Anubhav 's insecurity justified?

I know you all will chew me alive 😉 but here I am yet again to put forth my opinion about my boy Annu. See I feel that the guy is not only disappointed but badly hurt as well as feels betrayed because of what he saw. I didn't watch the episode as I am not going to until I see some positivity in this dumb ass show but I read the WU. As per the update it looks like GG, the goddess, called RV to her home at late night as she knew Annu would stop by then. It sounds like she made an offer to marry him and Annu saw them too close to each other. GG wanted to make sure to create a MU in Annu's mind so he could go away and move on! And guess what? That is exactly what happened!!!! Congratulation GG, you succeeded in your stupid plan.

The guy went against the whole family, stood by GG in thick and thin, supported her and her only and still the gal broke his heart. Yes he should be reasonable and think through before making a rash decision but I don't blame him. Where there is love, there is possessiveness and insecurity.

The relationship belongs to both of them and GG solely making decisions is absolutely not acceptable. I have said it multiple times in this forum as well. She should have contacted Annu and talk this through. His happiness is in being with her not being with either family or RKC and GG needs to know this better by now. More importantly, only half of the family is against Anugun and some are on the verge of changing their stand. The family would get over it after some time but NO! GG has to push him towards RKC. Now what if he consumates his marriage with RKC? Scary huh? But what to expect? I am sure he is not going to do it so easily for couple of reasons: 1, he is still sick and needs to recover 2, the wound which GG has given him is too fresh to move on.

Let's hope that either GC and gang or Garima do some magic to repair the damage.

I do understand that he is shattered seeing them together! That is understandable! But why on earth does not talk with her? Doesn't he know that she is scared of RV? Last time she committed suicide rather than getting married to him. Can't he simply use his brain for once atleast to know why she did that? This is what irks me! None of the characters ever try to communicate. Apna hi khayali pulao pakate rehte hain!!!!🤢

Originally posted by: smriti25

I do understand that he is shattered seeing them together! That is understandable! But why on earth does not talk with her? Doesn't he know that she is scared of RV? Last time she committed suicide rather than getting married to him. Can't he simply use his brain for once atleast to know why she did that? This is what irks me! None of the characters ever try to communicate. Apna hi khayali pulao pakate rehte hain!!!!🤢

Agree with you 100% but please understand that he is overwhelmed to see her so up close with RV. Yes, GG did express her fear of RV hurting her but she did not tell him about the blackmail. GG has not been completely transparent about the issues she has with RV. I have a feeling the makers left this part intentionally for this track so either Garima or the doctor can inform Annu.

At the same time Annu also didn't tell her about RV handing him off to terrorists. Now human trafficking is a serious offense which is being ignored here from every front. Not sure why the police would take a statement from Anubhav especially when they know that RV sold Annu to the terrorists. That would send the guy to jail for long time and if it unbailable offense may be gone to jail for a life.

Let's see what happens next but I am not watching any episodes until there are good news.

Have you read analyses written by Cynthia (ReadLo)?

Your way of defending Anubhav is very similar to her.

Even I try to defend Anubhav in the same way.

But,

His mistakes can’t be hidden by Gungun’s mistakes.

That’s why I try to defend Anubhav using ITV logic, which is usually different from real life logic.

So according to ITV, physical intimacy with another person is the worst crime and after that no logic works.
Our logic says how can Anubhav misunderstand that Gungun loves RV when he saw Gungun risked her life to save him?

But according to ITV a heroine can risk her life for love but loses trust if she kisses someone else.

Even in real life if you see your lovers kissing someone else, that also late at night, you will get shocked.

ITV gives very importance to joint families. Rarely hero heroine leaves a joint family and stay happily.

So here they had to show Anubhav coming back to his family.

But creatives can’t keep the lovers away right?

So according to ITV logic Gungun has to win BP’s heart. Because he is the head of that joint family.

I think creatives forgot that Anubhav was not knocked out when RV gave him to the terrorists. So even if Gungun was kissing RV, if Anubhav really loves her, he needs to save her, because RV can sell Gungun to human traffickers just like he sold Anubhav to the terrorists.

Originally posted by: MFRanjini

Have you read analyses written by Cynthia (ReadLo)?

Yes I did and the analysis was very sensational. I was in total agreement with her.

Your way of defending Anubhav is very similar to her.

Even I try to defend Anubhav in the same way.

But,

His mistakes can’t be hidden by Gungun’s mistakes.

That’s why I try to defend Anubhav using ITV logic, which is usually different from real life logic.

So according to ITV, physical intimacy with another person is the worst crime and after that no logic works.
Our logic says how can Anubhav misunderstand that Gungun loves RV when he saw Gungun risked her life to save him?

A doubt was planted in his mind about Gun doing all that for publicity. When you are overly possessive and insecure you lose rational thinking if it makes sense! I too hate how he right away justified RKC's thinking but again he is heart broken and feels betrayed.

But according to ITV a heroine can risk her life for love but loses trust if she kisses someone else.

Technically speaking yes a woman would lose her credibility of claiming to love someone if she kisses someone. However, that didn't even happen. As I stated I have not seen the episode but it looks like he saw them up too close.

Even in real life if you see your lovers kissing someone else, that also late at night, you will get shocked.

Let's put that "kissing" in context, shall we? So if the kissing is on cheeks it can be innocent. But if the kiss is a french kiss then it is not done and is worthy of someone feeling betrayed, especially this guy who fought with every relation he had to save GG's honor. Come on! The relationship belongs to both and hence any decision needs to be from both.

ITV gives very importance to joint families. Rarely hero heroine leaves a joint family and stay happily.

So here they had to show Anubhav coming back to his family.

But creatives can’t keep the lovers away right?

So according to ITV logic Gungun has to win BP’s heart. Because he is the head of that joint family.

I think creatives forgot that Anubhav was not knocked out when RV gave him to the terrorists. So even if Gungun was kissing RV, if Anubhav really loves her, he needs to save her, because RV can sell Gungun to human traffickers just like he sold Anubhav to the terrorists.

See my comments above in your post.

Originally posted by: MFRanjini

according to ITV a heroine can risk her life for love but loses trust if she kisses someone else.

according to ITV logic Gungun has to win BP’s heart.

About Gungun winning BP's heart I don't really agree...the girl has done a lot already for that family be before and now. It's BP that must asking for forgiveness and not just for having made GG agree to this stupid sacrifice act but for having called her names, for having talked bad of her father that let's remember, he regarded as a dear friend. BP has become the biggest villain of the show and it should be him to ask forgiveness first to Gungun and then to Anubhav.

Originally posted by: xChandrax

I agree with the itv logic but...not when the sequence of events happened back to back. From the suicide attempt to the kidnapping to the crucial scene of today, only few days have passed. I can agree with that kind of logic if Ranvijay made a re-entry in the show after a month or two, but not when all the events, promises and confessions of love happened like a day before😳 Makers are mocking audience and characters with this inconsistency.

About Gungun winning BP's heart I don't really agree...the girl has done a lot already for that family be before and now. It's BP that must asking for forgiveness and not just for having made GG agree to this stupid sacrifice act but for having called her names, for having talked bad of her father that let's remember, he regarded as a dear friend. BP has become the biggest villain of the show and it should be him to ask forgiveness first to Gungun and then to Anubhav.

Seems like BP's ego is bigger than any efforts taken by GG to win his heart. In the sense I agree with you. No matter what GG does, BP will be an ahole and will remain so forever unless RKC is exposed and he learns that the horse he bet on cheated all the way!!! Hopefully he will have a heart attack upon learning that and will depart the earth (wishful thinking).

And totally agree with you about the makers taking us for a ride here, therefore i decided not to watch the show until it starts making some sense.

Originally posted by: DeSiPride05

Seems like BP's ego is bigger than any efforts taken by GG to win his heart. In the sense I agree with you. No matter what GG does, BP will be an ahole and will remain so forever unless RKC is exposed and he learns that the horse he bet on cheated all the way!!! Hopefully he will have a heart attack upon learning that and will depart the earth (wishful thinking).

And totally agree with you about the makers taking us for a ride here, therefore i decided not to watch the show until it starts making some sense.

Anubhav needs to leave the nest till family will start to look at things differently and accept their mistakes. Once I said that Gungun can't really do much if the family can't accept her and, I still believe in this. I won't talk about this stupid sacrifice but, what that girl can do to be accepted that she hasn't already done? If not even the efforts she has put to save Anubhav made them open their eyes nothing will work until BP's manipulation will be revealed and Anubhav will cut ties with them.

Its totally unjustified, imo.

Anubhav never really trusted Gungun as such, koz he was, is n shall remain a flipper.

For him, Gungun + Ranvijay = big love, passion n kabhi breakup toh kabhi mohabbat

N its quite hypocrite of him to doubt Gungun's loyalty to him ( this same girl who is wearing his given sindoor, fought against terrorists in a foreign city, starved herself, got slapped in a marathon, n hauled up in free given insults, got humiliated n ousted from hospital, humiliated on stage during a ceremony, bearing taunts of society, etc...)when he, himself, is married to another woman. A woman who lusts after him, a woman obsessed with him. Just how insecure should Gungun feel? Yet, she puts on a brave face n never once questioned him abt his intimate relationship with jhoomar.

It even makes you question yourself abt Anubhav: pyaar hi kahan hai???

Kab hua pyaar? Kaise hua?

For Gungun, she devoted herself n her whole existence in ensuring Anubhav's welfare(be it his job security, his family ties stay strong n even his hollow social marriage with Akriti koz she wants to shield him from legal procedures that Akriti threatened them of)

This same guy was gloating during his sangeet that he is elated he got rid of a nuisance and got his perfect life partner in Akriti. Next day, he married Gungun, n few hours later, his spine melted n he married Akriti too. Then, he started to 'feel' this sense of responsibility towards a nuisance upon the nuisance's dad's demise.

N then he, out of sudden overbrimming pure love, consummated his benaam sitara wala rishta. He had guts to bed his 'wife' of his heart, but no guts enough to come clean with his family. Then he went home, n to pacify his gharwali wife, he promised abt taking her for honeymoon very soon, after his seminar from Mumbai, which he was super excited to spend with his dil wali 'wife'.

So, if he is insecured? No, he's not. He, in fact, needs security. Around him. Above him n below him. A security tape that cry out loud: do not approach. Risk. Danger. Flipper

Originally posted by: mehr05

Its totally unjustified, imo.

Anubhav never really trusted Gungun as such, koz he was, is n shall remain a flipper.

For him, Gungun + Ranvijay = big love, passion n kabhi breakup toh kabhi mohabbat

N its quite hypocrite of him to doubt Gungun's loyalty to him ( this same girl who is wearing his given sindoor, fought against terrorists in a foreign city, starved herself, got slapped in a marathon, n hauled up in free given insults, got humiliated n ousted from hospital, humiliated on stage during a ceremony, bearing taunts of society, etc...)when he, himself, is married to another woman. A woman who lusts after him, a woman obsessed with him. Just how insecure should Gungun feel? Yet, she puts on a brave face n never once questioned him abt his intimate relationship with jhoomar.

It even makes you question yourself abt Anubhav: pyaar hi kahan hai???

Kab hua pyaar? Kaise hua?

For Gungun, she devoted herself n her whole existence in ensuring Anubhav's welfare(be it his job security, his family ties stay strong n even his hollow social marriage with Akriti koz she wants to shield him from legal procedures that Akriti threatened them of)

This same guy was gloating during his sangeet that he is elated he got rid of a nuisance and got his perfect life partner in Akriti. Next day, he married Gungun, n few hours later, his spine melted n he married Akriti too. Then, he started to 'feel' this sense of responsibility towards a nuisance upon the nuisance's dad's demise.

N then he, out of sudden overbrimming pure love, consummated his benaam sitara wala rishta. He had guts to bed his 'wife' of his heart, but no guts enough to come clean with his family. Then he went home, n to pacify his gharwali wife, he promised abt taking her for honeymoon very soon, after his seminar from Mumbai, which he was super excited to spend with his dil wali 'wife'.

So, if he is insecured? No, he's not. He, in fact, needs security. Around him. Above him n below him. A security tape that cry out loud: do not approach. Risk. Danger. Flipper

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