Originally posted by: superstar89
Congrats Ahem for being in this weeks hotseat have a great time and I will come with some questions.
Hey superstar,
Thanks a lot and surely put in your questions to me. It would be fun answering them.😳
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Originally posted by: superstar89
Congrats Ahem for being in this weeks hotseat have a great time and I will come with some questions.
Hey superstar,
Thanks a lot and surely put in your questions to me. It would be fun answering them.😳
Originally posted by: maryam4f
Congratulations!!!
My question: Is your IF id your real name? If nto wat does it stand for? 😃
Hey Maryam,
Thanks a lot. No yaar, its not my real name, bhala kisi ka naam ahem brahmasmi ho sakta hai kya?😆
This id is actually a spiritual term in sanskrit. It means 'I am the world' Actually the spelling should have been 'Aham Brahmasmi'
Aham- I
Brahmasmi- am the world.
But while i was making an id, i was unable to put in aham and i ended up putting 'ahem' instead of aham. So it actually means 'I am the world.' Within me is the world. Truly philosophical isn't it?😳
many many congratulations ahem - Priya ... so the hot seat is yours for this week. enjoy grilling girl.
once again many congos ... 👏
ok, here are my questions .. take your time hon, the grilling has just begun 😉
1. What is your perception of love?
2. What is your perception of hate?
3. Describe yourself in a sentence.
4. Describe me in a sentence.
5. How many best friends do you have?
6. What are the qualities you like about your best friends.
7. What do you want to become in life. What do you want to achieve.
8. If you were Kaajjal, and dev threw you out of his house after his mom's death. What would you have done?
9. If you were Dev and you would have seen Kaajjal as Aditya's wife and in his arms, what would you have done?
10. Your perfect romantic date?
11. Dev or Armaan. Who and why?
12. Do you think jealousy is an integral part of love? OR, do you think, in true love jealousy doesn't stand a chance.
13. What do you like the most in my FFs.
14. What do you like the most in Apoorva, and why?
15. What do you think about life?
Originally posted by: autumnleaf
Okay let me begin the grilling....
Here goes....... I see you love philosophy, so answer away..... 😃
1) What is your idea of Knowledge?Knowledge, according to me is the light which leads us and guides us in the right path. As age goes by and we learn more and more, our knowledge about things around us increases.
Knowledge is really important because, unless there is knowledge, we would tend to end up committing mistakes and from these mistakes we learn and that knowledge adds to our database of knowledge. So this continues for ever.
Knowledge is something we attain with the passing of age and that is one reason why we seek the advice of the elderly people, because they have experience and knowledge.
It is stated in Bhagavath Gita, and Lord Krishna tells Arjuna that knowledge is most important for our life and in attaining moksha. Our Indian culture, always strongly emphasised the importance of attaining knowledge.
Knowledge is what makes you understand the world better. Be it the knowledge of science or day to day affairs or arts. All kind of knowledge help us grow better and mature in life.😳
2) Do you feel there is something there rather than nothing? Why?There is something which came into nothing. First there was nothing and now there is something.😆
If there is no nothing, there won't be something. It is what science too states regarding the evolution of universe. First there was the space and into it was born the universe. So there is something in nothing and nothing can stay without something, but something cannot remain without nothing. If you remove the something and see, there would be nothing left.😆 Hope now we both are totally confused and hope what i said is clear to you.😛
3) Is our world a better place to be in?Yes, Undoubtedly, the world is a better place to live in, because i am having friends like you in this world and without you all, how could i become the MOTW? Kyon sahi bola na? 😛
But it would be the best place to live in, only if we try to make our world the best place to live in. Right now there are a lot of negative points like poverty, unemployment, cruelty, terrorism and corruption. First they should be removed then only will the world be the best place to live.😛
Till then, this world is surely a better place to live.😳
4) What is good and what is evil? Which prevails over the other? Why?If we watch serials like 'Kaajjal', this doubt will be clarified.😆 First Dev and Kaajjal fall in love and evil Ameesha and Karan comes and ruins the whole thing, at that time, evil prevailed over good. Then Kaajjal and Dev ka phir se milan ho gaya, so this time, good prevails over the evil.😳
It is always a tug of war between good and evil. However much initially bad prevails over good, but the final victory will be that of the good. Kyonki that is what all our puranas, history, movies and life in general has taught us and so remain good always like this.😳
5)What does life mean to you?Life means a lot to me, because it is what makes everything so beautiful and lively. A body without life is like a flower without colour, food without taste and a book without knowledge.😛
Life is the essence of everything and it is what makes everything around so loveable. Be it in animals or plants or human beings, life is what makes them look so attractive. Life is that which teaches you to be a better being and that which makes you experience all the various emotions. Life helps you to move ahead into new experiences and think and understand. 😳
Life is specially dear to me because it made me find the most wonderful human beings on earth- My parents. I am really thankful to god for bringing them into my life and also the wonderful people i met in my life like my friends and you Kaajjalians. I learnt a lot from life and experienced the various emotions because of life.😊
We all should be thankful to god, that we are alive, because else, we wouldn't be able to experience the beauty of this world. 😳
Okay take your time and would love to read your answers!!!! 😊
Hey Autumn,
I really enjoyed answering these questions and surely they did make me think more, because these questions were about things, which cannot be put into a few words.
Life, Knowledge, Good and Evil, this world- all are so indefinable, that it is tough to speak about all these in a few words. I know that my POV is not an elaborate one, but i surely did make an attempt to answer your questions to the best of my ability.😳
Hope you liked my answers, but yaar, surely i enjoyed answering these questions. Thanks a lot for the questions and take care.😛
Originally posted by: ahem_brahmasmi
Hey Autumn,
I really enjoyed answering these questions and surely they did make me think more, because these questions were about things, which cannot be put into a few words.
Life, Knowledge, Good and Evil, this world- all are so indefinable, that it is tough to speak about all these in a few words. I know that my POV is not an elaborate one, but i surely did make an attempt to answer your questions to the best of my ability.😳
Hope you liked my answers, but yaar, surely i enjoyed answering these questions. Thanks a lot for the questions and take care.😛
Superb..... very touching and head-on-your-shoulders kind of answers. Simply beautiful. I loved every word and found them apt!!! Thanks a lot for answering each so beautifully. Enjoy and I shall be back with something light the next time round!!!
A round of applause for that....👏
Originally posted by: thesaint148
ok, here are my questions .. take your time hon, the grilling has just begun 😉
1. What is your perception of love?
Love is god. So is there anything or anyone larger, stronger or indescribable as god? 😳
Just like god is omnipresent, omnipotent and omniscient, love is also present everywhere, has all the powers and contains itself in every being.
All living things share the bonding of love and love is what binds them together. There can be no true and lasting relationships without love because love is what makes you, a person who is willing to give oneself to others.
I feel the purest form of love is the one that prevails between the mother and the child, because a woman is putting her life at stake and going through the biggest pain to give birth to her child. The love with which the mother takes care of her baby and protects the baby is the best example of true love.
Waise, films main tho love means the romance between two people. But to me, love between two individuals begins with friendship and mutual trust. So love is what rises from the trust for the ones you love.
We think about them and care for those whom we love most. That is one way to find out whom we love most, because we are always concerned about their well-being and that is when we realise how much our parents love us. Because who is more concerned about us, than our parents?😳
To put it briefly, Love is the essence of life and without love, life is meaningless.😳
2. What is your perception of hate?
Hate is satan. Abhi , when i have said love is god, then hate has to be satan, haina?😆
But surely hatred is the root of all destruction. We destroy the goodness within us, when we hate those around us, even if it be humans, animals or any living thing. 😭
Hatred is like a disease, because it remains in us, but love is the cure and we have to cure ourselves of hatred to truly bring happiness into our lives. 😛
But what if somebody does something to hurt us? Shouldn't we hate them? But truly speaking in my case, i don't hate those who hurt me, but i hate the evil in them.😊
So is hatred a bad thing? No, not completely, because if there is no hatred for evil, no hatred for all the negative things, we wouldn't remove them. 😳
So we need to hate the negative things within us, like the negative qualities within us and we need to cure ourselves of those negative qualities to become better human beings.😊
3. Describe yourself in a sentence.
I am a spiritual, friendly, romantic and crazy person.😳
(odd combination, hai ki nahi?)😆
4. Describe me in a sentence.
Question ka repeat telecast ho gaya kya? Waise koi baat nahi, i will describe 'me' in a sentence.
Me is what makes me differentiate me from you😆
5. How many best friends do you have?
Yaar, abhi tak meri life khatam nahi hui hai, tho keh nahi sakti. Abhi tho too many best friends, yaar, waiting for more to join, you are also welcome.😛
6. What are the qualities you like about your best friends.
I like my best friends because they are themselves. I don't feel that i would like a friend because of any particular qualities. It is just that they are my friends and friendship is all about understanding your friend.
So if you understand them nicely, all the qualities are good. So as far as i am concerned, i like all the qualities in my best friends because i know them really well. I feel that friendship is about accepting your friend as they are.😳
7. What do you want to become in life. What do you want to achieve.
I want to become a good human being in life.😛 I want to achieve love, happiness,satisfaction and peace in life. Because these are the things which money cannot buy. I want others around to be happy for that because i will be happy and will have a peaceful mind, only if others around me are happy.😳
8. If you were Kaajjal, and dev threw you out of his house after his mom's death. What would you have done?
I would've waited for Dev to calm down and i would've done it atleast for the sake of Satya because afterall it is important, not to cause worry to your parents. Waise bhi, it takes time for somebody's wounds to be healed. Dev was so hurt at that time and he was not in his senses.😳
If i were Kaajjal, i would've had the trust that, if god has intended Dev for me, then surely god would bring him back into my life, afterall Dev is my sapno ka rajkumar, kyon sahi kaha na? So i would surely wait for him to calm down, so that i can make him understand lateron and apologise to him, when he is calmer.😳
9. If you were Dev and you would have seen Kaajjal as Aditya's wife and in his arms, what would you have done?
If i were Dev and i had seen Kaajjal as Aditya's wife, i would've naturally felt something is wrong. I would surely have told Adi, about Kaajjal and how Kaajjal was the RJ of Radio city. 😉
Hearing this, Adi would surely have mentioned about Kaajjal's memory loss, as he was interested in knowing about Kaajjal's past and then he would've blurted out the truth that Kaajjal is actually not his wife. Then as Dev, i would tell him the truth about what relationship i had with Kaajjal.😛
Hailaa, you made me think like a guy, yaar.😆
10. Your perfect romantic date?
14th Feb.😆
Jokes apart, i feel that my perfect romantic date if i meet Dev Prathap Singh would be a candlelit dinner like the one DK had,(oo, god i am getting goosebumps remembering our DPS in black suit, mera cute sa knight in shining armour)😆 and if i meet a Raju Rangeela, i would prefer a date with him at a dhaba, hope it would be chameli ka dhaba. Chameli would get so jealous yaar.😆
If both these are not possible, then i prefer to land up at Lonavala on a rainy day with DPS and then have a tabela scene without any goats or jackals around.😆
All these new perfect romantic date ideas, should be accredited to the creative team of 'Kaajjal'.😛
11. Dev or Armaan. Who and why?
Raju Rangeela.😆
Ok, sach boloon tho, i love a mix between Dev, Armaan and Raju Rangeela. Because Dev has the principles which Armaan lacks, Armaan has the jealousy and selfishness which Dev lacks and Raju Rangeela has the craziness, funny accent, funny costumes, masti and filmi-fever which Armaan lacks. 😳
So if i answer Dev, then that would be Raju Rangeela himself. Ok, so then i would be missing out Armaan. 😭
But from both the characters, i prefer Dev among the characters Apu did, because he has the Raju Rangeela within him and the passion and style of Armaan too as the boss. 😛
But yaar, My best answer would be Apurva Agnihotri, because he contains in himself Dev, Raju Rangeela and Armaan, kyon sahi kaha na?😆
So Apurva is the complete man. So if i choose Apurva, i am choosing both Armaan and Dev, hai ke nahi?😛
12. Do you think jealousy is an integral part of love? OR, do you think, in true love jealousy doesn't stand a chance.
Jealousy comes along with insecurity.
1 insecurity hone par, lot of jealousy free. Sounds like Surf ke saath 2 rexona free, haina?😆
Ok, so, Jealousy is an integral part of one-way attraction. But if it is true love, then you won't be jealous even if the one you love, is in love with another person. In true love, you wish for the happiness of those whom you love. So jealousy isn't a part of true love.
If you feel jealousy by seeing your romeo or juliet with another person, then it means that it has all the time been just an attraction.
But you will know that it is true love, when you just wish that whatever happens, the one you love is totally happy. So jealousy is not a part of true love. But surely jealousy plays a role in attraction and lust.
13. What do you like the most in my FFs.
I like the way you weave up the whole situations and the dialogues you put in. Romance truly fills the air and those who read it would naturally wish for such situations in their life too. So that is the best part of your FF's. You make those who read it feel the love, just like you feel it within you, while making them.
14. What do you like the most in Apoorva, and why?
Yaar, this is what i would call grilling. Toughest question of all.😆
I like everything about Apoorva, be it on the physical, mental or emotional sides. Apoorva is a versatile actor and what i appreciate most about him is the way, he puts in his whole soul into his roles. We have a tough time differentiating Dev or Armaan from Apoorva. Because we feel that Apoorva is really Dev or Armaan. But i feel that he is very close to our Raju Rangeela in real, when i saw him on one of his interviews. He is truly a jolly kind of person and quite fun-loving and confident.
I love his facial features especially his eyes and dimples and the way he smiles. He has a sharmeela kind of smile. That smile truly comes from his heart and looks really cute. Don't you feel so?😳
Onscreen, i love the way he romances his leading ladies be it Mona or Surveen, because he totally jells into his character and brings in romance into the air and sizzles up the whole atmosphere. I loved him totally when he was bitter as Dev and behaved rudely with Kaajjal because his face and his expressions are really mind-blowing when he is in gussa.😳
I also loved it when he became tender and when he revealed his love for Kaajjal, those parts were truly superb. After that, when i saw Raju Rangeela, i loved his masti and the way he danced and sang and i loved the lighter side of him. 😛 His dialogues were truly superb, specially the ones which he speaks as the guide. Those scenes still make me double up with laughter.😳
So onscreen i loved Apu totally as an actor and special mention i would like to make about his singing. His voice reminds me at times of Kishoreda or Kumar Sanu, because he sounds just like them, when he sings. I truly feel that Apu should release one album, because i now really want to see him as a full-fledged singer. 😳
I loved Apu's style, dignity and the portrayal of various shades of emotions as Armaan. I recently happened to see some videos of Ugly Betty, but i didn't like the Armando in it. That was when i realised that nobody could do Armaan's role with more perfection than Apoorva.
Hats off to Apu for taking up the role of Armaan and enacting it so well. He put life into the character and every girl around started wishing that she becomes a secretary and get a boss like Armaan, kyon sach haina?😳
Regarding what i like about Apurva offscreen, i would say that i love his dedication to his work, the attention he pays to himself in appearance, to make himself appear so appealing to audiences. I also appreciate the way he takes up time for his fans like Hemadi from IF. I feel that he is truly a down to earth person.
I also like his dedication to Shilpa, because that is one quality i admire in any person. If i find a guy very dedicated to his wife, that makes me a fan of his. So now you know one cause of why i am a fan of Apu. 😆
I love his singing and also his dancing. I loved it when he danced on Nach Baliye with Shilpa and he does his steps with a lot of elegance and in perfect rhythm.
He is a fabulous dancer and he is one actor who looks great in any costume and no wonder he is the second most handsome man according to a poll. But i genuinely feel that he should be crowned the most handsome man on earth. I am really crazy about Apu, hai ke nahi? 😆
If i keep on speaking about Apu, then i won't be able to stop, because the qualities in him are too many. So i am putting a sudden brake here, so that i can jump into the next question, what say?😳
15. What do you think about life?
Zindagi ka safar, hai ye kaisa safar, koi samjha nahi koi jaana nahi.😛 Tho main kaise jaanoongi yaar?😆
Ok, now let me try to give my best explanation, i feel that
Zindagi ek safar hai suhaana, yahan ka kya ho kisne jaana. Hanste gaate jahaan se guzar, duniya ki tu parva na kar😆
So that is one thing i too feel about life, that the journey of life is a beautiful one and we have to move ahead with joy in our hearts and don't worry about what the world says about you. Continue to do your karma and live your life without any high ambitions, because when you have least expectations, what you get will be the most for you. 😳
Zindagi ke safar main guzar jaate hai jo makaam, woh phir nahi aate, woh phir nahi aate. 😆
So that is yet another point i agree to, that is the milestones that we pass by in our life, won't return to us. So live each moment to the fullest and try to get as many experiences as you can, Kyonki,
Maut aani hai, aayegi ek din, jaan jaani hai, jaayegi ek din, aise baaton se kyon khabraana, yahan kal kya ho kisne jaana.
So till death comes against us, there is life and enjoy all the moments and spread love and happiness around as long as you are alive.😳
Yaar, mujhpe bhi ye filmi-fever ka bhoot chad gaya hai, jab se Raju Rangeele ko dekha hai. Tho iska thoda sa asar pada hai. Anyways fikar not, i will be fine after this bhoot leaves me. So till then, i will continue to speak a bit in Raju Rangeela ishtyle 😆
Hey Kashish,
I hope you liked my answers, though i went a bit off-board while answering these questions. Meri answers sunke aap kahi pak tho nahi gayi haina?😆
Waise madamji, mujhe aapki questions bahut pasand aaye hai, aur aage bhi agar koi questions ya doubts aaye aapke mann main na, tho humhi se pooch lena. Tab tak, goodnight, Shabbakhair and take care, and Thanks a lot, Kashishji😳