We should give times to Jodha.

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AbHer_neha

@AbHer_neha

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: john909
people who are bashing jodha today have given her enough time and most of the forum has supported her stupid tantrums and mistakes. even when she endangered jalal's life. so what is wrong if she gets a little bashing today. today for the first time she understood a bit about what being a king really is and how heavy that crown is. something she should have tried to understand herself. she has never made any efforts to accept her circumstances or behave in a mature way till today in that crown scene. so enough of understanding. she deserves what she got from jalal today. jalal never says much abt himself but today her stupid amer checklist blew the lid off and jalal's anger came out. she needs to come out of her amer world and start thinking like a queen atleast if she cant be a wife.

Try to understand her...she has seen the positive side of Jalal and she's not able to digest the fact that the person she hates so much can be so nice to arrange her sister's marriage and to bow at Kaali Maa temple...she's purposely strengthening her hatred for Jalal lest she should fall for him...as Vicky said subconsciously she cares for him so her conscious mind will never let her showing care for his enemy..

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pooja

@uppaas

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Posted: 11 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: tamy267

both JJ have high egos ! Jodha was concerned issi liye wo gayi...agar chinta nahi hoti she would have never started with "aap Amer chod ke chale jaiye..aapki jaan kahtre mein hai..uss din Nauka vihar mein bhi aap par akramann hua tha" see no need to bring boat ride here if she was only worried for Sukanya's marriage...Jalal ne jab uski fav sawal poocha tab Jodha apne ghrina mode pe vapas agayi...coz for a minute her guard was off and she literally was worried for her hubby...only Jalal ke sawal se use yaad aya she has put her guard on!
later yes, I agree she was very mean...lekin Jalal ne bhi toh usko enemy bola na..she felt it...usko gussa aya aur counter attack kiya...aaj dono ne ek doosre ko bash kiya...like I said both have high egos...
but its also true both care for each other😊

Well I dont find her caring for Jalal < Jalal has done enough for to change her opnion abt him but she is not only egoistical but a veerrryyy harsh person...and her parents forced her to marry Jalal not vice a versa..NOt fond of this Jodha ab kal she is going to get more nasty with him

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sonia_1

@sonia_1

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Posted: 11 years ago

#23

Nice post 👍🏼

Jalal and Jodha, both have their ego and pride to contend with...she was worried for him when she mentioned the the boat incident , its only when Jalal asks if she cares for him, that she goes back to her Ameri izzat rant...their love story is complicated for sure 😆

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ILTHBEB

@ILTHBEB

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Posted: 11 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: SoniLuvsRT

Yaah,totally agree with u ... she needs sum time to understand jalal... & we have to give her that much time... her hate,her anger is right ... but nt today... i say 2day her behaviour was totally heartbreaking,her words r so harsh even i can't digest... At least as a human being she should to show sum care for jalal..nt all the time gussa ... even he speaks calmly with her she starts debate with him... i used to try to understand her turmoil bt 2day i m totally dishearten with the way she behaived wit jalal...

i know she was slight ruthless with Jalal but may b she vacillated with this sudden situation, perhaps doing rude behavior she wanted to convince jalal's discarding amer,probably she was not in situation of thinking what wl happen if again shukanya's marriage breaks..these all chaotic thought were come out as rude before Jalal.

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ILTHBEB

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Posted: 11 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: tamy267

agreed ! I'm not at all angry on Jodha or Jalal..I'm enjoying their nok-jhoks...yes I know Jalal has already fallen in love...but we cant deny Jodha's care for him...she cares for him..its just that she has a high ego..and her ego is not letting her to accept that Jalal matters to her..today when she ran to Jalal's chamber it was from her concern for him, not for Amer ki izzat or Sukanya ki shaadi...varna she would have never mentioned boat ride incident. Just when Jalal asksthe question that snaps her to reality and allher emotions take a backseat...she comes back to her ghrina mode...
</div><div>Jalal ko Jodha ki jitni fikar hai utni hi fikar Jodha ko bhi hai...she has proved it many times...be it tiger track, marham rubbing track or warning Jalal about his enemies coz of his visiting toKali mandir..

exactly..u have said all..there is no necessary again jodha's to prove her caring for jalal that she has already shown even jalal also knew it but wanted to hear frm her mouth which won't come easily frm jodha for her highly prejudice.

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Mihrimah Ahmed

@ShadeOfWhite

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Posted: 11 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: AbHer_neha

Try to understand her...she has seen the positive side of Jalal and she's not able to digest the fact that the person she hates so much can be so nice to arrange her sister's marriage and to bow at Kaali Maa temple...she's purposely strengthening her hatred for Jalal lest she should fall for him...as Vicky said subconsciously she cares for him so her conscious mind will never let her showing care for his enemy..

exactly !👏

her hatred for him is evaporating and she is trying tooth and nail to hate him but she is unable no matter how much she tries..

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ILTHBEB

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Posted: 11 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: naneta
i always write in my post tht i wanna gv Jodha's character a benefit of doubt,..bt in today's epi..she ws actually very rude...
nw waitin fr their luv story to strt soon...

enjoy na present track..if they both fall in luv so easily what wl remain in story line then! SR then Salim after the long misunderstanding n ekta's mu track sai hundred times better hai ye present track.

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ILTHBEB

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Posted: 11 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: uppaas
Sorry I dont agree with u the problem is no 1 wants her to love her husband buton humitarin grounds she can be sensitive to the guy who could have been killed today...
All she thought abt is Amer , sukanya...and what more u dont telll a person on his face that he is alone
in the world and every 1 hates him and she pities him!!!!

Come on is she good human being also????????????????

her tension for jalal was drawn on her face at time when jalal was pacifying his hawai but 1 matter is in human's instinct, sometimes inner turmoil brings as anger in behavior of human being before person n just this has happened with jodha today..but in turmoils jodha's caring for jalal was also included.

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john909

@john909

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Posted: 11 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: AbHer_neha

Try to understand her...she has seen the positive side of Jalal and she's not able to digest the fact that the person she hates so much can be so nice to arrange her sister's marriage and to bow at Kaali Maa temple...she's purposely strengthening her hatred for Jalal lest she should fall for him...as Vicky said subconsciously she cares for him so her conscious mind will never let her showing care for his enemy..

well, ok point taken. have never said that jodha should have fallen in love wid him. but the way she behaves wid him does not suit her considering he is her husband and a king.i am not saying she should roll over for him but there is a thing called manners and decency. today she went to jalal not out of concern, she went coz of hyperwati's concerns. if she was even a bit concerned for jalal she would not have waited for hyperwati's talks. its just that i dont like it when jalal bears the brunt of her confused state. i am pretty sure that the misunderstanding created by shariffudin is gonna bite jalal even though he is not at fault and some drama would be created in sukanya's marriage for which jalal would be blamed. if jodha does not trust him at that point i am gonna give up on her coz right now i understand her confused state (after reading your post) but i expect her to trust jalal at that time.

Edited by john909 - 11 years ago

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Shraddha

@lashy

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Posted: 11 years ago

#30

Then, they should at least show a scene where she's talking to herself...thinking to herself...pondering on her dilemmas...reflecting on some flash-backs etc ...something to show an inner battle...

Right now other than a few blushes here and there (and that too for compliments paid to her)...there's still nothing to show that she thinks positively about him as a man...

and apart from that tiger rescue mission (for which she was anyway responsible) she's done no deed to show she has any concern...

We are taught to thank and apologize to even those that we cannot stand...this is her husband, after all...a man, who's done more than needed to try and keep up his end of the bargain!

Many are saying that this love story is slow, layered and complex...I have no issue about her not falling for him...my issue with her is about showing common decency...decency we show even to strangers!😕Isn't this the Emperor we're talking about...

Having said that, I also don't like how he over-indulges her...if he'd been kind yet stern in not allowing her to speak to him such from the very beginning, she wouldn't be speaking to him so rudely (without justification!)

My heart really wept for the guy today..he deserved no such treatment from her...Jo knows not how lucky she is!

Edited by lashy - 11 years ago