is kripa right? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Tabu7

i agree that she cant marry a person she doesnt love but has done many favours for her! but her reason behind the decision of getting married to nishant myt not only b this! just like angad always blames kripa saying every time bcoz of u my career went down, just bcoz of he was alwayslet down! 😕 is angad believes that whys does he still want kripa back? even kripa loves him, but may b its a sacrifice for the sake of angad's good! and just like angad himself said, kanan is the only girl who can understand her, and take care of her, how can kripa comeback after knowing that this is what angad thinks of her😡

think about it, if someone thikns u are not right for him, has always ruined their career , why should u give that person a chance tosay the same thing again????????

u have your own belief and i have my own! 😃 i believe kripa is completely right in what ever she is doing? if she wants to go back to a house where angad's fiance lives, a dadi who doesnt want her back in angad's live, and parents like dilip!!!😡 , angad who has left her in the middle of nowhere!!😡 for which she has to go in som1 else's house to work! he didnt care in the last 5 years about where his wife lives, what is the chance he will not do this again???

You do have a point.

But then it's always said, hatred is just another side of love.

What I didn't understand is, why would suddenly Angad say that Kripa has already done so many sacrifices...does it mean he realised his mistakes? I haven't been watching it very closely.

But at this juncture kripa is right. The reason being that Angad is impulsive and he is a difficult man to live with and please. Angad threw Kripa out in extreme conditions. He perhaps did not bodily throw her out, but created enough conditions, going to the extent of sleeping with other females - a fact I can never digest and can't see how Kripa can overcome it- but that's what happened. So in her subconcious, she is scared of something similar happening, and she perhaps does not want any more decisions that are ruled by heart and spoils all their life. Because according to her, it works out fine. Nishant gets a wife, all the four kids get a family, Angad gets Kanan who loves and takes care of him, and Sur gets a family too. Kripa lived without Sur and Prateek lived without Angad, so as of now everything is perfect.

The only complication: Angad now wants her back as badly as he wanted to hurt her five years back and did his best to make himself beleive she does not exist for him anymore. But inconsistency and impulsiveness has been one of the mainstay of Angad's character through out, and so when he wants, he wants, no explaination required. And his failure to attatch himself to anyone emotionally, even Kanan, shows that subconciously, he kept loving and yearning for Kripa.

However on the other hand it's also true that Kripa blamed herself for all that Angad went thru. So the balance if pretty much even. And in real life too, things are not always black and white, they are grey. And the complication is also that kripa loves him.

It's somthing like being in an abusive relationship, where the couple keep hitting and abusing, and yet can never live separately. To outsiders it seems disgusting and perplexing, but many a times, the balance of power in such households is pretty much equal.

And that I think best defines Kripa Angad relationship. They are two sides of the same coin. Kripa will be miserable with Nishant, though she would live her life dutifully and Nishant is too dumb on emotional front to see anything amiss ( Angad devours Kripa in front of his eyes and this guy does not even notice.....how dumb can you get !!!😆😆 he is really cute). Nishant is too seedha and good for Kripa. Angad is too complicated and passionate for kanan to handle.

They NEED to get back to each other !!!!!!

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If you have followed KYPH from the beginning, looks like the decisions K and A have made with their hearts have always been right (Kripa tends to use her mind more than her heart, though). The only time Kripa followed her heart was when she left Prithvi at the engagement and went to Angad. That was the happiest time of her life. After that she has always tried to think with her mind even if her heart says something else and has always been unhappy. Angad on the other hand thinks with his heart as far as Kripa is concerned. Even this time his heart says the right thing is for his family to unite but Kripa is trying to do the right thing her brain tells her. Business decisions are made with the brain but decisions about love and relationships should be left to the heart. What do you guys think?

well i agree too but i want them to be 2gether

Originally posted by: Minnie

You do have a point.

But then it's always said, hatred is just another side of love.

What I didn't understand is, why would suddenly Angad say that Kripa has already done so many sacrifices...does it mean he realised his mistakes? I haven't been watching it very closely.

But at this juncture kripa is right. The reason being that Angad is impulsive and he is a difficult man to live with and please. Angad threw Kripa out in extreme conditions. He perhaps did not bodily throw her out, but created enough conditions, going to the extent of sleeping with other females - a fact I can never digest and can't see how Kripa can overcome it- but that's what happened. So in her subconcious, she is scared of something similar happening, and she perhaps does not want any more decisions that are ruled by heart and spoils all their life. Because according to her, it works out fine. Nishant gets a wife, all the four kids get a family, Angad gets Kanan who loves and takes care of him, and Sur gets a family too. Kripa lived without Sur and Prateek lived without Angad, so as of now everything is perfect.

The only complication: Angad now wants her back as badly as he wanted to hurt her five years back and did his best to make himself beleive she does not exist for him anymore. But inconsistency and impulsiveness has been one of the mainstay of Angad's character through out, and so when he wants, he wants, no explaination required. And his failure to attatch himself to anyone emotionally, even Kanan, shows that subconciously, he kept loving and yearning for Kripa.

However on the other hand it's also true that Kripa blamed herself for all that Angad went thru. So the balance if pretty much even. And in real life too, things are not always black and white, they are grey. And the complication is also that kripa loves him.

It's somthing like being in an abusive relationship, where the couple keep hitting and abusing, and yet can never live separately. To outsiders it seems disgusting and perplexing, but many a times, the balance of power in such households is pretty much equal.

And that I think best defines Kripa Angad relationship. They are two sides of the same coin. Kripa will be miserable with Nishant, though she would live her life dutifully and Nishant is too dumb on emotional front to see anything amiss ( Angad devours Kripa in front of his eyes and this guy does not even notice.....how dumb can you get !!!😆😆 he is really cute). Nishant is too seedha and good for Kripa. Angad is too complicated and passionate for kanan to handle.

They NEED to get back to each other !!!!!!

👏exactly! agree wid every single sentence, 👏😳

😊

Originally posted by: Tabu7

👏exactly! agree wid every single sentence, 👏😳

👏 me too

Originally posted by: ayesha_ai

i hope u know what i m trying to say, i took my time explaining, hope it make sence.

😳

I agree that kripa needs to start making decisions with her heart and not her mind. They were both in the wrong. I will always agree with the fact that no one can marry someone that they dont love. a one sided love rarely works out. Kripa has gone through this with prithvi. I was getting annoyed by her behaviour towards angad as i thought that him telling her to come back in his life was what she was waiting for in the past 5 years, and now it has happened she is telling him to leave her alone... 😕 i fail to understand why she is going to agree to marry nishant, when she knows she wont be happy i understand she does not want to hurt him but wont it hurt more when he finds out the truth esp if its not from her mouth. Shes made enough sacrifices and now there are two kids involved not just her. However angads hatred towards her when she came back in his life was very bad. he is soo in love with her, but when he gets angry he does sometimes cross his limits. I hated the way he told her to get out of his life it was very cold of him where was the love then? hes cant expect her to drop everything and come. Like i said BOTH in the wrong. I hope he is not acting and i hope they get back together. it may be a very confusing love but it is a love worth fighting for. 😳 and people are gonna get hurt it cant be helped. 😭
I also have a prediction that prithvi will come on kripas wedding to nishant and break it by saying that angad kripa are still married!

Originally posted by: Tabu7

i think so! 😳 i think she is right! because she know angad has only decided get back together coz he wants prateek. true she loves him but she know they always breakup! how many times did this happend? she doesnt want to hurt nishant! he has given her a new life, supported her when angad left her! gave the same love to prateek which a dad would have given! he gave a family to prateek even without having any relationship. the person whome prateek had a relationship with wasnt even aware of his existance😳.

nishant has given everything to kripa and prateek, and becuase of angad kripa cannot forget all the favours by nishant😳

and anyway kripa is aware that kanan likes angad, even dadi doesnt want kripa back in angad's life, so why should she force her self?

well said..... i totally agree with this.. But still i hope that she finally ends up with angad.. 😳

Originally posted by: kashish 1322

true...very well said...i understand ur opinion...but how can we jump to conclusions that angad is doing this to get prateek...i mean after looking at the rain scene...which was so passionate and that love in angad's eyes and the way he was hugging kripa and the way he gets jealous when nishu touches krips...these indicate that his feelings for krips are genuine...i don't think he's doing a natak after all this...and kripa can't just marry nishu just becuz he has done many favors for her and loved prateek a lot...i agree that nishu has been a nice guy and loves her a lot...but would it be right to marry a guy u don't love and just respect him and never be able to give him the love back that he deserves...respect won't be enough...and nishu believes that krips loves him...and would it be right to keep such a nice guy in dark and not tell him anything about prateek or her relation with angad cuz it would hurt nishu a lot after he learns that she hid everything from him and even told angu not to tell him the truth! well...its ok...but i just want them to be together at the end...they've both hurted each other very much...but at the end they should both apologize...give each other a big hug...and make up for everything they've done wrong...and live with sur and prateek happily ever after! 😃 hope u understand my point of view 😃

i agree!! i must say u guys r right on point with ur opinions...xactly wat i think 2!! 😊

Originally posted by: bheegi

If you have followed KYPH from the beginning, looks like the decisions K and A have made with their hearts have always been right (Kripa tends to use her mind more than her heart, though). The only time Kripa followed her heart was when she left Prithvi at the engagement and went to Angad. That was the happiest time of her life. After that she has always tried to think with her mind even if her heart says something else and has always been unhappy. Angad on the other hand thinks with his heart as far as Kripa is concerned. Even this time his heart says the right thing is for his family to unite but Kripa is trying to do the right thing her brain tells her. Business decisions are made with the brain but decisions about love and relationships should be left to the heart. What do you guys think?

Yes, I agree. For some reason, whenever kripa thinks with her head, it turns out be something fatally wrong.

Maye it's time she heard her heart.

But my pov is, she is scaed. All this time she kept away from Angad for his own happiness. yet she kept loving him. Now that he has suddeny realised, she is confused and scared. As I said, Angad is a difficult man, and to some extent selfish too. But when this guy wants, he wants, others be damned. So on the way he is crushing kanan and nishant. However the truth is, both these people are bound to be hurt, becasue Angad is wrong for kanan and Kripa is wrong for Nishant.