Jodhu ka jallu is a liar: is he scared of Ruqu or rejection - Page 3

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Posted: 11 years ago
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he is scared of rejection...he just realized his love..but what if Jodha again rejects him..this thought roams in his mind..this time he cannot take it..he will shatter, his confidence will go down..his love is new hence fragile...he is trying his best to find out what is in Jodha's heart..unless he is sure of her feelings, he will not confess.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think he is scare of rejection.
He does not know how to express his feeling to her so instead of talking to her,he does thing to irrate her.
Only time will tell with these two.
Maybe this trip will bring about a difference in them.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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How can he tell to her when 2 days back he is ready to get married with BEN... If she is not a Vishkanya he would have married her..How can he say Mohobbat words when Jo just came back to life .. He doesn't know if she loves him or not, he doesn't know how she will react ...

But talking to Jo on friday he got assurance that JOdha did this out of love, she has feelings for him & now she also wants love & be his wife.. Before he tell JO of his love he has to assurance Jodha he love her only by showing his love as concern, giving respect & sharing understanding each other...So it's good that both JJ take some time to express their love for that they need to have blind faith & trust, understanding & no fear of rejection..

Jalaal fall in love with her from the first look but it was deepened after his birthday & after shove with BEN his eyes & thoughts revolved around JO... Both realised their feelings when they are faced the fear of loosing the other, while JO feared she may loose Jalaal life in BEN while Jalaal seeing JO in death bed...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good post but i disagree. jalal has never experienced love in a true sense. He has many wives but they are attached to him for various reasons, ruks for her auda, salima for security etc. he has never married for love, even jodha's marriage was political angle. he has been brainwashed into believing he does not have a heart and would have still had it not been for jodha. He is used to getting his own way (right or wrong) with his harem women. Jalal fell inlove with jodha long before benazir pitched but he did not recognise it as love, that is why he reacted o bitterly when she pushed him away that fateful night, a man only inlove would react so, especially since he bared his feeling to hers only to be rejected with a harsh I do not love you Shahensha by jodha.
The fear of losing her forever made him realise what he truly feels for jodha, but his is also afraid of rejection, he is a shahensha, he cannot allow to whither in self pity therefore he hides what he feels because he knows he cant turn back, his heart now beats for jodha, he has found his heart and love and he'd rather live in suspense of her feelings than be rejected outright.
Dont mean to offend anyone
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Liar he is, I think for one thing he is scared of trusting someone completely. Hence, the dilly-dally.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Parijatrocks

what does it mean i dint get once bitten twice shy?????

please elaborate

i agree...once he has tried to confess...or i shall say...almost confessed...that night... bt got BRUTALLY rejected...🄱🄱n now again he's afraid of bearing rejection again...as he always says...he doesn't do the same mistake twice...i mean...once he's hurt...can't bear it again cozz...this tym he's soo madly in love with her...if she rejects...he would be shattered......so this tym jodhu has to come forward...he won't come at all...so yeah...i guess he's afraid of GETTING REJECTED AGAIN!!!!

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