How come??

Pankaj is really blind..what do u guys think when some one love some one so much had spent his life for more than 1 yr .How come He didn't understand about her character..if we be more practical then If Jyoti had relationship with Brij before marriage then she would not been Virgin..and Pankaj should have know that in Honeymoon.

Again, Pankaj understands her, but because of his lack of confidence and because he is thinking with his emotions, he will not take all this into considerations ...

I dont really blame pankaj. Just close your eyes for a moment and imagine your wife/ husband with an ex girl or boy frined in your room. You really do not know if they are holding hands, smiling at each other or glaring at each other. Your eyes are closed, right? Pankaj feels the same way. Brij was in HIS house, with HIS wife, and he can't see them both. Remember, Brij did grab Jyo's hand, wipe his hands on her saree etc. Which husband can tolerate that??

Jyo was a massive fool to have kept something like this from P in the first place. Even if she kept quiet, she should have slapped Brij and thrown him out of the house on the day Pankaj brought him in. Even if on that day, she had told that this fella is a bad egg, pankaj would have trusted her. She lied too much and went too far.

I don't blame her fate. I just wish she was not stuck with that money sucking Padma

But Jyoti always tried to avoid but Pankaj usually force him to be friendly with him

Pankaj had no idea of Jyoti's history w/ Brij. Had he done so, he'd have been a lot more suspicious of Brij. At any rate, mahmansma is right - Jyoti should have slapped Brij the first time he caught her hand at the dining table. Problem was that since she was still trying to conceal this from Pankaj until she got an opportunity to tell him, she just had to put up with his behavior.

While Jyoti is ultimately the one responsible, I blame Kalpana, as well as the Sharmas, for encouraging her to lie. For KK to complain about his izzat being under assault is the height of pretentiousness.