DOTW:Distances between Dev & Kaajjal

I really felt bad for Dev; he was in a complete mess. He wants to trust kaajjal but the circumstances are not in his errand😭. He even tries to discuss with Kaajjal about his doubts but Kaajjal is never available😡. It is strange that kaajjal is giving so much pain to Dev (unwontedly) and is so unconcerned to his feelings. These days she can't read Dev's mind, she is unable to realize the insecurity that is Dev suffering from because of Adi, and I am finding it really tough to digest. Unknowingly they are building a Great Wall of China in their relationship. 😭😭

Do you think that after DK marriage, Kaajjal is taking Dev's love and trust for granted?

In such circumstances if Dev questions Kaajjal, points at her then will he be wrong? Why or why not? In most of the films/soaps they create such twists, extra marital affairs and all, but when the husband questions his wife, it is like hurting her ego and upbringing as if the guy had comitted a big crime. Why is it ?😕

Kaajjal's intention behind lying to Dev was good, she wants to show her love for him in a special way but if she can ask help from Adi(whoz an outsider) then why can't she ask Veer or Chachi? Should Dev accept it that his wife took help from her boy(Adi) friend to surprise Dev on his birthday?

What do you have to say about Kaajjal "over confidence" and "immaturity"?

last but not the least what are your expectations for this week?😊

I know that all in Kaajals mind, she has only good intentions, she can never even dream about cheating on Dev. She doesn't even have that thought in her, that people may think that. But Dev also isnt wrong for having these questions in his mind. The situations are presented like that, that he can't think of anything else. Also with Shivansh putting more wood into the fire. If it hadn't been for him, Dev wouldnt have even had this doubt in his mind 😡 😡 😡

But right now, more than Shivansh or anyone else, I'm more scared of Adi. He's taking advantage of Kaajals innocence and trust to get closer to her. He's the main reason for the distances between DK. Adi is more mature that Kaajal, he should explain to her, how she is now married, and she should focus more of her time on Dev. Kaajal as we all know, is still very young and naive, she doesnt have a mother figure to explain these, and Adi is taking advantage of that.

Oh Ananya .. Kajjal is too immature to handle a married life i suppose .. she does not know what marriage is all about 😕 She loves Dev like crazy but at the same time feel as though she cannot express well her love for Dev (may be due to shyness after first night 😳 ! )
REally hope Adi goes some where far off for work like Dhruv .. so that Kajjal will have only Dev on her side ! Kajjal can only handle one person at a time ..and 2 is a crowd for her .. so its high time Adi goes for a vaccation !
This week i wish that we get some positive moves .. as you see the TRP'S would go low again if they seperate DK .. so the creatives have to bring in positive situations ..like ...Dev is astonished on seeing the surprise party arranged for him and his love for Kajjal reach heights ! and adi seeing these love birds so deep in love moves off the sight 😳 .

I dont belive in the fact that She donest know how to express her love.She knows that all too well.Aakhir she udaofied dev's izzzt in radio city over the Radio and fought for him all the way.. 😆

Secondly there is only thing in her which irritates .She knows dev is behaving wierdly and how long does should take for her guess that the root of the problem is the name 'A-d-i-t-y-a'Morning and evening does she have to plan the surprise with him of all people??Cant she dev is burning in jealousy? I mean for once the source is not ameesha... 😆

And I dont think dev wants music vidoes dedicated...He justs wants to hear from her how good he is and how much better he is than Adi.(Always learn to massage his ego...)

These are the small problems that occur in every marriage...communication gap .The solution is very simple...DK should go on a honeymoon which they truly deserve!! 😳

I hope both Dk learn from this now...it doesnt snowball into a mojor problem. 👏

Great DTOW Anu. Thanks for the post. 👏 👏 👏

Of course Kaajjal is very immature. Not that she doesn't know the delicate situation. She does know, but taking things for granted. taking Dev's love and trust for granted. she thinks that after all these millions of test that their love has weathered, of course Dev will trust and understand me. Little does she know that a man's ego is a like delicate china.... once a crack appears you could seal it, but the crack always shows..... 😭

A man's ego always needs pandering...And Dev has also hinted to her. But she and her overbearing self, is simply taking it for granted and wishes to and chooses to close her eyes on that and sleep on it....

Well in a new marriage it is natural that this love is needed to be sealed with a lot of love and time for each other. This security is a must for both partners. Here Dev is doing normally what a female does. Waiting for the company of their loved one after marriage. Usually we see it like this, a husband ignores his newly wedded wife as he has other responsibilities and the wife is stuck at home waiting for the honeymoon to be extended never endingly.....

But here its Kaajjal who is doing this and that is not good...not good at all. As when a man's ego bears the brunt... the brunt sure lasts very long... very very long indeed.

Said too much. Well I could pen more... but whats the point. Shreya is blind and well at least I am getting to watch Apu....thats what counts only....... The only treat for me to continue watching..... 😳

Do you think that after DK marriage, Kaajjal is taking Dev's love and trust for granted?

Of course ,she is taking Dev's love for granted😡..common a husband comes back from pardes and all his wife does is sing goat-bhajan 24/7😡...and when she can sense that something is bothering devu then why can't she try to talk to him😡...We can't blame devu..because he tried to speak to her about the matter at night😳 but madam kaajjal was more interested in sleeping😡..subah video album ke shoot mein jo jaana hai😡

In such circumstances if Dev questions Kaajjal, points at her then will he be wrong? Why or why not? In most of the films/soaps they create such twists, extra marital affairs and all, but when the husband questions his wife, it is like hurting her ego and upbringing as if the guy had comitted a big crime. Why is it ?😕

Anuu I think it depends on the situation...Normally when a husband doubts his wife's character for just talking to some stranger or a buddy,it is more of a disease like we saw in films like Sleeping with the Enemy and all its hindi versions....obviously over there the husband was at fault for doubting his wife....But in Kaajjal,the situation is completely different..and Dev is trying his best to keep his faith on his wife😳 but the wife is not allowing him to do so😡...Now which husband will like his newly-wed wife to give more importance to his friend than him😕...Kaajjal refuses to sing a song when dev requestes but she promptly sings when Adi plays the sitar,then when Adi calls up,she is so much emerged in talking to him that she can't even see her husband is waiting for him😡 and most importantly her intention to surprise her husband with a music album on his birthday is not bad at all...but two problems over here...why to LIE To your husband?😡 and why to take the help of an outsides in gifting something to your husband?😡..So after all this if Dev feels insecure and starts doubting his wife,then he is completely justified with his actions😊..Well if dev questions kaajjal now,then kaajjal will definitely feel hurt but then right now she is not realizing the fact that she is burning her own married life with her own hand😡

Kaajjal's intention behind lying to Dev was good, she wants to show her love for him in a special way but if she can ask help from Adi(whoz an outsider) then why can't she ask Veer or Chachi? Should Dev accept it that his wife took help from her boy(Adi) friend to surprise Dev on his birthday?

Exactly my question😡..why to take the help of an outsider in surprising your hubby😕..Over here its the question of a husband's ego😳...Even though I hope Dev accepts Kaajjal's gift and ends this misunderstanding business forever but still I don't think in normal life a husband will feel too happy with such a gift where an outsider is involved

What do you have to say about Kaajjal "over confidence" and "immaturity"?

I think Kaajjal is definitely over-confident ...she is not realizing the fact that in a husband-wife relationship ,..understanding is very important and for that she needs to spend more time with her hubby😳..her hubby will b more happy if she gifts a simple candle-light dinner to him on his birthday😳 or spends some quality time with him😳..rather than doing all this gaana-bajana as the surprise gift

last but not the least what are your expectations for this week?😊

This Week I expect from Kaajjal to clear all the doubts created in dev's mind by that Shivaansh monkey😡...and she should spend more quality time with devu😳...forget the goat all this gaana-bajana non-sense😡..but I know this won't happen😭...and DK will hv a big argument which might lead to some temporary separation

Originally posted by: Ananya_A

I really felt bad for Dev; he was in a complete mess. He wants to trust kaajjal but the circumstances are not in his errand😭. He even tries to discuss with Kaajjal about his doubts but Kaajjal is never available😡. It is strange that kaajjal is giving so much pain to Dev (unwontedly) and is so unconcerned to his feelings. These days she can't read Dev's mind, she is unable to realize the insecurity that is Dev suffering from because of Adi, and I am finding it really tough to digest. Unknowingly they are building a Great Wall of China in their relationship. 😭😭

Do you think that after DK marriage, Kaajjal is taking Dev's love and trust for granted?

kaajjal is taking devu for granted...not just devu but GB, SPji...everyone who loves her and spoiled her so far...

devu rescued her so many times from trouble...gave her a job when she was a townie he believed in her abilities and brought her to mumbai...he always beleived her when no one did...gave her confidence boosters....but each time she misunderstood him, his intentions and all that...

the only thing which made her lovable was her innocence, her naiviety was her age and being cossetted by doting family, protected environment, her bubbliness her love for life and boldness...she was the only one who refused to beleive he was dead...she went to madh house and rescued him when he was in pain...she daringly rescued him at the cliff...always her heart on the sleeve...until the mahadash and breaking off with dev her prioirtes were fine....not anymore

now that she has achieved her grande mission of becoming mrs Kaajjal Dev Pratap singh...she has arrived...now she doesnt need him anymore...does she...i hope not..or thats what shreya has made her... a shallow, person who lives in her cuckooland...if she was the slighest worried why did dev come to the recording studio....why is he so distant....se wouldnt have slept like a baby......while he was tortured...like that...she wouldne be sayin...oh i ope not he finds out about the album...as if thats why he wasted prevcious time to come to the studio....

this kaajjal is stranger...which kaajjal are you talking about...the ole one died in devs accident i feel...

In such circumstances if Dev questions Kaajjal, points at her then will he be wrong? Why or why not? In most of the films/soaps they create such twists, extra marital affairs and all, but when the husband questions his wife, it is like hurting her ego and upbringing as if the guy had comitted a big crime. Why is it ?😕

kaajjal cannot handled being challenged...these days....and ..her ego is too big... she cant handle rejection.either....this is the new genX...kkusumish Kaajal who thinks he is better than scotland yard and CID put together....she doesnt have any faults only devu does...uska gussa....madam aapka bhi kuch kam nahin...kabhi apne ttaraf bhi dekhophursat mile toh apne rockstar se..

she thinks she did a mahaan act by marrying him after...agreeing with her new...pardner...adi to not to marry him...the new kaajjal remembers the hurt dev gave her not the times DEv was the only one who stood by her, loved her or accepted her....

which other man would have accpeted a woman who has stayed with a gaair for 4 weeks as his wife...but he did...and this is what he gets in return...

marriage is a partnerdhip...total committment not blind faith....it is a lot of hard work...especially with a couple like dev-kaajal who havent spent enuf time together....whi have just seen seperation pain and doubts....

also circumstances have played an important role in fuelling this misunderstanding....

just when their love was blossoming - mahadasha happens and the proposal turns into a nasty hotel scene.....just when....that scene clears...death looms large.....just when....fears over death are overcome.....accident and eveil intentions break them up....just when....they meet again...ugly doubts and fears resurface....and another nasty incident....more doubts....anger hatred....is hurled....just when anger subsides.....one one side....the other suffers a ML.....just as the ML clears....there are more doubts,....guilt....hurt.....and the wedding a hasty...patch up...barely they spend one nite and they are seperated by...fate again....

so when a couple is so unsettled, filled with insecurities, unanswered questions, doubts, (the only thing i agreed with kajus diag on tues was -halaat se ladthe ladthe waqt hi nahin milaa....kehne,...kitna pyaar hai) maybe she ought to put it in action too..aprt from speeches...

and devu....should not fall into the trap of his past insecurities...and fears .....of how people let him down...he should give her a slap and demand...what the hell is goin on....if she is immature that slap will sort her out....😆

and then hug her tight so that she gets another ML about Adi and take her for a long honeymoon at least a mnth where no goats and lizards can go...and all prob will be solved...😳

Kaajjal's intention behind lying to Dev was good, she wants to show her love for him in a special way but if she can ask help from Adi(whoz an outsider) then why can't she ask Veer or Chachi? Should Dev accept it that his wife took help from her boy(Adi) friend to surprise Dev on his birthday?

intentions are always good...but is dev now supposed to be a mind reader.....how much time has he spent with madam...since he arrived from london hes jut doing a rescue act- press conference, ameesha, then ,,,...goes on...does she have one min for him...he asks her out to lunch...and what....adi...is imp...

only when madam feels like it....she will spedn wuality time with him....accha toh batao...dev...tum hara din kaisa raha...qakh...theek rahega...even when she was his employee she respected him lot morewas alwasy waiting for his one jhalak😕

un dino if he asked her out even by mistake uske toh hosh udd jaathe the....poora din she used to wait for that moment....dreaming...😕

What do you have to say about Kaajjal "over co...nfidence" and "immaturity"?

she was always immature and overconfident.....even in ole days...but her other qualities saved her aprt from dev...her knight in shinning armour..😆

nowadays i'd call it arrogance, self centeredness and a certain compacency which come when you take someone for granted....

last but not the least what are your expectations for this week?😊

my expectations - none....i have posted my share of the predictions...for me the week will be worthwhile if they end adi track without hurting dev anymore than he is.😭..bass yehi hi umeed hai...baakhi saare...sapnay, umeed kaju ki nahin rahi...i want myole kaju back...until then this new stranger is a stranger to me...

sammy😕

Do you think that after DK marriage, Kaajjal is taking Dev's love and trust for granted?

Kaajjal is shown from the beginning of the serial as quite an innocent, yet stupid girl. She doesn't really understand what goes on in the minds of others. 😆

Right now, Kaajjal just want to make Dev happy and she surely is trying for it. She is doing everything she can to make him happy. The only thing is that, she is not trying to find out what would make her husband happy. 😭

Dev would be happy, if Kaajjal stops increasing the doubt in his mind. Only when the mind is peaceful will there be romance and happiness. But Kaajjal is not realising that Adi is the one who is the thorn in the skin. 😆 Kaajjal is thinking that Dev trusts her totally now and therefore, he doesn't mind her intimacy to Adi. But what Dev is unable to tell her openly..she is not understanding. 😭

Kaajjal is so stupid that..Dev will have to tell her literally..Look Kaajjal, its ok that Adi is your friend, but i don't like you mingling with him this much. 😆

Dev won't say these literally to Kaajjal, because he is afraid that Kaajjal would get upset if he says this openly. Dev want to trust her completely, but what is upsetting him is her intimacy to Adi.

Kaajjal is surely taking Dev's love for granted..because she feels that Dev now totally trusts her and at this point, she doesn't have to do anything more to keep the love intact. She is thinking that as a wife, she just needs to cook for him, do household work, please his family members and sleep with him. But what she is not understanding is that, there is more than all these which a husband expects from a wife.

If Kaajjal had sung when Dev asked him to do..then surely he wouldn't have had any doubts in her. But when she didn't sing and listened to the words of Adi and sang the song..then that hurt Dev. Kaajjal doesn't understand that Dev is going through all this pain and sadly he cannot say about it to Kaajjal.

Trust is like a plant..just because you have put the seeds and watered it...it won't grow up into a tree..Trust needs to be nurtured and we have to contribute to making it stronger. Else trust will start withering off. 😕

Dev and Kaajjal are newly-wed and they haven't been together enough to have a solid trust. The foundation of their mutual trust and understanding needs to be made strong and for that Kaajjal will have to start paying attention to their relationship.


In such circumstances if Dev questions Kaajjal, points at her then will he be wrong? Why or why not? In most of the films/soaps they create such twists, extra marital affairs and all, but when the husband questions his wife, it is like hurting her ego and upbringing as if the guy had comitted a big crime. Why is it ?

Dev is a sensitive person and he is feeling really bad seeing his wife all the time speaking about another man..though in her mind, he is just a friend. Dev is trying to trust her and as he doesn't want to hurt Kaajjal's feelings, he is trying to not make it clear and also to try and find out what is going on in Kaajjal's mind.

Dev is also a straightforward person and that is why, he is throwing hints at Kaajjal..firstly by asking her if she is doing the puja for Adi's bail or for his success...then by asking her if she loves him and also holding her hand with so much of passion... then speaking sarcastically to Adi clearly indicating his dislike for Adi.

But Kaajjal though she noticed all this...is still thinking that Dev trusts her blindly and maybe he is behaving so because of some work tension.

Anu, not just in movies and soaps, but in real life too, men and women tend to doubt each other. Because every person want to know how much his/her partner loves him/her. It is quite natural and Dev is getting all these doubts, because firstly Kaajjal married him only due to Adi's insistence. Secondly, he is feeling that Kaajjal is too busy worried about Adi and not even taking some time to spend with him, which is quite unnatural.

I feel that Dev is totally justified in having this mental dilemma..Take for instance, you marry the guy you love a lot...you don't get to spend some time with him, because he is busy on a business trip somewhere and then when he returns, he is all the time speaking about the female college friend he met and he also says about him working with this lady on some project. So he continues to speak about her and about how talented she is...how smart she is...how capable she is...

Just imagine if your husband behaves like that...eventhough you don't doubt him, but still you will feel bad...that he is complimenting another lady, while not even thinking about you. 😳

So if women will have such doubts...men too are not different. Right now Dev is this totally loyal and dedicated husband who want to spend a lot of his time with his wife, because they got married recently. Inspite of his official work he is taking out time to call her up..and invite her for lunch.. and she is not having time to spend with him...not due to professional reasons..but just because she is with another friend of hers. Won't any husband feel bad if such a thing happens? That is what is happening exactly with Dev too and i feel that he is not wrong, if he is feeling so bad..because when he is giving his 100% to his marriage, Kaajjal should also be contributing her maximum to build their relationship. 😳



Kaajjal's intention behind lying to Dev was good, she wants to show her love for him in a special way but if she can ask help from Adi(whoz an outsider) then why can't she ask Veer or Chachi? Should Dev accept it that his wife took help from her boy(Adi) friend to surprise Dev on his birthday?

Anu,yaar, actually Kaajjal intentions are good and she took Adi's help maybe because she want to surprise everybody including Dev's family and maybe that's why she is not involving Veer and Panna Chachi and also Veer is busy with his work and project and Panna Chachi won't be able to do much help in making a video album.

Adi is a musician and because he is related to music and her plan is to make a music video, she thought to contact him. Firstly he is her friend and secondly she feels that Dev trusts her blindly and understands the purity of her relationship to Aditya.

Dev will surely accept it when Kaajjal says that she had to take the help from Adi to make the album. I don't feel he will mind...but he will get totally bugged up, if Kaajjal starts praising Adi there and says that 'oh how wonderful a person Adi is...if it was not for him..i wouldn't be able to surprise you, Dev'. If she praises Adi in front of Dev at that point, then Dev would surely get dull once again and all the grace of the gift he got will be gone. 😭

If Kaajjal gifts the video..without praising Adi too much, then it would be ok. Otherwise, surely Dev would get bugged up and his insecurity will increase.

What do you have to say about Kaajjal "over confidence" and "immaturity"?

Kaajjal is from the beginning shown as quite a foolish girl, when it comes to understanding others' feelings. She wants everything to happen as she likes and if it doesn't happen she gets all irritated. Kaajjal surely is ruining her married life with Dev, being overconfident and immature...and that is going to help Shivansh in taking the revenge over her. Its all her basic nature and it cannot be changed, so it is now upto Dev to understand it and he will have to try and trust her..though it would be really very hard. 😆 😳



last but not the least what are your expectations for this week?

I just expect that Kaajjal won't praise Adi too much in front of Dev and just hope that Dev won't go through too much of pain. I know that these are huge expectations regarding the track which Shreya's are going to follow...because they are now going to use Adi as the arrow and Shivansh as the bow, to shoot the arrow of doubt and insecurity into the mind of Dev and cause DK separation.

Adi is here to stay for a long time, specially from what Dev said regarding making him the music director of the programme in Radio City. So it is going to be more pain and separation in the coming weeks...though i just hope that Dev will go through less pain and hope Kaajjal will try to find out, what is bugging up Dev. 😳

Kajju is acting like a premature baby ke aulaad, and it's time she came out of her baby frazzle's world and maintained a distance between her and daadu bakraa!!!

Zareen.

Kajjal is carying more about her friendship then beging a wife thats what i think 😡
i also think DK need to go on a honymoon 😳