A little insight from my side

Well hello to everyone reading this. Was a silent reader for sometime in this forum unfortunately the story went downhill completely therefore avoided any discussions but this shutdown news & Ml vs Fl thing going on from few days forced me to come out of my hideout & give my two cents for my mann ki shanti.

So yeah let's Start the topic Gungun vs Anubhav's love & sacrifices.

Although both of them are idiots still I find Gungun's action justified for the reason that whatever stupidities she does atleast she do it out of love to protect Anu & his family,. her intentions are never revengeful or to hurt him(she didn't even hated/accused them after Dr's death) and on the other side all of Anubhav's decisions are outcome of his jealousy, anger, ego & to intentionally hurt gungun to get back at her. He doesn't use his brain has zero trust on gun infact believes Rkc's words more than Gg remember when Rkc instigated him that gg pushed her & during Gg Rv wedding, without any second thought he went on to humiliate gg both the times and lets not forget sangeet night when he was singing praises for his psycho soulmate to be. Kya kaha tha durghatna ghatne se tal gyi.

He is damn possessive that he looses his mind at the sight of Rv near Gg goes in hulk mode assuming the worst things about her, was complaining about gg marrying fraud Rv but what about him living with Rkc who started Gg insult spree from the time she entered & learned about Anugun's marriage being fixed. He knew She wanted to take gg's place in his life, her violent nature slapping gg & all pathetic things she accuses her on daily basis in K house is not hidden from him either still he's ready to move on with this girl (ditching dil wali biwi) but if Gg chose Rv who doesn't even know half the things both villans did than it's a grave sin in Scientist's eyes. What kind of hypocrisy is this? Hates off to his intelligence & selective sanskaars which jumps out of the window where he is allowed to live dual life with two wives but Gg must nibhao all rules of a patnivarta naari.(he used to say no shareef insaan can tolerate if his wife has BF aur ab khud legal biwi k sath rehta hai)

Anubhav's character lacks depth & consistency off late he appears to be very superficial. Knowing how dangerous Rv is his protective streak should have hit autopilot mode itself to save gg from ruining her life. She chose him or not should not be the condition to save her but no he gave up on her immediately after her fake act.

That's why I feel Gg is definitely better in this scenario than Anu who's love & trust shakes easily according to situations. GG's love is selfless protective and Anu's love is possessive, conditional.

Coming to second point Gg's self-sacrificing/self destruction mode which is maha annoying still going by ongoing plot what else can we expect from her.. she can't snatch someone else's husband after maker's declared rkc as legal wife. That's why I don't mind her sacrifice cause she's only getting insulted through this affair & returning what doesn't belong to her is not wrong. she has no haq on scientist as of now.

Btw being sacrificing & forgiving is nothing new it has been Gg's inherent nature since her introduction.. for Bua's sake she ignored Rkc's nonsense and was ready to calloff her wedding when she suspected Akriti loves Anu. It goes overboard now cause she's in guilt trip. But of course there are more reasons

▪︎ The importance of a happy loving family that she values alot as she almost lived a lonely life with a busy workaholic father. Kulshreshtha's (in her eyes) were the perfect they filled that void in her life & than suddenly one horrible night changed everything love turned into hate & she lost everything including her only savior her father. The family who called her Laxmi accuses her to be a homebreaker now. Imagine a 21 year old lonely girl with no parental figure(Bua is useless) torn between love & guilt getting knocked down from every side & than when head of that family threatens to kill himself Its obvious she'll step back because 1)she & Anu both will never want Buddha to harm himself & 2)only ppl with a good heart would not want to be a reason of someone else's misery/hurt anyone or snatch something that doesn't belong to them(giving away Anu thus makes sense).. & yes this differentiates her from Akriti's negative selfish character. She can't jamao haq on Anu because neither he's taking any strong stand nor the family is ready to accept her , putting up a fight now will be of no use, kkis story will become somewhat like Jasmine fateh story in Udaariyan.

▪︎ Also after Dr Rid death Gg lost the only person who loved her unconditionally who was her protector & guiding star in darkness. With him gone she's a complete loner she's an option not anyone's priority now. She's not getting that unconditional love she used to receive earlier but since she understands only that she's giving the same to Anubhav that's how hopelessly she's in love with him to not think about herself selfishly (so unlike Rkc again).

▪︎ And when she confides in the only remaining family member BUA she only receives lengthy dialogs and no help to come out of that problem. Rv blackmailing, sindoor wedding, Mumbai trip even Akriti's selfishness & manipulations before Anukriti marriage Bua knew everything yet did nothing to stop three lives from getting destroyed. She could have done so much to save Gg but she became a useless spectator watching everything from the side.. its sad that nobody considered Gg's mental condition, sometimes as viewer when you look at how her life went upside-down after that party & she ended up alone in a big house your heart goes out for her. The full of life girl Papa ki pari has noone to call her own in the entire world the thought of it is spinechilling. Only a sadist writer can write depressing story like this.

▪︎ Golu chachu & Gg's bond could have been utilized after Dr's exit as they shared a great bond earlier but makers wasted that opportunity as well to isolate gg completely from everyone. With noone to relyupon she follows her heart and heart doesn't know what is wrong what is right.

As for forcing her decisions well Anu himself is an indecisive spineless character who flips sides everyday. He had no courage to accept his mistakes & come clean to his family. Be it marriage or divorce his lives decisions are taken by clown family & he surrender infront of them after a little protest which isn't enough to change their minds. Only time he used his own brain he messed up 3 lives. Married both girls, was chasing gg like roadside Romeo, had full blown affair with her behind his family & legal wife's back & now again don't trust her. All this while this confused prani never mentioned to divorce Rkc & save everyone including himself from torture instead he's ready to take Rkc's responsibility, her presence in his life & bedroom as his wife except Tann Mann which he write off on Gg's name. Shaadi na hui property ka batwara ho gya adha adha share distributed to both biwis. Shows name should be mix of both shows of PH Ek Pati ghum hai 2 biwion ke pyar mein kabhi Gungun kabhi akriti.

Coming to the end of this lonng thread all blame for failure of this hindi version lies on makers & creatives shoulder inko copy karna hi nahi aya. Marathi version is so good I've seen some episodes & here they made it unbearable with too much toxicity. Characters that were liked in original series were turned into mute unimportant sideys & Rkc Rv who had minimalistic value got maximum screen time, and now there is no way to take uturn & save this sinking ship they don'teven look interested in it. Failing the project with pre-prepared story in hand & a really loveable jodi to pull the crowd, whoever took the call to change the theme from romcom to toxicity & negativity winning in the show was overconfident idiot. Ruined a good show.

Story is in loop mode since 4 months. Rkc's truth never got exposed without which story can't move forward. All her crimes were covered up & forgotten they made her like the ideal bahu material for maha sanskari Kshits where all seniors kiss her feets she got legal wives position plus everyone's support gets max ss, better costumes, superior position in the house she can slap gg anytime, insult GC, make kanjoos BP dance on her pinky finger spend money lavishly 2 suhaagraat setup in a family who couldn't afford to buy an inverter before(that scene when Maya came & Sargam brings a hand fan still make me laugh out loud btw she was so right about this fatichar hypocrite family but Ridhu & Asanskari scientist shushed her badly that time).

Any new viewer watching the show will feel Rkc is real fl with the position & ss she has in story & yesha is sidey character you know how Gul sidelined Aditya's role & made Aryan ML opp Imlie,. You never know next big twist can be Anukriti are real endgame.. Anugun wala humare sath mazaak hua tha.

Show is on ventilator breathing it's last and makers are still shoving their favorite most nuisanced written character to our TV screens. There is nobody in their team to knock some sense in their khali dimag that audience watch shows for leads & here these dumb writers turned vamp into lead and demoted actual leads into sinners doing EMA (wo bhi kya do din mein pakde gye) FL on guiltrip crying since 4 months & ML switching between rebellious ashiq to sanskari beta mode every week. How will ppl connect? who will watch such senseless plot? the ff writers here write hundred times better stories.

If this show had research team to collect feedback through sm they could have saved it after shaadi fiasco also by showing anugun marriage legal & proving second invalid.. Rkc's reality getting exposed slowly, Anugun & original golu gang teaming up together chupchup ke romance teasing by Gteam thus bringing back comedy in the show alas they chose the toxic route. Sometimes I wonder did they hired kids to write the story or what.

Anyways lets end it here im feeling embarrassed looking at the size of this thread I wrote an essay all quota of four months is finally out well cheers to those who read it till the end. would love to hear your response. Ignore typos if any I'm too lazy to check now

I agree with your points….. no doubts in it but I feel GG is also as dumb as Anubhav. GG self sacrifice mode doesn’t allow her to. Insult GC and gang who stood by her when she was needed. I heard in one do the threads today that she insulted them.

Anubhav doesnt stick to his words and is manipulated easily and believes what he sees without knowing the other side. He says to BUA right before Mumbai track that he can’t gives the rights of wife to Akriti and then after the track he gives the right. He also tell that till now i was bound to responsibility but now I will carry on with my love and then Mumbai track happens and see all sacrifice and fight GG fought and coming back to lucknow he is gone back to his zimmedari, I mean what the actual fudge is wrong with him. He can’t see that when RV is not good girl and how much her eyes are sad still in anger mode saying that he was cheated and hugs RKC

even i sometimes think, that script is written by some 14-15 yr old newbie writer. there is no plot, no story line. and inke so called twists with so many loopholes.🤢

Anubhav wants best of both worlds. He will never be able to leave his family no matter what he says and he doesn't love GG unconditionally. He wants Akriti to stay in his house while he keeps meeting GG once in a while to have fun and sleep with her and give her promises.

Dr Riddesh wanted someone who would be patient with GG, love her unconditionally, understand her and correct her when she goes wrong, and he does not fit in any of these criteria.

GG is very stupid to destroy her life for someone not worth it, neither Anubhav nor Kshit. Bua is a useless piece of shit so are the Golu gang.

Wish GG let Anubhav go, because he can give her momentary happiness and the shadows of his deeds will always loom over their heads. Gg should move on, start afresh. Anubhav made those decisions, till he doesn't do anything to fix his conditions, he shouldn't even be talking about heartbreaks. He is responsible for every mess he is in and he doesn't take accountability of any.

Wish makers would make GG start her life afresh, she deserves that much atleast. But no, all we get is sindoor shit, pati patni nonsense and benaam sitara crap.

You have Perfectly penned down all the emotions and questions of the fans who have followed the show since day 1. Hope that writers also could get some brains

One thing has to be accepted RKC is a amezing influencer with in a single day whole k family influence by RKC whenever he talked nonsense about gg moron anu belived that we have seen in previous that whenever it comes to gg anu does'nt ude hid high iq he belives in what he hear both of them are idiot's in actual hum maha idiot hai jo yeh serial dekh te hain😉idiot into 300 ...A NAIVE girl and HIGH iq persan can never be cauple not for long. !

U have written exactly my thoughts.I keep on thinking why the makers are still not changing the track,they can show illogical negative tracks but can't show an illogical positive track.In all my before favourite shows none behaved like the makers of this show,whenever the trps were dipping they changed the tracks to the audience liking and the show survived.l loved anugun more than the leads of all my previous shows and this show still has a lot of potential but it seems makers just don't care that's why they are still going in circles.

Your analysis about gungun is exactly what I feel about her.

don't feel embarrassed at all, you've explained your points perfectly. If there are people to get embarrassed here are the makers of this show. They completely destroyed a show that had so much to give. AnuGun were so cute and they deprived us of so many things but most importantly, their life as a married couple. We should call ourselves lucky if they will end the show with the chaotic AnuGun's shaadi and not with GG's entry into k-house with already sindoor and mangalsutra😭

Originally posted by: ridzz91

even i sometimes think, that script is written by some 14-15 yr old newbie writer. there is no plot, no story line. and inke so called twists with so many loopholes.🤢

May be this 14-15yrs old newbie writer used to initially just copy paste from Bengali version to Hindi with small changes..but later got the job of writing full plot and story ..so no consideration of morality ,legality and filled with nibba nibbi dialogs😂

What we all are discussing is totally in vain?GG starting a fresh life without Anubhav.How can this happen in this PH?KKIS and Ghkkpm both the shows have many similarities-

1)Both MLs r utterly n pathetically useless.Pehle toh Virat hi IPS nahi lagta tha par ab Anubhav Babu bhi Scientist mode se stylish mode par chale aaye hain.He doesn't look like scientist anymore wearing weird dresses.Is he now become a BM or what?

2)FLs always on tyaagu mode phir chahe woh Sai ho ya GG(but gg is somehow extreme level tyaag ki devi)

3)Head of the family moreover are totally insane. 4)Sane and normal characters easily dies be it Aaba,Dr. R, Samrat.

5)FLs always have one toxic lovers whereas MLs always have one psychotic lover be it Pakhi/Aakriti.

6)Vamps maha powerful n leads plays actually terrible nd dukhi jeevan nd also commit grave sins.

7)FLs kabhi bhi MLs ko chor kar nayi life start nhi karegi such as Anupama.Agar MLs na mile toh unki yaad mein jeevan kaategi.FLs ko ye PH jyada options deta hi nahi hai.

8) 1st half of the story mein FLs r vibrant, happy,free spirited aur jab se unhe love hua unka saara character arc fuss aur story moreover be like totally fuss.

9)MLs r vaada giving champions but useless in totally following it.Only this is relatable as normal humans also always gives fake promises nd vaadas.and the list is very long so it goes blah blah blah.

KKIS was a total disgrace same as Ghkkpm.

Anubhav n Virat jaise MLs se toh Anupama show mein Vanraj ka character entertaining hai.

GG n Sai pati bhakti mein devoted hai toh unke life ka aur koi motto nhi bacha.Real mein aise coward nd hypocrite heros ko ladkiyaan sabse pehle sideline karti hain. Unhone updated version ki Savitri ko bhi peeche kar rakha hai apne krityo se.

So no respect for any living characters in both the shows and their so called PH nd creative team. Lost all 😭😭😭😭😭hope in both the shows.Simply pukeworthy n total tatti💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩💩.