Women do feel and fall passionately in love too...but, that is not the kind of love jodha seems to be feeling for Jalal...her definition of love seems to be general companionship and folowing all duties...
He definitely feels much more strongly for her and he knows it...hence the insecurity too...that is why he reacts so adversely everytime he thinks jodha is doing something against him...
I dont know if Jodha would be able to love him like a woman head over heels in love would...till date, i havent seen it...it more duty, sowbhagya chinha and friendship ๐
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