Hi guys.. here's a little essay i wrote a long while ago... as you'll discover when you go through it...
so read this: and let me know what you think of this in the context of the present situation
Kripa and Angad - a match made in heaven or a disaster waiting to happen?
We have all heard that opposites attract... but pls... don't apply the laws of physics to human life... it's not a simple case of "north-pole-attracts-south-pole"... life is an intricate maze of emotion, passion, beauty and unhappiness and LOVE... it is said love is the essence and substance of life... then WHY in the world are we trying to categorize it... generalise it... classify it... analyse it and in the process... destroy its inherent sanctity by putting it down to sumthing like 'hormonal dysfunction' or chemical reactions causing XYZ area of the left cerebral hemisphere leading to an electrical impulse transmitted from blah blah to the yak yak leading to a temporary 'mental' condition called 'love'...
okay... so i may be straying from the point... but let me tell all those who are crying out from rooftops and chimneypots that "Kripa and Angad are meant for each other because opposites attract!" that this does not apply to real life... look at it this way... when anybody looks for a companion they also look for somebody who shares their views on various subjects... somebody who has a similar outlook on life... and why...?
just for the simple reason... that one would like to be supported unconditionally when making the most crucial decisions of their life... so in that respect... Angad and Kripa would make a disastrous match... but couples do not simply result from 2 ppl who ape each other... no way! you always need a balance... but that does not mean that you try to unite polar opposites... lemme warn you... you'll fail miserably in the attempt... in angad and kripa's case... they are two entirely different ppl... 2 differnt personalities... 2 different everythings...
but wait... all those who are planning to leave right away... hold on... all this is just to prove that angad and kripa are THE perfect couple... now don't go... "if that's what she wants to prove... what's she been ranting about all along..." you'll see my point pretty soon... if you look at the superficial angad he seems the 'wrongest' guy for kripa... but are we forgetting the true angad... the angad underneath the tough rough facade... under the layers of anger and resentment? the true angad is good natured, confused, deprived little boy... who still needs to grow out of his shell of insecurity and face the realities that exist outside his little bubble of a volatile and unreal world of fame and riches... he has yet to come to terms with or accept or even REALISE the fact that his denial of love stems for a deep, unatisfied desire for unhindered and unconditional love...
he is a good guy at heart... he has lost himself in the fast paced rat race of a life he leads... only kripa can bring out the true angad and replace the image of the cassanova, playboy etc..
Advocate Anjali Awasthi
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