He has displayed qualities of being a typical chauvinist even before. This isn't the first time. Why the hell is he berating Sona for her family's actions and choices? How is she to blame? The only thing she is to blame for is hiding why she withdrew 1crore. Nothing else. We keep going on and on about how Sona is behaving like Parvati and trying to do right by everyone. But has anyone else noticed how Rohit reacts and demeans her every time she displays even the slightest of flaws? makes the smallest of errors in regard to his family? It's almost as though he wants her to be Parvati, but only with the qualities that he wants. This is absolutely ridiculous.
He got pissed at her because her mom insulted his mom! What is it with him and his mother? It's as if the umbilical cord is still very much intact. He's a momma's boy through and through. Kitna mummy mummy karega yaar 24/7. Whatever happened between the two ladies, its between two adults who can sort out their issues themselves. Rohit's mom isn't a child who needs protection at the drop of a hat. He has no business getting involved between them unless the altercation becomes abusive. Even Veena has made outrageous demands to Suman in the past, that too, was disrespectful IMO. On top of that, he's shouting at Sona about how he can't tolerate if someone insults his mother! Excuse me, is your mom mother India? Why should the entire universe bow down in front of her? People can have their qualms with her and she can deal with them too! How about he apologize to Sona for all the disrespect his family dished out to her ever since she stepped into the house? Enough with the Sippy superiority complex!
The fact is, the only way to have a happy, healthy marriage is not let your respective families become the reason for your fights. The moment you start fighting on their behalf, you forget that your spouse and you are a team - one unit. If you let your families separate you, then your marriage won't last for very long. One thing I've learnt over the course of time is this - in a marriage, you always remember that you are on the same side! don't fight other people's battles, especially your parents. What they do is their responsibility and not yours. Even if it's a joint family, its important to create your own space where your marriage can bloom.
I am sick of Rohit constantly fighting on behalf of his mother. He is a grown man and she is a grown woman. Please fight your own battles. I completely disagree with Rohit when he says that his mom is his priority. Sona deserves to be his top most priority now. She is the one he will create a family with. Not his mother. And if he's so obsessed with his mother then he never should have gotten married. Baitho apni mummy ki god mein zindagi bhar.
End of rant.
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