Why is Kripa being singled out?

We all are entitled to an opinion of our own. But I think we need to do some soul searching.

While we derieve some sadistic pleasure in seeing poor Kripa get raped (I shall not debate on whether she was raped or not. I have my reasons to believe she was. I leave the rest to the future storyline)

We laughed when Angad brought that call girl on his wedding night. While we ask angrily "How could a wife do that to her husband?" I would ask- How could a husband do that to his wife? How come we took such a serious offence so lightly? We smacked our lips in glee when Kripa was thrown out of Prithvi's house. Yet nobody did spare a thought about the tumoil in Kripa's mind when she defied "tradition" and performed for Prithvi. How is it that Kripa is always to blame for the mistakes she commits and "Both" are to blame for the mistakes Angad commits?

Please do not misunderstand my point of view as an attempt to force my opinion down your thoat. But sometimes we really need to spare a thought for Human Beings. They might be fictional. But they are Human Beings. Kripa is a Human Being so is Angad.

And I have realised the only person who can forgive Angad is Kripa and the only person who can forgive Kripa is Angad. they are made for each other. Angad and Kripa can now bury their past and start afresh. They have settled their old scores. Kripa has paid him back for the rape.

A request- Can we just tone down on the hate Kripa hate Angad posts and talk about their reunion which will happen soon?😛

Originally posted by: Shirin

A request- Can we just tone down on the hate Kripa hate Angad posts and talk about their reunion which will happen soon?😛

Amen to that!!!

All three of them have erred in relationships, conceived misconceptions, and backed away from realsm in which the reality consists of. I guess this just symbolizes the general acceptance that no one is perfect, we all are imperfect yet seek perfection! No one wants to look at their own faults, yet are quick to point out others faults, and I guess that's where these three's faults reside! I know I posted the same thing in Ouma's post, but I thought of posting it here, so everyone who missed it can read again, and consider it my analysis for today, I just don't know what to comment about today's episode!

PS: Also remember kyph is fictional it is not real, it's characters are fictional as well, so don't take anything to heart, you all are my sunshines I don't want to offend any of you, if I do, please openly tell me!

Angad - in no way can his acts be justified, although "rape" maybe a small word, it's meaning is so broad, with a varied meaning of injustice and disrespect for one's soul, self-respect, and self aquaintance within oneself...rape is not only of the body, but of one's soul, which once bruised, stains an ache for a lifetime, it cannot be erased, because what happened, cannot be changed...he loves Kripa beyond any limit, yet he could not grasp the true meaning of love...with just one tainted illusion, he deciphered mistrust and betrayal...yet it is not as he had not suffered, due to Prithvi he served some time in jail, when he didn't commit any sin at all? Was that a justifed act of Prithvi? Letting someone else pay for his own sins? And this is a minor thing compared, to killing oone's life! How can Josh be brought back, with a hundred apologies of Prithvi? Can he be revived from the dead, and rejuvenated with life once again? Will the people who loved him, gain back their lost happiness, and the tears they shed for loss of him? Can he bring back the time, and stopped himself from seperating two love birds, who were cozy in their rose bud till this thick thorn began sniggling in between? So, all am saying is, Angad cannot change the disrespect, the hurt he gave Kripa, but Prithvi is not innocent either. Not everyone is born the same, everyone has different personalities, so does Angad. Angad is very impulsive, temperamental, such aspects of his personality lead him to react differently than others, after learning of Kripa and Prithvi's marriage, he took his first impulse which was revenge, but this revenge brought him no happiness! The slighten moistening of Kripa's eyes, and an ache to her, brought tears to his eyes...that's why today after commiting such a grave sin, he doesn't look into the mirror smiling broadly for his acts, but his eyes are lowered, not in the mirror, but his entire act has lowered him in his own eyes, that is a punishment in itself, "it is hard to live with guilt on your conscience, than denial of it."

Prithvi - Yes, he supported Kripa through deep and shallow times, being there for her when not one person stood by her side...he gave her hope, when she gave up, he made her fight back, when she was weakened..all these things he gave her are indeed very precious, and became the boulder of their friendship...And when we talk about respect for woman, we very quickly point at Angad, for not being able to respect Kripa or Mishty...Let's talk about Prithvi now! Is it really respect, to overlook a woman's happiness to attain what you desire? Is this not what Prithvi did? Because he was in love with Kripa and wanted a relationship with her, by hook and crook he tried to dissolve Angad and Kripa's relationship, which he did, only thing is, he could not tear apart their hearts, which are connected to each other...Then we have Aliyah, whom we easily overlook because her character is less in the limilight than Mishty's...Aliyah was in love with Josh, by killing him, how did he respect a woman's feelings? How can he obtain respect for the love he has for Kripa when he cannot respect other's love? Once in his heart resided innate goodness, but somewhere when he found Kripa slipping away from him because she is in love with Angad, it stirred something inside of him, something he could never imagine, a man in a hunt of only his desires, even if in the process, his ax hurt someone...can we blame him entirely? No, not really, but yes he solely is responsible for the crimes he did, and as for the crimes of his heart, no one can punish the heart for loving someone so immensely!

Kripa - What can I say, she is in a web of sorrow...it is said the one whom you love the most, can wound you the most - because the one whom you love most holds greater precidence over your heart, and since it does, the wound that it gives will also have a terrbile affect on your heart..this is what happened to her, She could forgive Karthik and Naina so easily, as Angad's existence in her heart, is far greater than them...She has also erred, she failed to see through the illusion of mistrust and misunderstadning roaming in between her and Angad, and as a result she made wrong decisions...as for the hatred relationship - if saying so, can erase one's mark on your heart, then Kripa wouldn't have thought of Angad and her memories after the rape, she wouldn't feel the pain of their relationship embedded in her love on loose ends, yet attached...she denies her love for Angad, it's good she's supporting Prithvi and helping him out, but it looks more to me that she's very desperately trying to proove to the world that she's only in love with Prithvi and only cares for him...And she can't be blamed for still trusting Prithvi, because the truth is still a veil in front of her, the day that veil opens, her trust will shatter, and all her illusions will become pieces of shards as well... what was real for her will shake, and I wonder how it will affect her, as it is really hard to blink and find what you knew isn't real anymore..I feel so sorry for her, already she is becoming vulnerble once again, and this time, both her ships are sinking, I hope she clasps the surface, because what is hidden will shake her world...

PS: yes, hatred towards Kripa should calm down a little!

Keep smiling...
Love
Soni

Again Soni aunty??? 😆 😆 😆

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Soni nice lecture 😳 ... i luv ur writting always 😳 😳

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Originally posted by: yeh_ada_143

thank god for copy/paste. 😆

I know right, esp at times when soni is lazy😆😆

Originally posted by: buttercup

Soni nice lecture 😳 ... i luv ur writting always 😳 😳

thankoo, and smile always pplz, it is the key to success!😛

They might be fictional characters. But the situations being dealt with are real. Marital rape and Adultery are situations we see everyday.It is nice to have a laugh or two about certain things. But need to know where to draw the line. I would love a say a lot of things about the mistakes Kripa has committed. But after seeing so many hate posts I find myself doing the opposite.Fictional or not, so much of hatred is not good.

i agree...i always said the same thing...itz not onli kripa's fault...angad is to be blamed as well

i always said wenever angad did sumthign rong...we never badmouthed him...so why kripa...he didnt trust kripa and we all said she deserves it....adn now that she doesnt trust him...we say she's selfish???? i dont think sooo

and i say "we" becuz we're all one...

but no1 listened to me and just kept on bashing about kripa