WTF, Rohit?

He has displayed qualities of being a typical chauvinist even before. This isn't the first time. Why the hell is he berating Sona for her family's actions and choices? How is she to blame? The only thing she is to blame for is hiding why she withdrew 1crore. Nothing else. We keep going on and on about how Sona is behaving like Parvati and trying to do right by everyone. But has anyone else noticed how Rohit reacts and demeans her every time she displays even the slightest of flaws? makes the smallest of errors in regard to his family? It's almost as though he wants her to be Parvati, but only with the qualities that he wants. This is absolutely ridiculous.

He got pissed at her because her mom insulted his mom! What is it with him and his mother? It's as if the umbilical cord is still very much intact. He's a momma's boy through and through. Kitna mummy mummy karega yaar 24/7. Whatever happened between the two ladies, its between two adults who can sort out their issues themselves. Rohit's mom isn't a child who needs protection at the drop of a hat. He has no business getting involved between them unless the altercation becomes abusive. Even Veena has made outrageous demands to Suman in the past, that too, was disrespectful IMO. On top of that, he's shouting at Sona about how he can't tolerate if someone insults his mother! Excuse me, is your mom mother India? Why should the entire universe bow down in front of her? People can have their qualms with her and she can deal with them too! How about he apologize to Sona for all the disrespect his family dished out to her ever since she stepped into the house? Enough with the Sippy superiority complex!

The fact is, the only way to have a happy, healthy marriage is not let your respective families become the reason for your fights. The moment you start fighting on their behalf, you forget that your spouse and you are a team - one unit. If you let your families separate you, then your marriage won't last for very long. One thing I've learnt over the course of time is this - in a marriage, you always remember that you are on the same side! don't fight other people's battles, especially your parents. What they do is their responsibility and not yours. Even if it's a joint family, its important to create your own space where your marriage can bloom.

I am sick of Rohit constantly fighting on behalf of his mother. He is a grown man and she is a grown woman. Please fight your own battles. I completely disagree with Rohit when he says that his mom is his priority. Sona deserves to be his top most priority now. She is the one he will create a family with. Not his mother. And if he's so obsessed with his mother then he never should have gotten married. Baitho apni mummy ki god mein zindagi bhar.

End of rant.

Originally posted by: justlife

He has displayed qualities of being a typical chauvinist even before. This isn't the first time. Why the hell is he berating Sona for her family's actions and choices? How is she to blame? The only thing she is to blame for is hiding why she withdrew 1crore. Nothing else. We keep going on and on about how Sona is behaving like Parvati and trying to do right by everyone. But has anyone else noticed how Rohit reacts and demeans her every time she displays even the slightest of flaws? makes the smallest of errors in regard to his family? It's almost as though he wants her to be Parvati, but only with the qualities that he wants. This is absolutely ridiculous.

He got pissed at her because her mom insulted his mom! What is it with him and his mother? It's as if the umbilical cord is still very much intact. He's a momma's boy through and through. Kitna mummy mummy karega yaar 24/7. Whatever happened between the two ladies, its between two adults who can sort out their issues themselves. Rohit's mom isn't a child who needs protection at the drop of a hat. He has no business getting involved between them unless the altercation becomes abusive. Even Veena has made outrageous demands to Suman in the past, that too, was disrespectful IMO. On top of that, he's shouting at Sona about how he can't tolerate if someone insults his mother! Excuse me, is your mom mother India? Why should the entire universe bow down in front of her? People can have their qualms with her and she can deal with them too! How about he apologize to Sona for all the disrespect his family dished out to her ever since she stepped into the house? Enough with the Sippy superiority complex!

The fact is, the only way to have a happy, healthy marriage is not let your respective families become the reason for your fights. The moment you start fighting on their behalf, you forget that your spouse and you are a team - one unit. If you let your families separate you, then your marriage won't last for very long. One thing I've learnt over the course of time is this - in a marriage, you always remember that you are on the same side! don't fight other people's battles, especially your parents. What they do is their responsibility and not yours. Even if it's a joint family, its important to create your own space where your marriage can bloom.

I am sick of Rohit constantly fighting on behalf of his mother. He is a grown man and she is a grown woman. Please fight your own battles. I completely disagree with Rohit when he says that his mom is his priority. Sona deserves to be his top most priority now. She is the one he will create a family with. Not his mother. And if he's so obsessed with his mother then he never should have gotten married. Baitho apni mummy ki god mein zindagi bhar.

End of rant.

I told already CV will butcher Rohit character ..to show Sona as mahaan

Cing go.sipph family it's the worst family where every one lies to.another person ..hubby wives cheat on each other lie to each other easily including Sona rohith

Completely agree! I have tried to be positive about rohit's character and I actually appreciated how much support he has shown to Sona throughout whenever someone pointed a finger at his wife. But all that just fades away once it comes to his mother. Being respectful and caring about your mother is amazing but blaming your wife for every little issue that HER family brings up and that cause inconvenience for HIS mom is totally not a sign of a man. The way he blamed Sona yesterday, it felt like he doesn't consider suman as his own mother. You're right that he does show the traits of a male chauvinist because he completely disregarded how sonakshi has ALWAYS sacrificed so much for HIS family, does so much for HIS family, considers HIS mom as her OWN. Heck she even embraced that heartless of a father in law as her own dad whereas rohit has hardly shown such sensitivity towards sonakshi's family. Yes, suman has a sharp tongue and sometimes can be very irrational an show impulsive behavior but would rohit react the same way if suman was his own mother? Hell no!

Originally posted by: Mushfika_01

Completely agree! I have tried to be positive about rohit's character and I actually appreciated how much support he has shown to Sona throughout whenever someone pointed a finger at his wife. But all that just fades away once it comes to his mother. Being respectful and caring about your mother is amazing but blaming your wife for every little issue that HER family brings up and that cause inconvenience for HIS mom is totally not a sign of a man. The way he blamed Sona yesterday, it felt like he doesn't consider suman as his own mother. You're right that he does show the traits of a male chauvinist because he completely disregarded how sonakshi has ALWAYS sacrificed so much for HIS family, does so much for HIS family, considers HIS mom as her OWN. Heck she even embraced that heartless of a father in law as her own dad whereas rohit has hardly shown such sensitivity towards sonakshi's family. Yes, suman has a sharp tongue and sometimes can be very irrational an show impulsive behavior but would rohit react the same way if suman was his own mother? Hell no!

Exactly! They're propagating the same old notion of the woman having to make more adjustments and sacrifices post marriage than the man. What changed in Rohit's life? How much adjustment has he made in terms of his routine, his lifestyle, his career? Yet he has the audacity to blame Sona for her family's decisions! Ye kaisa supportive husband hai??

Originally posted by: justlife

Exactly! They're propagating the same old notion of the woman having to make more adjustments and sacrifices post marriage than the man. What changed in Rohit's life? How much adjustment has he made in terms of his routine, his lifestyle, his career? Yet he has the audacity to blame Sona for her family's decisions! Ye kaisa supportive husband hai??

Did Rohit ask sona to make adjustments .she fir a mahaan image resigned her job in fact he opposed her resigning her job ...he is not make chavanistic ..he is just too sensitive when it comes to his mom ..and why should he treat suman as his mom ..he has respect for her .that's enough and why suman came to blame veenareg 1 cr ..shameless suman should first ask sona and clarify right ..

So it is not Rohit fault to blame suman when she just assumed and barges and put up a quarrel with his mom .

It is mahaan Sona mistake for not telling her mom she is withdrawing money ..

Now she will soon lose her bahu position and job also .good result for her mahaan acts .one should be level headed and non intrusive balhu I hope Sona will learn it in a very hard way ..did she ever ask her hubby to both of them go to honeymoon ..naa she mahaan bahu so engrossed in mahaan act ..she deserves what ever happens to her now for her mahaan acts

..Sona will be out of bahu position .if that scum ajit does not open his mouth and accept that it's his mistake

Now Sona for mahaan image hid ajit issue .did Rohit ask her to do that

Rohit is nothing to be blamed .it's natural he suspects Sona told her mom

Now scum ajit should open his mouth ..some one said in forum .ladla is feeling remorse ..he changed blah blah ..now in this circumstances let him prove he is feeling remorse and open his mouth

Veena and suman both behaved like third rated ladies ...defending their children and blaming the other one for the Shane less act

Now will they send rohan out of house for having multiple affairs ..let's see how shameless sippy family is

As suman said sippy are shameless and hypocritic ..but suman also is shameless for defending her daughter

Pari should be sent out of house too ..why suman not revealing that ajit told her and putting Sona marriage at risk..God knows why ..will any mom do it ..

Suddenly CV making suman again bad

Bad good bad ..typical drama OTT ..soap

Hugs to my frnd🤗🤗🤗.i think most of the married woman like us face this 💩💩💩💩

It aches so much when because of the kaand created by so called pati kaey family ,the relationship with not only pati is ruined but also with own parents.

Marriage life itself is 💔💔💔

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

Did Rohit ask sona to make adjustments .she fir a mahaan image resigned her job in fact he opposed her resigning her job ...he is not make chavanistic ..he is just too sensitive when it comes to his mom ..and why should he treat suman as his mom ..he has respect for her .that's enough and why suman came to blame veenareg 1 cr ..shameless suman should first ask sona and clarify right ..

So it is not Rohit fault to blame suman when she just assumed and barges and put up a quarrel with his mom .

It is mahaan Sona mistake for not telling her mom she is withdrawing money ..

Now she will soon lose her bahu position and job also .good result for her mahaan acts .one should be level headed and non intrusive balhu I hope Sona will learn it in a very hard way ..did she ever ask her hubby to both of them go to honeymoon ..naa she mahaan bahu so engrossed in mahaan act ..she deserves what ever happens to her now for her mahaan acts

..Sona will be out of bahu position .if that scum ajit does not open his mouth and accept that it's his mistake

Now Sona for mahaan image hid ajit issue .did Rohit ask her to do that

Rohit is nothing to be blamed .it's natural he suspects Sona told her mom

Now scum ajit should open his mouth ..some one said in forum ..he is guilty ..now in this circumstances let him prove he is guilty and open his mouth

Veena and suman both behaved like third rated ladies ...defending their children and blaming the other one for the Shane less act

Now will they send rohan out of house for having multiple affairs ..let's see how shameless sippy family is

As suman said sippy are shameless and hypocritic ..but suman also is shameless for defending her daughter

Pari should be sent out of house too ..why suman not revealing that ajit told her and putting Sona marriage at risk..God knows why ..will any mom do it ..

Suddenly CV making suman again bad

Bad good bad ..typical drama OTT ..soap

Agree with most everything you have written. Sona interferes too much, she has a heart of gold but needs to know her boundaries. Rohit does support Sona at every turn and his venting once when he initially found Tanya crying could have been understandable except he did not stop and went on and on. He did show restraint at Sona’s house, did not say a word to Pari.
Agree that both women, Suman and Veena, behaved like they were at a fish market. Veena was way off line in berating Pari when she did not bother to question her own erring, cheating offspring. I was actually glad Suman showed the Sippys’ true colors. Naren calling for security was the last straw and Suman announcing to the world that Naren was a cheater made me happy. Puja’s face and the resulting doubt about Sona which is bound to arise in Rohit’s mind are unfortunate but for once the Sippys needed to be taken down several pegs. They are arrogant and condescending, and Naren has humiliated the Rastogis over and over again, especially Sona. I liked that Suman did not hide the fact that Pari had an affair with Rohan, and also liked the fact that she questioned Veena about her parvarish. Except for Rohit, Veena’s boys are not upstanding pillars of society. Suman, for all her loose talk and fiery temper, has done a better job with Sona and Pulkit. Kudos also to Suman for standing by her daughter, she might maar peet Pari in private, but she rightly pointed out that Rohan was at fault.

Veena going on about girls being after rich boys was jarring to the ears. Pari is young and impressionable, and has no bond with Tanya. Rohan is a married man on the way to becoming a dad and he did entice Pari and should have known better than to indulge in this extra marital dalliance. Hats off to Suman Rastogi for spilling the beans today!

Rohit was taken down today and how Agreed he is a human, he has a temper , he was hurting but this same man didnt want his mom to know about his father's ema

..n reacted the opposite with Rohan pari affair ..i wish for once thy showed something sensible ...I wish he analyzed the facts and take Rohan to task first..I wish he understood berating the rastogis by his mom, in this way, was very wrong ..the way his mom could be hurting she and the sippys hurtled pari and suman..I wish he practiced what he preached. After lying so much to sona about pooja/rani drama, he hates sona for hiding truth..things can be settled without raising the voice and not doing loose talk...its a sad day today ...

Suman has acidic tongue , she is abs uncontrollable when anyone raises a finger on her children but she stated facts.. sippys deserve this ...narens truth must come out ..I wanna see veenas face when the truth will sink in..what will she do? Blame that woman for phasaoing her innocent husband?

Marriage never last if any of them gives priority to parents whole day over wife/husband. Here, Rohit 24/7 mumma mumma, your mumma has a husband to protect her, she has a brain to keep her respect intact. If your mom and wife has issue, let them deal with it. You don’t need to shout at your wife for every lil thing, no one can continue with those shitty mummy chant. It's high time ssonakshi stands for herself and let others do their own thing, whole family isn’t her responsibility.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Agree with most everything you have written. Sona interferes too much, she has a heart of gold but needs to know her boundaries. Rohit does support Sona at every turn and his venting once when he initially found Tanya crying could have been understandable except he did not stop and went on and on. He did show restraint at Sona’s house, did not say a word to Pari.
Agree that both women, Suman and Veena, behaved like they were at a fish market. Veena was way off line in berating Pari when she did not bother to question her own erring, cheating offspring. I was actually glad Suman showed the Sippys’ true colors. Naren calling for security was the last straw and Suman announcing to the world that Naren was a cheater made me happy. Puja’s face and the resulting doubt about Sona which is bound to arise in Rohit’s mind are unfortunate but for once the Sippys needed to be taken down several pegs. They are arrogant and condescending, and Naren has humiliated the Rastogis over and over again, especially Sona. I liked that Suman did not hide the fact that Pari had an affair with Rohan, and also liked the fact that she questioned Veena about her parvarish. Except for Rohit, Veena’s boys are not upstanding pillars of society. Suman, for all her loose talk and fiery temper, has done a better job with Sona and Pulkit. Kudos also to Suman for standing by her daughter, she might maar peet Pari in private, but she rightly pointed out that Rohan was at fault.

Veena going on about girls being after rich boys was jarring to the ears. Pari is young and impressionable, and has no bond with Tanya. Rohan is a married man on the way to becoming a dad and he did entice Pari and should have known better than to indulge in this extra marital dalliance. Hats off to Suman Rastogi for spilling the beans today!

I agree with what u said but I don't agree u supporting suman in pari issue

I agree with suman in revealing truth and bringing sippys down

But at the same time why not send pari out of house .what pari did is grave mistake .it's not the mistake u condemn in private and leave at it ..

Both pari and Rohan are equally to.be.blamed..

If my daughter has affair with married man I will send my daughter out of house ..let her lead her life and do what ever sxcum ..but.not in my house

And why suman not revealing ajith told her truth ..she is.not.behavinh.like Sona mom.thsts why i said she became bad again