Posted: 20 years ago
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It's ok mink

wow mink, very poetic. You guys all r really talented, except me.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: KYPH_fan

I am sooo confused now. U R right too, Chilly is right too, Nitica is right too😕 , I am right too😉There is no wrong way, everyone is right!!!! There R soo many questions?

Is Angad right? Will Kripa forgive him? SHould Kripa forgive him?Love? True love? Unconditional love? Situational love? Honor vs. Love?

I think my brain might burst!!!!!!

same here...

gr8 post mink👏

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: KYPH_fan

I am sooo confused now. U R right too, Chilly is right too, Nitica is right too😕 , I am right too😉There is no wrong way, everyone is right!!!! There R soo many questions?

Is Angad right? Will Kripa forgive him? SHould Kripa forgive him?Love? True love? Unconditional love? Situational love? Honor vs. Love?

I think my brain might burst!!!!!!

Don't strain your brain just learn forgiveness!!

Forgiveness is a way to unburden oneself from the constant pressure of rewriting the past. It's a gesture towards the future. Not for the future as a future in time, but for what the French call avenir, to open the way for what is to come, for the unexpected.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: mink

Don't strain your brain just learn forgiveness!!

Forgiveness is a way to unburden oneself from the constant pressure of rewriting the past. It's a gesture towards the future. Not for the future as a future in time, but for what the French call avenir, to open the way for what is to come, for the unexpected.

Thanks Mink😊 I will try keeping an open mind😊

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Posted: 20 years ago
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I agree with most of the stuff u guys have written but I really dont think Kripa changed her perspective, in fact she made Angad change and that too for the better, but whatever the reasons as to why Angad changed, Kripa was willing to move along with her relationship with Angad only when he changed his life style and his general behavior, he became more caring, more kind and less of a playboy.She did not and was not willing to compromise with the old angad and his habits and style.

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