Originally posted by: Meena_J
that is true and i doubt he really means he doesn't care for his father...i think he definitely bears a grudge against his father and probably once thats cleared maybe he wont hold him entirely accountable for the situation and probably would let go of it...i'm not sure if, as a child, he wanted a proper perfect family or what but definitely he doesnt like to talk about his dad much or gets somewhat vexed about this topic...he does appreciate his mother for raising him w/ proper values and to respect both genders whether male or female...
I was referring to Vikram's father not caring much about Vikram and not deeming Vikram good enough to be introduced in society or according Vikram respect - which is what he said to Gunnu when they were talking about the pressure of being perfect and gaining respect in the eyes of Dads. I am not saying he does not care about his dad, ofcourse he does, which is why that still affects him so much. He has had a traumatic childhood for sure tho, coz those feelings were pretty strong indeed.
this part is quite possible because in the initial episodes i dont think we were given a proper back drop as to why he hates his father whether it was MCP or what exactly occurred so i agree if proper backdrop is provided on his part...even jagat has said to try to talk to his father or he can do it on vikram's behalf, but vikram prohibited him from doing so...did his father ditch their mother from personal reasons or what?
To me, it does seem like his father did not agree being in a relationship with such a strong feminist woman and for whatever reasons decided to maybe separate from his mother and Vikram went with his mother in custody while maybe Jagat went with the dad, explaining the vast difference between both their upbringing, logic and him seeing his brother with rose tinted glasses while Jagat is kinda indirectly using him to get his motive.
interesting point...he definitely wants clarification from the opposite person to ensure its clear...yeah, he's blunt but there is a reason behind his bluntness...priyanka told him in person that she doesnt mind dating him ...tbh, i think i like his personality for being blunt and clear in his mind...initially,ill admit we used to think that he's making generalizations such as the face-off scene with dp when garima tried to avert the situation from further escalation but we definitely agreed on the thing that its a play of perception...nobody exactly knows what is going on the other person's mind and he didnt know the actual garima at that point...
Exactly what I'm saying - the reason for being so blunt is the insecurity and being tossed around by his father. Maybe he idolised him and his brother a lot in his childhood and then got pushed away and living in a broken family, he has harboured that way of expressing himself to protect his true self. Gunnu has seen his vulnerability, so he feels comfortable to be himself in her presence while with Pri, Garima and others, he is still mostly his outside controlled self that he wants to portray as strength. It is not about generalising and more about being somewhat formal till he knows he can get personal. But it is slowly coming out with Garima too, and I think the CVs will explore how that becomes their talking point 😊