WHAT is Chaya's problem? Why is she ALWAYS after Parvati? 😡😡After all, what has Parvati done to her? First, she hates Paro b'coz Paro's against Suyesh...then she hates her because she's NOT against him...why can't Chaya just mind her own business? Speaking of which, doesn't she have a husband and grownup daughter of her own? Then what is she doing practically living full-time at Agarwal House? Ekta Aunty se koi kahe ke please, PLEASE Chaya ko uske ghar bhejde taki na sirf Paro balki hum sub audience bhi chaen se jee saki...varna us Chaya ki bachi ne to dimaag kharab kar diya hai. Kaash kal ke episode mein Paro ya to Chaya ko ghar se nikaal de, ya phir use maar dale! Agar aisa nahi hua, to shayad main Ekta Aunty ko maar dalu...
let me finish the sentence that Chaya couldn't...Agar Om (bhaiya) hote, to majaal hai KISIKI bhi ke vo humari Paro se aisi batameeze se baat kare...agar Om ke rehte Chaya ne aisi harkate ki hote, to Om ne to use vo sabak sikhaana tha, ke sab dekhte reh jaate. Kaash mera Om zinda hota, to aaj bechari Paro ki yeh haalat nahi hoti. 😠Om, tum kaha ho??
Whatever Ekta Aunty might show that is wrong or just plain silly, one thing she has highlighted with this track is the fact that a woman is only appreciated in her sasuraal until her husband is alive. The day that he dies, that respect is gone. Vidwaa ki uske sasuraal mein KOI BHI IZZAT NAHI HAI. Even the elders of the family do not step in when Paro is abused, no matter by whom. The only thing that Dadi, Maaji and Vandy maasi are good for is crying and giving bhashans to Paro everytime. They keep going on about love, respect and how they consider Bahus as daughters, and yet they never defend Paro from hurt or harm. They just do pooja all day, and expect everything to be all right. They have not one ounce of courage or respect for their daughter-in-law. At least kamal had the ability to stand up to his elder sister and protect his bhabhi no matter what...and Shruti and Gayatri too...
I guess what Pallavi has always said is true then, that rishte, naate, apnaapan aur sanskaar sirf khokle shabd hai, jinka asal zindagi mein koi matlab nahi. Koi kisika apna nahi hota...achche waqt mein sab apne hote hai, aur bure waqt mein insaan akela hota hai.
Thanks for reading my rant!