Perfection is a term which can be used in different ways and instances. Depending upon a persons preferences and believes he or she can think a particular thing or person as perfect or imperfect.
Now that i have talked about the preception of perfection, i will move on to the point under discussion, which has been discussed quiet a lot in different posts "is dev perfect?"
Well, it depends, what's your definition of a perfect person. It is usually said that perfection belongs to God, and if thats the perception, that no human being or living organism in this world will ever come in the category of perfection. so lets move to perfection in humans, for human and God has no comparison, and so perfection must be perceived in two ways: Perfection in God - which is sole and true, and perfection in Human - which is based on perceptions and believes of different individuals.
To me, a perfect man is someone who will always stand by me, who will love me, and be by my side in goods and in bads. Who will tell me my wrongs and will appreciate my rights, who will show me the right way when i am loosing it. And who will love me with a passion beyond words and imagination. Although Dev does have a tendency to be an extremist, which we have witnessed several times, but the best thing about Dev is he loves like crazy. he can go way beyond to support his love and loved ones. he knows how to nibahofy his love. when he loved payal, he build these huge walls around him that no girl can break. but ofcourse nature has its own way of dealing with things, and than kaajjal came and things changed, and this time his love for kaajjal seems like a solid rock which will never ever move. so this time, if anything wrong happens, he will losse it for ever. which he might already have seeing kaajjal in adi's arms as his wife.
but one thing is for sure and i agree with autumn 100%, sonia or whoever, dev will never ever think about another woman, atleast not for the next 10 years. š i am saying 10 years, because as i said, nature has its own games to play and what lies in the future is totally unpredictable, but his love for kaajjal, and i have to mention here, kaajjal's love for dev is something beyond words. had kaajjal been in her senses, she would have never ever allowed adi to even look at her, for she kows she belongs to dev and we have witnessed that when raju was trying to come close to her.
so at that stand, both dev and kaajjal are perfect, because they both know how to love and cherish it. Although Dev does have an extreme personality, but we also saw how gracefully he behaved in thursday's epi. When you see your life shattering around you, and the love of your life, the reason of your existence as someone else's wife, it hard to show such grace and patience, but Dev, he was totally graceful. and we all know, he will never ever do anything that can raise question on her honor and integrity, and THAT'S WHAT MAKES HIM PERFECT!!!
And then when he will find out about her memory loss, he will do every thing to get his kaajjal back and give her all the happiness and love in the world, and THAT'S WHAT MAKES HIM PERFECT!!!
He is a GEM .. The rarest to find ....
