Originally posted by: Nelam
Well I don't think my situation will ever be like that of yours😆😆
The situation like mine??? 😕 Where I caught the guy and stood up to him? 😕 Our relationship wasn't even serious...😕
Secondly I will never fall for a man when before hand i know about his playboy nature & that he is engaged..
I would agree with you except when it comes to the matters of the heart, you never know where your heart leads you. You cannot control your heart. You can control your mind to do the right thing but your heart is your heart. Things didn't even work out between Armaan and Mallika so for Jassi and Armaan to give it a try is quite all right. People come together in so many different ways...through arranged marriage...through disliking one another, but growing on each other...love at first site. In today's society...most people have been in a relationship before they come together.
third yes! I will never like any man who is like Armaan who never trust anyone..
Personally, I don't believe in trust. You can be like Armaan and never trust or you could be like Purab and appear trustworthy and let someone down at the last minute. No one on JJKN is trust worthy...not Armaan, not Billu, not even Amrit or Bebe and especially not Jassi. They change colors faster than a chamelion.
& fourthly if I see my hubby in that situation I will take him to task then & there & wont wait for second day to ask questions in form of riddles...but be straight forward...and if i know that a man loves just me & cannot fall for anyone else (as I am no dumb like Armaan) & since I have already taken action on that very day there is no question of forgiveness as I will know on spot mazra kya hai!!!!
I don't quite understand what you are saying here. I do agree that if I caught my husband in such a situation I would ask him what is going on. I know that he would not answer in riddles...cuz normal people don't such things unless they are guilty of something.
Jassi can love Armaan with all her heart, but if she wanted to, she could have slept with CJ. Why not? Sh** happens and at anytime Jassi could sleep with whomever she wants to. Her character is never consistent. For Armaan to question is normal...but he at least he stood up and said, "hey what is going on here?" Jassi took the cowardly way out. If she wanted to represent the middle class woman. She would have stood her ground too. One nights stands are way to common especially in the upper class society. It has happened one too many times in too many people's lives. The media, the movies condone such behavior so as CJ said, "things happen!" Anyway, I don't worry about such things as no one has control over such things and that is just part of life.
Having said this, I would like to bring up a point someone on IF made. I don't remember who said this...but as divorce rates amongst indian people are growing by leaps and bounds, Jassi and Armaan should have discussed the situation rather than Jassi answer in riddles and run away.They both would have worked things out and questioned CJ. Unfortunately, Armaan trusted CJ blindly and so did Jassi.
The problems occuring between Jassi & Armaan would always stay that after marriage aur shaadi key baad biwi bhaagey usey to acha hai ki paheley hi
Bhaag gayi.
Now I really don't understand....what couples don't have their share of problems? Ladies, out there...do any of you have a perfect relationship? I spend plenty of time bickering with my hubby...he leaves his clothes and crap laying around...I have to ask him 10 times to take the garbage out...sometimes he doesn't hear me when he is watching TV...does that mean mein bhaag jaoon?? I don't know how to make a relationship work so mein bhaag jaoon? I don't know how to handle my sh** so mein bhaag jaoon...naam badalun?
As I have said earlier also an intellegent & sensible girl like Jassi who had to run away thrice because of one man clearly states her state of mind each time she felst cheated by her love, his mistrust..He had caused mental trauma to mall.
First off, Mall is causing mental problems to herself. If she doesn't trust him...why is she still hanging on to him like a leech? She ain't much smarter than Jassi. Jassi runs away because she doesn't know how to handle her problems...not because she feels cheated. If she feels cheated then why doesn't she confront Armaan??? Why doesn't she tell him to get out of her life? The only intelligent and sensible choice Jassi made was not going with Purab...cuz first off he left her and then he wasn't honest enough either. He was sick and never told her. Maybe she would have pitied and married him.
also earlier so I hate such man who likes playing with women's emotion & vice vers i.e. the same way I hated jassi earlier when she lied to mall. that Armaan belongs only to mall but flirted with him quietly
I am not sure if you know this, but the story was supposed to be the same as BLF. Armaan was supposed to be this way...Jassi, no comment. It would have been nice, if it would have stayed par to BLF, but alas, tiffenduffer have completely messed it up. All I have to say to this is ...please move on....the show has gone on. We have all moved on. Even Purab has moved on.