Sad Scene of the day - Page 2

Originally posted by: Evee

well, I didnt understand that scene... what is dard ka rishta? then dadi said that "is dard ko tum apne dil se nahi nikal paogi" (something like that) so dosent that make it dil ka rishta as well? 😕

Yeap that's what she meant, they will never be able to take each other out from their heart...

ya that was a bery touching scene 😭 😭

urrghh i hated that scene..except the last part of dadi...i didnt wanna listen to kripa's nonsense so i was looking at the ppl at the back walking in and out of the hospital rooms...

it was ssoooo funny...these 2-3 guys just kept walking in and out..one after another..wow...wat direction

it made me laff wen kripa was crying

i was wondering wen finaally shesl say sumtin to her

u're right Sangi Di
Dadi should give her some sense

Arey di!

Honestly, I was confused when I heard Dadi's dialogue today ... I think that A-K's 'luv connection' is far more intense and far more deep that their 'dard bhara' connection ... I dont understand why she is down playing their luv for each other so much?

Afterall ... For Angad it was the first time he actually fell in luv with and committed to a gurl completely - earlier he had just had mere flings/ 1-nite stands!

For Kripa also ... it was her first tru luv and the one guy she made her first carnal committment with --- so why does dadi keep insistng abt the 'dard' angle ... that dard came much much later and was more circumstantial than real. Their luv, however, was Totaaly real, and both were very very serious abt it.

So I didnt really get why dadi keeps on harping this angle. 😕 I think she shud stop confusing stupid kripa. This dame irritates me to no end ... she mopes abt one guy when she is with the other : How SICK is that ??? Somebody ... plz take her to a shrink!!!

if u have to hear dadi keep ur brain aside 😆 😆 😆 ,she is too confusing 😕
i dont ever hear her speech ,isse acha to kripa ka chehra hai 😆 😆 😆

Originally posted by: Angad_Diwani

Arey di!

Honestly, I was confused when I heard Dadi's dialogue today ... I think that A-K's 'luv connection' is far more intense and far more deep that their 'dard bhara' connection ... I dont understand why she is down playing their luv for each other so much?

Afterall ... For Angad it was the first time he actually fell in luv with and committed to a gurl completely - earlier he had just had mere flings/ 1-nite stands!

For Kripa also ... it was her first tru luv and the one guy she made her first carnal committment with --- so why does dadi keep insistng abt the 'dard' angle ... that dard came much much later and was more circumstantial than real. Their luv, however, was Totaaly real, and both were very very serious abt it.

So I didnt really get why dadi keeps on harping this angle. 😕 I think she shud stop confusing stupid kripa. This dame irritates me to no end ... she mopes abt one guy when she is with the other : How SICK is that ??? Somebody ... plz take her to a shrink!!!

You r right Tani, Dadi is confused I think and she is confusing everyone as well...kya kare bhuddi ho gayi hai nah....shrink bhi nahin help karenge😆

Di

When i heard what dadi said
i was like i had a stone in my heart
she said it so true
Kripa has to learn soemthing for Dadi
Dadi you are the best

Dil ka rishta - It is only love and the hearts knows each other and responds equally to balance. If A+K had only Dil ka rishta, they would have understood all the feelings, even without seeing, and would have tried to sort out the matter and move on. Sometimes, out of sight may become out of mind.
Dard ka rishta - This is something nobody can forget. What stays in your mind for a long time? It is the pain of actions and words. How long? It is much much longer and the feeling of pain prolongs it further. So, in this case, they are hurting each other so much and are causing pain to the other and along side falls prey to the pain equally. The wound does not heal, bcos, you are hit on the same wound again. When the love causes the pain, it hurts even more, with more depth. It is said "you may forget the slap on your cheek, but the words and insulting and betrayal actions echoes several times and re-ecoes forever" which makes it whole life also a small period to forget easily.
If you have an argument with a stranger, over time you forget it. But if your loved ones cause you the pain, that is immense and unforgetful.
That is why she said, Dil ka rishta bhool bhi sakte hain, leking Dard ka rishta, ek janam bhi kam lag jaayegi bhool ne ke liye (something like that).