WHAT SHOULD PARVATI DO? Voice Opinions - Page 4

Originally posted by: ankit rocks

Hi chandrika! 😃,first of all a very happy belated birtday yaar 😃 😃 .I know i am late 😆.A great topic indeed and i will chip in my views on this sensitive topic 😳 -

Well according to me,i wud really aprreciate if paro decides to take mets case to the court.Both paro and maithalli need to be each other's strength during this testing time 👏 👏 ,when their whole family is against the idea of dragging this whole issue to the court,which ws very much expected of these spineless people 🤢 😡 .Though mets is going through a rough phase in her life,she has to stand up for herself and fight against the injustice done to her 👏 👏 .Its not going to be an easy journey for her as she has to face stiff opposition from her own family,have to fight bravely against the sick-minded society,reckless and unresponsible policeman who flaunt with their responsibility 😡 .But she has to prepare herself against these odds and if ever she scumbs under them and looses her courage 😭 ,paro has to come to her rescue and has to provide her the much needed morale and support to mets and shud instigate her to fight courageously 😳 😃 👏 .I know ,not every woman has paro or tulsi to fight for them,but this is what the crux of the problem 😭 😭 .Its really difficult for a rape victim to come out of this trauamatising experience and they desperately need someone support's and love to come out of this which unfortunately they don't get and they fight on their own accord which is very difficult and many of them simply give up 😭 😭 😭 .People choose to stay away from this issue,fearing that thier name will be dragged unneceessrily 🤢 😡 .They believe in the dictom that, why shud they interfere in other's problem,let her sort it out on her own,why the hell they shud bring a spot on their reputation 😡 and more digusting is the family's attitude towards this sensitive case 🤢 🤢 😡 .They are more bothered abt thier reputaion and stupid " maan-samna" in the society,rather than thier child's happiness.We really have to change this "jaane do " attitude 😡 😡 .People shud know that, today it has haapened with someone else,one day it may happen with their our own loved ones 😭 😭 😭 .I wud definetly like to see paro and methalli going to the court without bothering abt this stupid 'izzzat and man-saman',even if the opinion poll says otherwise,they shud go the court.They shud set an example for other women who choose to remain quiet fearing social stigma 👏 👏 👏 ."Commiting a crime is a sin,but the biggest sin is to be a slave to the crime and not figting against it". 😉
Chandrika we can voice our opinion on indya.com,they have created a poll regarding this.We have to register at indya.com and provide our opinion,just put it in the main topic 😃 .Here is the link:-

http://starplus.indya.com/serials/kggk_new/poll.asp
or
Indian viewers can sms-Parvati,provide a space and type y or n(y-yes,n-no) and send it to 7827(i am not sure abt this no,i will confirm it) 😃

Go paro and mets! 👏 👏

ANKIT

Hey Ankit...First of all thanx so much for those lovely B'day wishes! 😳

I agree with what you've put up...its impossible for a Parvati or a Tulsi to be there with a rape victim for help n support. The trauma a rape victim goes thru' is beyond our discussion...the scars of this pain will remain with her for life n fighting against all odds for justice is an even bigger challenge for the victim especially when deserted by her Kith n Kins...😭

I'm glad that Parvati has stood up for what's right n i'm sure she'll go all out to bring back the strength in Mets as well 👏...but i really appreciate the way Mets stood strong without breaking down in front of the Cops...when she told them that she too is a human being n not a toy that can be used n pushed around as desired by man..👏

Yeah n abt the Poll n links...i saw it on TV yest...thought i'll put a topic with this info...Thanx for informing though! 😳

Cheers

Chandrika

Hey Urooj! Long time no see...how are you n where have you been all this while? 😊 Anyways, Welcome back to the forum!! 😃

I agree that Mets should be in the forefront in her fight for justice...I really appreciated the way she backfired that Cop..saying that she's a human n not a toy to be used n thrown around as n when wanted.. 👏..n Parvati stood silently in support letting Mets do the talking 👏 👏 ..but her current state of mind is that she's feeling that no one including Adi will want to be associated with her after this incident n that no one will accept her! 😭

At this point of time, its important for Parvati to bring back the strength she once had, n make Mets believe that she's still gonna be accepted n loved as much...she should bring back the confidence that Mets can stand up for what's right n win in her battle...And i'm sure that just like Parvati has stood up to fight for Mets, she'll succeed in removing Mets' fears n bring back that fire in her too! 👏 👏 👏

As far as the AGs are concerned, the least said the better! 😡 🤢

Well I don't know if Balaji will listen to the audience, coz they always do whatever they want to....

I totally understand that Methalli will face all those disgusting questions in court and that would hurt her more ,because at the moment she's not ready for it.
I feel that first Methalli should make up her mind what she wants to do, she has to overcome this horrible experience and make herself strong. And after she has made herself so strong that she can stand up for herself, only than will Parvati be able to punish Pranay , together with Methalli ofcourse. As long as Methalli is weak and doesn't overcome her fear and pain, she won't be able to do deal with it......, no matter how hard Parvati will try. If this case goes to court, Mets has to be strong mentally ( it reminds me of Rani Mukerji's 1st movie )

I feel that Pranay should be punished severly, no matter if he's her husband, a wife has the right to choose who and what she wants. He has commited a crime there are no ways about that !!!

About the Agarwals........ I don't even want to comment on them, because they always claim to be the Aadarsh parivaar where there's no difference between beti's and bahu's, but with this case it's so clear that they are just double standard and that their ghar ki izzat is much more important than the izzat and dard of another woman and not just another woman , but their own bahu.....

Also if Adi's family is not willing to face the consequences of this all, than I feel it's their problem and it indicates that they are not willing to stand by Methalli and she's should not go there as their bahu either....

i was just wondering if parvati does take this to court how can it be sure that they'll win don't get me wrong i absolutely want them to win but knowing balaji they could just twist it more where methilli doesn't get justice and has to fight for it by other means and so on.

Hey chandrika! one more thing.I know this is not related to the topic,but just wanted to inform u that those of u want to vote for sakshi in zee astitva awards through sms,the number has changed.Its now 57575 instead of 7575.So just update this info.Take care 😃 .

ANKIT

Originally posted by: ankit rocks

Hey chandrika! one more thing.I know this is not related to the topic,but just wanted to inform u that those of u want to vote for sakshi in zee astitva awards through sms,the number has changed.Its now 57575 instead of 7575.So just update this info.Take care 😃 .

ANKIT

Hey Ankit...thanx for this info...i'll update the previous post rightaway! 😊

Cheers

Chandrika

Originally posted by: rajkona

Actually, killing the perpetrator is too easy. They should be made to see their victims move on and out of the fear they have instilled. To me that's the best punishment - that Pranay watch helplessly as Mets moves on in life while he has to rot in jail.

Great response. I completely agree with you! That's the only way justice would be served.

Hi Chandrika! So here's what I think:

FIRST ONE!! I think that they should do everything secretly and provoke Pranay to do something to Mets again. They should keep a video in the room and have someone hide in the closet to save Mets after the first move.Then get Adi and Mets married 😳


SECOND ONE! I think that they should tie Pranay up and start beating him and lock him in a dark room like what they did to Chotu! 😉 😆 😭 Then Mets will come there (with him in the dark room all tied up) and start provoking him making him admit everything and this will be recorded by Parvati..Then get Adi and Mets married 😳

THIRD ONE!! Parvati goes to the police and asks for an arrest of Pranay, but asks for a quiet non-public, and far-away (in a different city) arrest.. Then get Adi and Mets married 😳

Basically, get rid of Pranay and make way for Adi and Mets!!

PLEASE USE ONE OF MY IDEAS!! IF NOT, JUST UNITE ADI AND METS!!

-Minal 😊

Frankly speaking, more than Parvati taking the decision herself I think it should be Maithili who should decide what she wants and if she is mentally and emotionally ready to bear the consequences or not. And Parvati should just support her in whatever she does after all Maithili is the victim and it is upto her as to what she will do.
Coming to what Maithili's decision should be, I think she should not think just about herself(i.e. the so called family's reputation) and decide to drop this case. She should fight not for herself but for thousands like her in the society who have been hushed up by their families and several others who are tormented by their husbands each and every day. And as for the societal issues, I think our people have grown up and have broader views on such issues. They understand that its not the girls' fault and that the guilty should be punished. This fight should should be a lesson to all those families and people who think like Sonu. I don't understand how does the question of family reputation arise when the crime has been committed by a family member, I say, the moment the guilty took such a step, the family reputation has been murdered brutally . Going public and fighting against injustice is not sabotaging the family reputation, infact it is something exemplary which makes the society hold them in a high regard. This case should be an inspiration to all those silent sufferers and motivate them to come out and fight, change their meek attitudes and face the truth, allow themselves to have justice.

y v r only blaming Pranav, dont u thk Maithili is also wrong??? she is married n how can she love other man 😡 ...she always said that Pranav is her first love..how can any1 forget her/his first love..Maithili ki shaadi forcefully nahi karvayi gayi thi Pranav ke saath..uski khud ki marzi thi n how can she love other man...

I know many people will not agree with me..but i m only making my point...if u r blaming pranav only it is wrong, u should also blame maithili also.....if pranav is wrong then maithili is also wrong.