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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: a4j4ever

the even bigger question is would jassi even care to ask for forgiveness?😛

tut..tut..mahatmas dont make misatkes..no mistake..no forgiveness...😉

and an even more bigger question is that shud we KICK jassi out of JJKN ???? 😡

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Posted: 19 years ago
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But the question here is different nelam,we say that if she know tht she's right,then why on earth does she KEEP RUNNING AWAY ????????

doesnt she have the GUTS to face everyone if she's done sumthing right ??????????
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Nelam, so I can see that you would have no problems with a half naked lady with a pink tolia only wrapped around her waste hanging off your hubby... 😛
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Posted: 19 years ago
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😆 nelam lagta hai ke tum arman suri se nafrat karti ho!! im only kidding 😉 ,alot of what u said makes sense but like the others i have to say the same thng and that is that at least armaan doesnt claim 2b a devta or mahaan!!!-and we seem 2b arguing over bth armaan and jassi bt guyz they are bth a perfect match-bth of them also lack in the brain dept! 😊
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nelam

Well I don't think my situation will ever be like that of yours😆😆

The situation like mine??? 😕 Where I caught the guy and stood up to him? 😕 Our relationship wasn't even serious...😕


Secondly I will never fall for a man when before hand i know about his playboy nature & that he is engaged..

I would agree with you except when it comes to the matters of the heart, you never know where your heart leads you. You cannot control your heart. You can control your mind to do the right thing but your heart is your heart. Things didn't even work out between Armaan and Mallika so for Jassi and Armaan to give it a try is quite all right. People come together in so many different ways...through arranged marriage...through disliking one another, but growing on each other...love at first site. In today's society...most people have been in a relationship before they come together.

third yes! I will never like any man who is like Armaan who never trust anyone..

Personally, I don't believe in trust. You can be like Armaan and never trust or you could be like Purab and appear trustworthy and let someone down at the last minute. No one on JJKN is trust worthy...not Armaan, not Billu, not even Amrit or Bebe and especially not Jassi. They change colors faster than a chamelion.

& fourthly if I see my hubby in that situation I will take him to task then & there & wont wait for second day to ask questions in form of riddles...but be straight forward...and if i know that a man loves just me & cannot fall for anyone else (as I am no dumb like Armaan) & since I have already taken action on that very day there is no question of forgiveness as I will know on spot mazra kya hai!!!!

I don't quite understand what you are saying here. I do agree that if I caught my husband in such a situation I would ask him what is going on. I know that he would not answer in riddles...cuz normal people don't such things unless they are guilty of something.

Jassi can love Armaan with all her heart, but if she wanted to, she could have slept with CJ. Why not? Sh** happens and at anytime Jassi could sleep with whomever she wants to. Her character is never consistent. For Armaan to question is normal...but he at least he stood up and said, "hey what is going on here?" Jassi took the cowardly way out. If she wanted to represent the middle class woman. She would have stood her ground too. One nights stands are way to common especially in the upper class society. It has happened one too many times in too many people's lives. The media, the movies condone such behavior so as CJ said, "things happen!" Anyway, I don't worry about such things as no one has control over such things and that is just part of life.

Having said this, I would like to bring up a point someone on IF made. I don't remember who said this...but as divorce rates amongst indian people are growing by leaps and bounds, Jassi and Armaan should have discussed the situation rather than Jassi answer in riddles and run away.They both would have worked things out and questioned CJ. Unfortunately, Armaan trusted CJ blindly and so did Jassi.


The problems occuring between Jassi & Armaan would always stay that after marriage aur shaadi key baad biwi bhaagey usey to acha hai ki paheley hi
Bhaag gayi.

Now I really don't understand....what couples don't have their share of problems? Ladies, out there...do any of you have a perfect relationship? I spend plenty of time bickering with my hubby...he leaves his clothes and crap laying around...I have to ask him 10 times to take the garbage out...sometimes he doesn't hear me when he is watching TV...does that mean mein bhaag jaoon?? I don't know how to make a relationship work so mein bhaag jaoon? I don't know how to handle my sh** so mein bhaag jaoon...naam badalun?

As I have said earlier also an intellegent & sensible girl like Jassi who had to run away thrice because of one man clearly states her state of mind each time she felst cheated by her love, his mistrust..He had caused mental trauma to mall.

First off, Mall is causing mental problems to herself. If she doesn't trust him...why is she still hanging on to him like a leech? She ain't much smarter than Jassi. Jassi runs away because she doesn't know how to handle her problems...not because she feels cheated. If she feels cheated then why doesn't she confront Armaan??? Why doesn't she tell him to get out of her life? The only intelligent and sensible choice Jassi made was not going with Purab...cuz first off he left her and then he wasn't honest enough either. He was sick and never told her. Maybe she would have pitied and married him.

also earlier so I hate such man who likes playing with women's emotion & vice vers i.e. the same way I hated jassi earlier when she lied to mall. that Armaan belongs only to mall but flirted with him quietly

I am not sure if you know this, but the story was supposed to be the same as BLF. Armaan was supposed to be this way...Jassi, no comment. It would have been nice, if it would have stayed par to BLF, but alas, tiffenduffer have completely messed it up. All I have to say to this is ...please move on....the show has gone on. We have all moved on. Even Purab has moved on.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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wha wha wha Subann Alla.(my hindi is rally bad so i,m sorry for mispell.) jp tum ajj sab khe diya......... i,m so oooo happy. 👏
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: a4j4ever

the even bigger question is would jassi even care to ask for forgiveness?😛

tut..tut..mahatmas dont make misatkes..no mistake..no forgiveness...😉

Well said A4j, Jassi is mahan where as whatever Armaan does he runs he stays he is called a loser.....

And JP that was brilliant....

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Aishah/Ashish, I really don't know what would happen if the situation reversed. All I know is that I wouldn't be as mad because there is a difference between Armaan and Jassi's family. I haven't watch the earlier episodes so I am not that certain but from what I have been seeing it doesn't seem like Armaan nd his family are that close like Jassi nd her family. I hate the fact that Jassi ran away leaving behind a beautiful family who supports her 100%
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Posted: 19 years ago
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No I would not have forgiven Armaan if he would have done what Jassi has done. There is no way, I am a hard-core Armaan fan but what is wrong will remain wrong regardless of what.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Nelam wrote, "Well in a very simple way: Love is not a Trial & if you have control over your mind you will certainly have a control over ur heart in terms of your action is good or bad.
Why should I give trial to a love only by thinking :oh well Armaan doesn't love Mallika let me give a try if my chance of loving Armaan works especially after meeting with so much insults earlier. and moreever if the discussion started with that I would be okay with seeing a half naked women with my husband then it should not end giving the example of Purab or BLF..it makes no sense where opinion in true life is counted. and about riddle .yes Armaan did wait for so many days to question & that also not straightforward to what he saw..how would Jassi know until & unless he tells her what he saw. did'nt he see her sleeping deep. so if he puta question in riddle he got the answer in riddle. jassi ran away but what Armaan did to save his face is okay..this is what a true love does..beleive on the piece of paper given by CJ..everyone talked a lot about Prenup that well it is just a piece of paper which will not break a true love so was'nt CJ's paper just a piece of paper..how could Armaan beleive it.. why he did'nt have mind to think that Jassi was all set to get married but left only after that slap..was'nt his duty to try to find out the truth rather insult her parents & declare Jassi dead..wah bhai wah..

Moreover if you glorify a character too much or fall in love with the face in your case Armaan, his all action looks justified....& all justification given is biased.. either end up compareing with Purab (another way to take out frustration on ppl. who writes against Armaan) on give example of BLF..."

Nelam, whoa wait a minute. A couple of points, the way tiffenduffer tell their stories...one day lasts two weeks and so to me it seems that Armaan didn't wait all that long to question Jassi. We just had to wait one year because the directors are on ganja and everything is in slow motion for them.

Armaan didn't question Jassi in riddles. He asked her, "what was CJ doing in your room?" What kind of riddle is that? Please someone tell me. Who cares if Jassi was deep asleep? For all anyone knows CJ could have just covered a naked Jassi with a blanket. He was still hanging off her with that pink tolia. If tiffenduffer didn't show us CJ's wrong intentions, then I would have thought, "oh, ok, Jassi decided to have a one night stand with CJ, cuz she had nothing better to do." It happens all the time. Armaan and Jassi were both in the wrong, but the problem is that all the blame was laid on Armaan and that is just not cool. Ultimately CJ is the one responsible. He created all this mess for no reason. He had no reason to butt in. Who is he...I mean a friend that no one ever heard of. Wow, what a hateful friend...go figure only Purab would have such hateful people around him. CJ get a life.

Like I said, we all fall in love different ways, you probably wouldn't have fallen in love with a man who was already engaged, probably I wouldn't have either. There are some who would have fallen in love and things may or may not work out, but why should one feel bad for falling in love. I don't see anything wrong with falling in love. There was still nothing wrong with Jassi falling in love with Armaan. It is to better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.

Jassi never expected anything from him. She even put together his engagement party and if she lied for him, she covered up for him as well. Jassi even sent Mallika and Armaan to a marriage counselor. When Jassi and Armaan finally got together...he was not even with Mallika anymore. If I was Mallika's true friend, I would never force her to go with someone who didn't love her. I wouldn't be a good friend or person.

I am not taking my frustration out on people who write against Armaan. In fact, I enjoy this more than I enjoy hearing all the praising of Jassi and her retarded actions and reactions. I don't glorify Armaan, but there is no reason to glorify Jassi. I don't think Armaan is godly and I do think Jassi needs to stop thinking that she can do no wrong. I do think that Jassi needs to repent and it is high time that she do so, because none of us humans can relate to her inconsistencies. Anyway, it doesn't matter, Jassi is dead, Armaan is dead, Purab is dead and BLF is dead.

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