Veena Sippy - Disgusting!

Wow, I don't even know where to begin. I used to laud her as this progressive, open-minded woman who didn't behave like typical MILs with her bahu. But after today's episode, I am left dumbstruck and enraged. She is no different than every other misogynistic person in this society who always blames the "other woman", and refuses to accept that her laadla beta is equally to blame. It is because of these women that patriarchal notions are propagated and reinforced generation after generation in our society. It is because of these women that men feel entitled to whatever their heart desires, and don't understand boundaries. It is because of these women who protect their husbands and sons at any cost, that so much violence and abuse against women is normalized.

Sonakshi is beyond redemption now. She has willfully become a doormat of the finest quality. She allows people to walk all over her, dump their bullshit and then proceeds to justify it. She is everything a woman should never be - naive, spineless and a people-pleaser. Yes, compromise and adjustment is important in marriage but so is your self-respect and dignity. She has lost all of that in her quest for validation from assholes like Naren Sippy and Veena Sippy. The worst bit is that young girls watch shows like this and aspire to become like FLs, because all their actions are shown in a positive light. This is really disappointing.

Rohit - I don't know what to say. I said most of what I feel in my previous post. I feel he should just tyag everything else and go sit in his mother's lap. His support to Sona is conditional, and that's not how a marriage works. If I was in Sona's place, I would have walked out with all my bag and baggage long time ago.

Really sad after watching today's episode.

Originally posted by: justlife

Wow, I don't even know where to begin. I used to laud her as this progressive, open-minded woman who didn't behave like typical MILs with her bahu. But after today's episode, I am left dumbstruck and enraged. She is no different than every other misogynistic person in this society who always blames the "other woman", and refuses to accept that her laadla beta is equally to blame. It is because of these women that patriarchal notions are propagated and reinforced generation after generation in our society. It is because of these women that men feel entitled to whatever their heart desires, and don't understand boundaries. It is because of these women who protect their husbands and sons at any cost, that so much violence and abuse against women is normalized.

Sonakshi is beyond redemption now. She has willfully become a doormat of the finest quality. She allows people to walk all over her, dump their bullshit and then proceeds to justify it. She is everything a woman should never be - naive, spineless and a people-pleaser. Yes, compromise and adjustment is important in marriage but so is your self-respect and dignity. She has lost all of that in her quest for validation from assholes like Naren Sippy and Veena Sippy. The worst bit is that young girls watch shows like this and aspire to become like FLs, because all their actions are shown in a positive light. This is really disappointing.

Rohit - I don't know what to say. I said most of what I feel in my previous post. I feel he should just tyag everything else and go sit in his mother's lap. His support to Sona is conditional, and that's not how a marriage works. If I was in Sona's place, I would have walked out with all my bag and baggage long time ago.

Really sad after watching today's episode.

Yes regressive shows like this do that to young minds showing mindless sacrifice as the best quality

Originally posted by: justlife

Wow, I don't even know where to begin. I used to laud her as this progressive, open-minded woman who didn't behave like typical MILs with her bahu. But after today's episode, I am left dumbstruck and enraged. She is no different than every other misogynistic person in this society who always blames the "other woman", and refuses to accept that her laadla beta is equally to blame. It is because of these women that patriarchal notions are propagated and reinforced generation after generation in our society. It is because of these women that men feel entitled to whatever their heart desires, and don't understand boundaries. It is because of these women who protect their husbands and sons at any cost, that so much violence and abuse against women is normalized.

Sonakshi is beyond redemption now. She has willfully become a doormat of the finest quality. She allows people to walk all over her, dump their bullshit and then proceeds to justify it. She is everything a woman should never be - naive, spineless and a people-pleaser. Yes, compromise and adjustment is important in marriage but so is your self-respect and dignity. She has lost all of that in her quest for validation from assholes like Naren Sippy and Veena Sippy. The worst bit is that young girls watch shows like this and aspire to become like FLs, because all their actions are shown in a positive light. This is really disappointing.

Rohit - I don't know what to say. I said most of what I feel in my previous post. I feel he should just tyag everything else and go sit in his mother's lap. His support to Sona is conditional, and that's not how a marriage works. If I was in Sona's place, I would have walked out with all my bag and baggage long time ago.

Really sad after watching today's episode.

Exactly ..actually sxcums like Veena do more damage to women than men like Rohan and naren bcos sxcums like her are ready to support these men and blame other women

I so agree with you

These women are more dangerous than the abusive men...

These wombs are to be blamed !! And the upbringing too!!

It’s the irony of the world that where u fail, u accuse the others in the world !!

Like she failed as a mother, instead of being shameful of that.. she found a means to shift the responsibility on Suman !! Bravo!! Great way of supporting ur daughter in law - bullshit!!

Originally posted by: justlife

Wow, I don't even know where to begin. I used to laud her as this progressive, open-minded woman who didn't behave like typical MILs with her bahu. But after today's episode, I am left dumbstruck and enraged. She is no different than every other misogynistic person in this society who always blames the "other woman", and refuses to accept that her laadla beta is equally to blame. It is because of these women that patriarchal notions are propagated and reinforced generation after generation in our society. It is because of these women that men feel entitled to whatever their heart desires, and don't understand boundaries. It is because of these women who protect their husbands and sons at any cost, that so much violence and abuse against women is normalized.

Sonakshi is beyond redemption now. She has willfully become a doormat of the finest quality. She allows people to walk all over her, dump their bullshit and then proceeds to justify it. She is everything a woman should never be - naive, spineless and a people-pleaser. Yes, compromise and adjustment is important in marriage but so is your self-respect and dignity. She has lost all of that in her quest for validation from assholes like Naren Sippy and Veena Sippy. The worst bit is that young girls watch shows like this and aspire to become like FLs, because all their actions are shown in a positive light. This is really disappointing.

Rohit - I don't know what to say. I said most of what I feel in my previous post. I feel he should just tyag everything else and go sit in his mother's lap. His support to Sona is conditional, and that's not how a marriage works. If I was in Sona's place, I would have walked out with all my bag and baggage long time ago.

Really sad after watching today's episode.

This I don't agree with u ..shouting in rage is common and u should not take those words at heart .when he calmed down he started searching for Rohan ..I don't think his support to Sona is conditional as of now

In future CV will def butcher his character to.make Sona a victim and get sympathy

Originally posted by: sajinifaby

I so agree with you

These women are more dangerous than the abusive men...

These wombs are to be blamed !! And the upbringing too!!

It’s the irony of the world that where u fail, u accuse the others in the world !!

Like she failed as a mother, instead of being shameful of that.. she found a means to shift the responsibility on Suman !! Bravo!! Great way of supporting ur daughter in law - bullshit!!

👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

All Sippys are a bunch of hypocrites, misogynist regressive fools and Sona has also become one of them now.

I applaud Suman for giving it back to them in front of everyone. Sona also deserves what Suman said in precap. What kind of woman she is? Veena can not come and slap Pari , She should control her own son. What a moron Veena is.

Originally posted by: justlife

Wow, I don't even know where to begin. I used to laud her as this progressive, open-minded woman who didn't behave like typical MILs with her bahu. But after today's episode, I am left dumbstruck and enraged. She is no different than every other misogynistic person in this society who always blames the "other woman", and refuses to accept that her laadla beta is equally to blame. It is because of these women that patriarchal notions are propagated and reinforced generation after generation in our society. It is because of these women that men feel entitled to whatever their heart desires, and don't understand boundaries. It is because of these women who protect their husbands and sons at any cost, that so much violence and abuse against women is normalized.

Sonakshi is beyond redemption now. She has willfully become a doormat of the finest quality. She allows people to walk all over her, dump their bullshit and then proceeds to justify it. She is everything a woman should never be - naive, spineless and a people-pleaser. Yes, compromise and adjustment is important in marriage but so is your self-respect and dignity. She has lost all of that in her quest for validation from assholes like Naren Sippy and Veena Sippy. The worst bit is that young girls watch shows like this and aspire to become like FLs, because all their actions are shown in a positive light. This is really disappointing.

Rohit - I don't know what to say. I said most of what I feel in my previous post. I feel he should just tyag everything else and go sit in his mother's lap. His support to Sona is conditional, and that's not how a marriage works. If I was in Sona's place, I would have walked out with all my bag and baggage long time ago.

Really sad after watching today's episode.

I would like to speak about the need for validation, something which is very very common in married Indian women. I have spoken about it in a previous post. Yes Sona is a people pleaser and wishes to be loved and accepted by everyone in her sasural to the extent that she is willing to give her job (a big part of her identity) to keep them happy and keep the peace in the house. To hell with the fact that she and her mother worked hard and long to reach this position. As long as we women keep looking for approval and validation from our inlaws, we will always be setting boundaries and limits for ourselves. We women are ourselves responsible for all these restrictions imposed on us. The day we let go of the need to be accepted and liked by all, that is the day we will be free to pursue what we want and live our lives the way we want to. After all, don't men have this freedom? I dont think any man worries if his in laws will like him or not. He just assumes that they will 😆 And in most cases that's how it is. Men get accepted so easily especially with the Indian mindset of treating the boy's family as superior to the girl's family.

I personally never craved for acceptance from everyone in my husband's family and I can say it's a very liberating feeling. If someone liked me , great. If someone didn't, thats also fine. We can just aim to be cordial with each other. Everything doesnt have to be hum saath saath hain type of perfect family setting.

That is why I don't really feel sorry for Sona. People will treat you the way you allow yourself to be treated.

Originally posted by: kar08

I would like to speak about the need for validation, something which is very very common in married Indian women. I have spoken about it in a previous post. Yes Sona is a people pleaser and wishes to be loved and accepted by everyone in her sasural to the extent that she is willing to give her job (a big part of her identity) to keep them happy and keep the peace in the house. To hell with the fact that she and her mother worked hard and long to reach this position. As long as we women keep looking for approval and validation from our inlaws, we will always be setting boundaries and limits for ourselves. We women are ourselves responsible for all these restrictions imposed on us. The day we let go of the need to be accepted and liked by all, that is the day we will be free to pursue what we want and live our lives the way we want to. After all, don't men have this freedom? I dont think any man worries if his in laws will like him or not. He just assumes that they will 😆 And in most cases that's how it is. Men get accepted so easily especially with the Indian mindset of treating the boy's family as superior to the girl's family.

I personally never craved for acceptance from everyone in my husband's family and I can say it's a very liberating feeling. If someone liked me , great. If someone didn't, thats also fine. We can just aim to be cordial with each other. Everything doesnt have to be hum saath saath hain type of perfect family setting.

That is why I don't really feel sorry for Sona. People will treat you the way you allow yourself to be treated.

Agreed. I don't feel sorry for Sona, I feel frustrated about how she's allowing herself to be treated. That said, I feel even more angry at Rohit for playing the hot-and-cold game with her time and again.

Originally posted by: kar08

I would like to speak about the need for validation, something which is very very common in married Indian women. I have spoken about it in a previous post. Yes Sona is a people pleaser and wishes to be loved and accepted by everyone in her sasural to the extent that she is willing to give her job (a big part of her identity) to keep them happy and keep the peace in the house. To hell with the fact that she and her mother worked hard and long to reach this position. As long as we women keep looking for approval and validation from our inlaws, we will always be setting boundaries and limits for ourselves. We women are ourselves responsible for all these restrictions imposed on us. The day we let go of the need to be accepted and liked by all, that is the day we will be free to pursue what we want and live our lives the way we want to. After all, don't men have this freedom? I dont think any man worries if his in laws will like him or not. He just assumes that they will 😆 And in most cases that's how it is. Men get accepted so easily especially with the Indian mindset of treating the boy's family as superior to the girl's family.

I personally never craved for acceptance from everyone in my husband's family and I can say it's a very liberating feeling. If someone liked me , great. If someone didn't, thats also fine. We can just aim to be cordial with each other. Everything doesnt have to be hum saath saath hain type of perfect family setting.

That is why I don't really feel sorry for Sona. People will treat you the way you allow yourself to be treated.

Even I behave like u .married for 15 yrs